So... I thought I would try something new in my busy life and actually go out with civilians. It's been awhile since I tried or even cared due to my busy business. Honestly, I spent my 4th of July with some incredible Provider hotties in LV at their party... spent the whole night just having fun drinking and getting to know them... had a blast.... then shipped off back to Chicago for some personal business a couple of days later. (I'm originally from Chicago but technically call Las Vegas home.)
Extended Trip... met up with friends in Chicago to take somewhat of a break from the LV business and get away. And hell.... let's see what I could "do". Face it... Chicago hotties are hot... LOL...
Quite frankly.... Let's be honest with each other. Providers are the easy way out of really trying when it comes to the whole GF thing and I've certainly been spoiled. Little did I realize JUST how VALUABLE Providers are and why I now CERTAINLY APPRECIATE them even more.
Read On...
Date #1) Went to a popular club and ended up catching on to the googly eyes checking me out. She's actually my age. Bought her a drink. Bought her another drink. Ending up buying another round of drinks. In well over $75 in drinks. Cool... we are having a good time and she's a cutie blonde with blue eyes. 5'9" and makes heads turn. Set up for another date to go out to eat that she sets up for the next night and I'm all for making her happy. Of course... I end up sleeping by myself for the night.
Hit the restaurant to meet up with her... of course apps. are at $15+ a pop just starting off. The "chipper" chicken (lol!) starts off at $45 a pop but of course... who the fuck wants chicken going out? Wine, deserts, and cha-ching! -- In over $250 for dinner. Cool... no worries... except for the fact the chick could not keep a story straight about who she was and what she did. Basically.... I had a dinner with a Bi-polar whacko that by the end of the date, I was just happy to tip toe out of there without getting knifed. Pretty crazy ... Nice to meet you with a peck on the cheeks.... Gotta go as I watched my back on the way to my ride. CRAZY!
Date #2) Hanging out with the boys at a local bar just getting all messed up playing pool/ darts, etc. Super Hottie comes up to me and next thing we know.... we are having a blast together. Turns out she is older then I am and before you know it.... macking it up. Her friends are leaving... she needs to go. She Calls me the next day.... meet me up for dinner. All for it so I tell her to pick wherever since it's been awhile since I actually lived in the "area". Do it up in a Sushi joint and rack up over $100. No WORRIES... she's hot. Date #2 set up. Hit the place and all of a sudden she's in charge of everything including ordering up a $200 bottle of wine and doing the head of the table test on my dime. For you guys that know the etiquette of ordering wine.... well you can imagine my jaw dropping from that. HS! Shit wine from somebody who had no clue about wine... just wanted to rack up the bill and feel important on my dime i guess. Big Balls for a female... Bill racked up over $400... Cha-Ching! In over $400 with this one.... and then I get the whole "I want somebody to sweep me off of my feet, blah, blah, blah." Nauseating to say the least. Tip toe out... nice to meet you... maybe I'll see you later? (NOT!)
Date #3) Funny but not. I actually returned to Vegas for this particular weekend for the Bare Naked Ladies / Blues Traveler concert with some VIP tickets I had. Getting some drinks and I end up talking to this little blonde eyed / blonde hair hottie that is smoking hot. Next thing I know... we are on some couch in some hallway... having a great time if you know what I mean. End up going back into the concert and having a blast. Concert done... end up trickling out and she says it's time for her to hit valet. Ok.... completely cool with that until I find out that her HUSBAND is pulling in to pick her and her Sister Up!
Fucking Really??? HS! Just what I need... She wants me to escort her out to her husband's car to show her husband that she can pick up good looking guys. Fucking crazy thing is when we get out there she basically jumps me and macks all over me in front of her husband!
Yeah.... just what I want... A fucking jealous husband that wants to kill me for hooking up with his wife.
Luckily he was cool and just shook his head as he packed his wife and her sister into his car.
And then the Used Feeling creeps up on you and you are left all alone.... Awesome!
So to hell with the Civvie World. I like meeting up with who I meet up with in the Provider world. I like knowing that who I meet up with has no other agenda. I certainly dig the whole business relationship thing with no expectations of anything happening afterwards.
