How long do you give a provider the benefit of the doubt?  On three separate occaisons I had the same provider no show.  There were viable excuses attached to all three occaisons or at least I thought they were viable excuses.  I don't want to get into specifics because I do feel this lady tried her best to make our last appointment happen as we exchanged 83 texts during the evening and this is a provider who is in the top 25 with well over 70 glowing reviews.  Is it just bad timing on my part or is there something I am missing?  I realize there are many amazing ladies out there but there was something about this particular lady that I just wanted to meet and have wanted to meet for a long time yet it just wasn't meant to be.  I have relayed this story to a great provider whom I have seen many times and she was horrified by the turn of events.  I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience?  Thanks.

"Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me".

You've already given her enough chances, sacrificing "the benefit of the doubt". Plenty of great TER reviewed LV providers out there---my advice : move on & find someone else.

It's funny cause I thought that saying went,

"Fool me once, ummm, umm, ummm, can't get fooled again."
        GWB

but that's me, Is it bad timing ? Nope, is it something your missing ? yes. You're thinking to much with the little head, start thinking with the big one. We all know, shit happens, but not 3 times. As one of the previous posts mentioned, LV has perhaps the best group of providers going. There's gotta be some other provider that floats your boat and will show up. Good luck

They are sooo many other ladies that are willing to see you the FIRST time and not keep dragging you along.
Thats not right she canceled on you 3 times leaving you wondering how your going to have fun Not cool.
Let her go find another girl that will show up and move on after the second  time not showing up it was a wrap.


I wish you the best
xoox
Krystal Love

to see if she had a pattern of no call no showing? This scenario sounds painfully familiar. Put her handle in the search function and go back about 500 days.

Absolutely!  Which is why I am perplexed.  As I mentioned she is in the top 25 with well over 70 reviews and not one mentioned this pattern I experienced.  So it must be me!!!

with a Vegas provider who has lots of reviews here.  On two separate occasions we had dates scheduled and they were scheduled weeks in advance of my arriving in Vegas.  On both occasions she calls the day of the date with some lame bullshit story about having had to go to the dentist and was in a lot of pain.  

Funny thing was she sure could talk and had no problem carrying on a conversation.  I know when I have been to the dentist the last thing I want to do is talk.  And on both occasions, she attempted to pimp off her 'girlfriends' to me.

I am assuming that she had a better opportunity to make money with a longer date as I had only requested a one hour meeting.  At any rate, I gave her a second chance and she only repeated her behavior from the first time.  

I will never, ever call her again.

Good question.  I would, most of the time, give 1 second chance.  And, did, in both of my NCNS cases.  One worked out well.  The other, NCNS the second time.  Not seeing her, ever.
To each their own.  Some are OK with no second chances.  Others, it's OK to give them.

We've all made mistakes in life, nobody's perfect.  She may be going through hard times in her personal life, dealing with health issues, family issues, who knows?  If she has so many great reviews and a solid reputation, there is probably something going on her life that she is struggling with.  Give her the benefit of the doubt.

It goes both ways, however... she should offer some way to make it up to you in the future.  Hopefully you will get to meet her when the stars are aligned.

Keep a soft heart.  Life feels better that way.

Your such a sweetheart and have taught me so much.If she only knew what she was missing all three times.

Thank you!!!  You are the special person in so many ways and thank you for constantly bringing a smile to my face!

I've got another old saying: once is an accident, twice is a trend, three times is a problem. My advice to you is to fold the tent on this one. Trust me I know it stinks when you have your heart set on somebody and for whatever reason it just doesn't happen. But it's time to move on here. Don't set yourself up for any more disappointment. Sometimes you just have to write something off, unfortunately.

If there is a silver lining in this perhaps it is that this one went wrong before you spent any money. Happy hunting.