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702flyguy 1440 reads
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Sorry for the alias, I know that bothers some but I need honest opinions being that I have seen a handful of lovely women who sometimes frequent the board and don't want that to sway any answers in a particular direction. Ok here is my dilemma, I have a work function to attended in a few weeks in vegas and figured I would bring my brother along because he has never been. He knows I travel there on business and pretty sure he knows I have seen a lady or two, he just doesn't know how many times I have seen them though. He keeps hinting at the idea that he might like to spend an evening with an escort and I know he is a newbie and has never done this before. I worried he might get let down or stood up when the fun begins because he has somewhat of a skin problem. Its mostly acne and old scars and blemishes from when we were younger. Now I don't know how bad it is down below the waist area because I haven't seen his stuff since we were kids in the tub but I would imagine there is some there as well. Now he probably doesn't see it as a problem because he is use to it but I'm afraid if he chooses to see a lady she will. What would you do in that situation, is it a date killer or does that sort of thing not matter to you? I'm sure this has happened to a couple of you in the past, how do you handle it? I don't want his first experience to be disappointing when the time comes to get down to business and the lady rejects him and walks out the door. Should I let him just go for it and let him find out on his own or should I try to keep him from trying all together, or give him info on some ladies I know he would enjoy. Am I overthinking this too much? Any input you ladies could give would be appreciated. thanks

702touch834 reads

my take on this is strict honesty...if you are comfortable with the ladies you know then it should not be hard to have this discussion...talk to him about it...if he chooses one then he needs to let them be aware of the situation so she can choose at that moment to see him or not, not when his pants are down...i believe a lot of us are understanding of different situations...you are just gonna have to do a little more research and talk to a lot more to find the one right for him

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702flyguy488 reads

Thanks for your honesty, I did mention it to one particular lady that I knew I could ask without it being awkward between us afterwards. I'm sure she has already read this post. She suggested that maybe if perhaps I wanted to do a threesome type of arrangement she would be ok , but I really have no desire to do a mmf with another guy let alone my brother. Still have a couple of weeks so I will play it by ear and see if he brings up the subject again. I just don't want him to go and call some backpage rip off and get caught up in some kind of mess. I would rather hook him up with someone I know. Thanks again

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hollydavis712 reads

I am sure this is a touchy subject but a lot of us have compassion and work with lots of situations. I would be happy to meet either of you

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702flyguy437 reads

Well thanks Holly , little do you know your already on my radar!! Just not this trip though , I have to cram about a weeks worth of work in a three day period. But I will be back in the fall after this trip for some me time.

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hollydavis271 reads

Well thank you sir! I look forward to your next trip to Sin City. maybe we can sin a little together! :-)

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Well thanks Holly , little do you know your already on my radar!! Just not this trip though , I have to cram about a weeks worth of work in a three day period. But I will be back in the fall after this trip for some me time.
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SerenaVincente576 reads

agreed! Select ladies and ask them directly  

Good luck xxx

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AlwaysLaRue483 reads

I have seen and welcome so many type of clients and have even spent time with a quadriplegic who had to use a speak and spell type thing to talk...Its a part of what we do, making those who may feel uncomfortable, feel comfy. Besides, at the end of the day, us girls are only human also, and we all have non perfect parts.

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LasVegan586 reads

How close are you and your brother?  Why not come clean with him and tell him what you have in mind.  Then find a direct, yet tactful way to ask him about his acne.

Then contact one of the provider's you feel comfortable with.  Once you know his situation, you can share it with her to find out what she would be comfortable with.........then you will have options to share with your brother and decide where you need to "sugar coat" it.

This way you get to manage expectation all around.........and make sure your brother maximizes his possibilities.

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backatyou459 reads

Does imply a solid relationship with you and your brother for it to be effective but I love the pragmatic approach of being open since he is your brother. I think given that brotherly relationship, family would be one of the last people to judge you and then you can reciprocate his trust with some solid advice by looking out for him as he potentially gets his first experience in this hobby. Best of luck to you.

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LasVegan668 reads

Gave you what I thought would be relevant advice..........but it never got posted.  Guess you will have to check with the censorship patrol.

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IHeartLV521 reads

With all the nonsense that is occasionally thrown around on the message boards I have to say that this thread is exactly why these message boards are pertinent.  We have a hobbyist who is looking out for his brother in a very delicate situation and we have providers who are giving straight forward and compassionate responses.  This is what these forums are for.  I normally don't chime in but this is one of the reasons I use TER.

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BellaLABBW340 reads

I'm sorry this is stressful...I know as a brother you are trying to make sure he is treated kindly and has some Vegas fun...

If his hygiene is good, no STD's , and he is a respectful  gent, I don't know why a girl would "reject him" upon seeing him... this isn't match.com

I once I had visiting client with a fibrosis, the one with small tumors..he was super sweet and gave me a heads up so I understood it wasn't contagious and I wasn't "shocked".  He became a regular when visiitng CA.

Maybe since I am a bbw girl I am less superficial and more compassionate...I've had amazing looking clients that I had little chemsitry with and average joes who were amazingly fun...Chemistry is crucial with any play scenario....

Let us know how it goes..

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