I like the fact that just because I sleep with a lady that it does not entitle her to half of my assets.
Quite Frankly.... I just love Providers when it comes to my life.
4th of July was a blast and for the lovely Providers who invited me into their lives and the party they had that I was lucky to attend.... I certainly appreciate the Fantastic time had and getting to know them. FAR more down to earth then the Civvie ladies I meet .... FAR more fun to sleep with.... EVEN when nothing happens.
And trust me.... just passing out and sleeping in the same bed with some certain providers was the BIG highlight of July.... and this year in my book.
SUPER cool and no agenda... Certainly Refreshing....
For that I certainly Thank them.... especially after dealing with Civvies for the past month!
So there you go.. I officially give up on Civvies and will stick to the great Providers of Las Vegas as I concentrate on business and not have to deal with the drama!
Cheers!
Dude-
Awesome story. Somewhat tragic, but well told. I was laughing out loud to some of it, just because I have been there before.
I am freshly single after twelve years (for real this time) and I am going through some of this now. I have a friend who sees many, many providers and he now describes himself as "ruined" to the civvie world. These provider girls can really spoil us. I can see how it can happen and it will probably happen to me also.
Well written story..thanks for that.
Extended Trip... met up with friends in Chicago to take somewhat of a break from the LV business and get away. And hell.... let's see what I could "do". Face it... Chicago hotties are hot... LOL...
Quite frankly.... Let's be honest with each other. Providers are the easy way out of really trying when it comes to the whole GF thing and I've certainly been spoiled. Little did I realize JUST how VALUABLE Providers are and why I now CERTAINLY APPRECIATE them even more.
Read On...
Date #1) Went to a popular club and ended up catching on to the googly eyes checking me out. She's actually my age. Bought her a drink. Bought her another drink. Ending up buying another round of drinks. In well over $75 in drinks. Cool... we are having a good time and she's a cutie blonde with blue eyes. 5'9" and makes heads turn. Set up for another date to go out to eat that she sets up for the next night and I'm all for making her happy. Of course... I end up sleeping by myself for the night.
Hit the restaurant to meet up with her... of course apps. are at $15+ a pop just starting off. The "chipper" chicken (lol!) starts off at $45 a pop but of course... who the fuck wants chicken going out? Wine, deserts, and cha-ching! -- In over $250 for dinner. Cool... no worries... except for the fact the chick could not keep a story straight about who she was and what she did. Basically.... I had a dinner with a Bi-polar whacko that by the end of the date, I was just happy to tip toe out of there without getting knifed. Pretty crazy ... Nice to meet you with a peck on the cheeks.... Gotta go as I watched my back on the way to my ride. CRAZY!
Date #2) Hanging out with the boys at a local bar just getting all messed up playing pool/ darts, etc. Super Hottie comes up to me and next thing we know.... we are having a blast together. Turns out she is older then I am and before you know it.... macking it up. Her friends are leaving... she needs to go. She Calls me the next day.... meet me up for dinner. All for it so I tell her to pick wherever since it's been awhile since I actually lived in the "area". Do it up in a Sushi joint and rack up over $100. No WORRIES... she's hot. Date #2 set up. Hit the place and all of a sudden she's in charge of everything including ordering up a $200 bottle of wine and doing the head of the table test on my dime. For you guys that know the etiquette of ordering wine.... well you can imagine my jaw dropping from that. HS! Shit wine from somebody who had no clue about wine... just wanted to rack up the bill and feel important on my dime i guess. Big Balls for a female... Bill racked up over $400... Cha-Ching! In over $400 with this one.... and then I get the whole "I want somebody to sweep me off of my feet, blah, blah, blah." Nauseating to say the least. Tip toe out... nice to meet you... maybe I'll see you later? (NOT!)
Date #3) Funny but not. I actually returned to Vegas for this particular weekend for the Bare Naked Ladies / Blues Traveler concert with some VIP tickets I had. Getting some drinks and I end up talking to this little blonde eyed / blonde hair hottie that is smoking hot. Next thing I know... we are on some couch in some hallway... having a great time if you know what I mean. End up going back into the concert and having a blast. Concert done... end up trickling out and she says it's time for her to hit valet. Ok.... completely cool with that until I find out that her HUSBAND is pulling in to pick her and her Sister Up!
Fucking Really??? HS! Just what I need... She wants me to escort her out to her husband's car to show her husband that she can pick up good looking guys. Fucking crazy thing is when we get out there she basically jumps me and macks all over me in front of her husband!
Yeah.... just what I want... A fucking jealous husband that wants to kill me for hooking up with his wife.
Luckily he was cool and just shook his head as he packed his wife and her sister into his car.
And then the Used Feeling creeps up on you and you are left all alone.... Awesome!
So to hell with the Civvie World. I like meeting up with who I meet up with in the Provider world. I like knowing that who I meet up with has no other agenda. I certainly dig the whole business relationship thing with no expectations of anything happening afterwards.
I like the fact that just because I sleep with a lady that it does not entitle her to half of my assets.
Quite Frankly.... I just love Providers when it comes to my life.
4th of July was a blast and for the lovely Providers who invited me into their lives and the party they had that I was lucky to attend.... I certainly appreciate the Fantastic time had and getting to know them. FAR more down to earth then the Civvie ladies I meet .... FAR more fun to sleep with.... EVEN when nothing happens.
And trust me.... just passing out and sleeping in the same bed with some certain providers was the BIG highlight of July.... and this year in my book.
SUPER cool and no agenda... Certainly Refreshing....
For that I certainly Thank them.... especially after dealing with Civvies for the past month!
So there you go.. I officially give up on Civvies and will stick to the great Providers of Las Vegas as I concentrate on business and not have to deal with the drama!
Cheers!
Thank You!!!!
I am a provider and would like to say Thank You !!! Its nice to know we are appreciated for our services. I am here in Las Vegas visiting I am based out of San Francisco. I have met several providers from out here and they have been all very nice and professional. This is my first time working here in Las Vegas
This a crazy place !!!! Your date # 3 I'm so glad the husband knows is wife is a wild total Cougar !!!!! Well thank you for you wonderful. Maybe our paths will cross while i am in town ![]()
Kisses,
Sydney
Extended Trip... met up with friends in Chicago to take somewhat of a break from the LV business and get away. And hell.... let's see what I could "do". Face it... Chicago hotties are hot... LOL...
Quite frankly.... Let's be honest with each other. Providers are the easy way out of really trying when it comes to the whole GF thing and I've certainly been spoiled. Little did I realize JUST how VALUABLE Providers are and why I now CERTAINLY APPRECIATE them even more.
Read On...
Date #1) Went to a popular club and ended up catching on to the googly eyes checking me out. She's actually my age. Bought her a drink. Bought her another drink. Ending up buying another round of drinks. In well over $75 in drinks. Cool... we are having a good time and she's a cutie blonde with blue eyes. 5'9" and makes heads turn. Set up for another date to go out to eat that she sets up for the next night and I'm all for making her happy. Of course... I end up sleeping by myself for the night.
Hit the restaurant to meet up with her... of course apps. are at $15+ a pop just starting off. The "chipper" chicken (lol!) starts off at $45 a pop but of course... who the fuck wants chicken going out? Wine, deserts, and cha-ching! -- In over $250 for dinner. Cool... no worries... except for the fact the chick could not keep a story straight about who she was and what she did. Basically.... I had a dinner with a Bi-polar whacko that by the end of the date, I was just happy to tip toe out of there without getting knifed. Pretty crazy ... Nice to meet you with a peck on the cheeks.... Gotta go as I watched my back on the way to my ride. CRAZY!
Date #2) Hanging out with the boys at a local bar just getting all messed up playing pool/ darts, etc. Super Hottie comes up to me and next thing we know.... we are having a blast together. Turns out she is older then I am and before you know it.... macking it up. Her friends are leaving... she needs to go. She Calls me the next day.... meet me up for dinner. All for it so I tell her to pick wherever since it's been awhile since I actually lived in the "area". Do it up in a Sushi joint and rack up over $100. No WORRIES... she's hot. Date #2 set up. Hit the place and all of a sudden she's in charge of everything including ordering up a $200 bottle of wine and doing the head of the table test on my dime. For you guys that know the etiquette of ordering wine.... well you can imagine my jaw dropping from that. HS! Shit wine from somebody who had no clue about wine... just wanted to rack up the bill and feel important on my dime i guess. Big Balls for a female... Bill racked up over $400... Cha-Ching! In over $400 with this one.... and then I get the whole "I want somebody to sweep me off of my feet, blah, blah, blah." Nauseating to say the least. Tip toe out... nice to meet you... maybe I'll see you later? (NOT!)
Date #3) Funny but not. I actually returned to Vegas for this particular weekend for the Bare Naked Ladies / Blues Traveler concert with some VIP tickets I had. Getting some drinks and I end up talking to this little blonde eyed / blonde hair hottie that is smoking hot. Next thing I know... we are on some couch in some hallway... having a great time if you know what I mean. End up going back into the concert and having a blast. Concert done... end up trickling out and she says it's time for her to hit valet. Ok.... completely cool with that until I find out that her HUSBAND is pulling in to pick her and her Sister Up!
Fucking Really??? HS! Just what I need... She wants me to escort her out to her husband's car to show her husband that she can pick up good looking guys. Fucking crazy thing is when we get out there she basically jumps me and macks all over me in front of her husband!
Yeah.... just what I want... A fucking jealous husband that wants to kill me for hooking up with his wife.
Luckily he was cool and just shook his head as he packed his wife and her sister into his car.
And then the Used Feeling creeps up on you and you are left all alone.... Awesome!
So to hell with the Civvie World. I like meeting up with who I meet up with in the Provider world. I like knowing that who I meet up with has no other agenda. I certainly dig the whole business relationship thing with no expectations of anything happening afterwards.
I like the fact that just because I sleep with a lady that it does not entitle her to half of my assets.
Quite Frankly.... I just love Providers when it comes to my life.
4th of July was a blast and for the lovely Providers who invited me into their lives and the party they had that I was lucky to attend.... I certainly appreciate the Fantastic time had and getting to know them. FAR more down to earth then the Civvie ladies I meet .... FAR more fun to sleep with.... EVEN when nothing happens.
And trust me.... just passing out and sleeping in the same bed with some certain providers was the BIG highlight of July.... and this year in my book.
SUPER cool and no agenda... Certainly Refreshing....
For that I certainly Thank them.... especially after dealing with Civvies for the past month!
So there you go.. I officially give up on Civvies and will stick to the great Providers of Las Vegas as I concentrate on business and not have to deal with the drama!
Cheers!
Thank you for realizing how valuable us real & honest VIP Companions really are!
No drama here. CHEERS! xoxo
I just came back from 4 days in LV and agree with you totally. If I could I would live there again. But probably go broke! ![]()
And as they say on some of there website... Add it up and providers are a better deal!!!
Got to love the providers in LV and others places as well.
Extended Trip... met up with friends in Chicago to take somewhat of a break from the LV business and get away. And hell.... let's see what I could "do". Face it... Chicago hotties are hot... LOL...
Quite frankly.... Let's be honest with each other. Providers are the easy way out of really trying when it comes to the whole GF thing and I've certainly been spoiled. Little did I realize JUST how VALUABLE Providers are and why I now CERTAINLY APPRECIATE them even more.
Read On...
Date #1) Went to a popular club and ended up catching on to the googly eyes checking me out. She's actually my age. Bought her a drink. Bought her another drink. Ending up buying another round of drinks. In well over $75 in drinks. Cool... we are having a good time and she's a cutie blonde with blue eyes. 5'9" and makes heads turn. Set up for another date to go out to eat that she sets up for the next night and I'm all for making her happy. Of course... I end up sleeping by myself for the night.
Hit the restaurant to meet up with her... of course apps. are at $15+ a pop just starting off. The "chipper" chicken (lol!) starts off at $45 a pop but of course... who the fuck wants chicken going out? Wine, deserts, and cha-ching! -- In over $250 for dinner. Cool... no worries... except for the fact the chick could not keep a story straight about who she was and what she did. Basically.... I had a dinner with a Bi-polar whacko that by the end of the date, I was just happy to tip toe out of there without getting knifed. Pretty crazy ... Nice to meet you with a peck on the cheeks.... Gotta go as I watched my back on the way to my ride. CRAZY!
Date #2) Hanging out with the boys at a local bar just getting all messed up playing pool/ darts, etc. Super Hottie comes up to me and next thing we know.... we are having a blast together. Turns out she is older then I am and before you know it.... macking it up. Her friends are leaving... she needs to go. She Calls me the next day.... meet me up for dinner. All for it so I tell her to pick wherever since it's been awhile since I actually lived in the "area". Do it up in a Sushi joint and rack up over $100. No WORRIES... she's hot. Date #2 set up. Hit the place and all of a sudden she's in charge of everything including ordering up a $200 bottle of wine and doing the head of the table test on my dime. For you guys that know the etiquette of ordering wine.... well you can imagine my jaw dropping from that. HS! Shit wine from somebody who had no clue about wine... just wanted to rack up the bill and feel important on my dime i guess. Big Balls for a female... Bill racked up over $400... Cha-Ching! In over $400 with this one.... and then I get the whole "I want somebody to sweep me off of my feet, blah, blah, blah." Nauseating to say the least. Tip toe out... nice to meet you... maybe I'll see you later? (NOT!)
Date #3) Funny but not. I actually returned to Vegas for this particular weekend for the Bare Naked Ladies / Blues Traveler concert with some VIP tickets I had. Getting some drinks and I end up talking to this little blonde eyed / blonde hair hottie that is smoking hot. Next thing I know... we are on some couch in some hallway... having a great time if you know what I mean. End up going back into the concert and having a blast. Concert done... end up trickling out and she says it's time for her to hit valet. Ok.... completely cool with that until I find out that her HUSBAND is pulling in to pick her and her Sister Up!
Fucking Really??? HS! Just what I need... She wants me to escort her out to her husband's car to show her husband that she can pick up good looking guys. Fucking crazy thing is when we get out there she basically jumps me and macks all over me in front of her husband!
Yeah.... just what I want... A fucking jealous husband that wants to kill me for hooking up with his wife.
Luckily he was cool and just shook his head as he packed his wife and her sister into his car.
And then the Used Feeling creeps up on you and you are left all alone.... Awesome!
So to hell with the Civvie World. I like meeting up with who I meet up with in the Provider world. I like knowing that who I meet up with has no other agenda. I certainly dig the whole business relationship thing with no expectations of anything happening afterwards.
I like the fact that just because I sleep with a lady that it does not entitle her to half of my assets.
Quite Frankly.... I just love Providers when it comes to my life.
4th of July was a blast and for the lovely Providers who invited me into their lives and the party they had that I was lucky to attend.... I certainly appreciate the Fantastic time had and getting to know them. FAR more down to earth then the Civvie ladies I meet .... FAR more fun to sleep with.... EVEN when nothing happens.
And trust me.... just passing out and sleeping in the same bed with some certain providers was the BIG highlight of July.... and this year in my book.
SUPER cool and no agenda... Certainly Refreshing....
For that I certainly Thank them.... especially after dealing with Civvies for the past month!
So there you go.. I officially give up on Civvies and will stick to the great Providers of Las Vegas as I concentrate on business and not have to deal with the drama!
Cheers!
thanks for posting, its nice to have something other than an endless list of ISOs to read.
-- Modified on 8/5/2012 9:18:26 PM
(disclaimer: complete newbie to the hobby)
i would like to add, i like to do the math for some of my friends. spend a few hundred courting a girl with the risk of just chit chat or spend a few hundred on a provider knowing exactly what you'll get.
thanks for the post!
She shouts " Don't Stop...Don't Stop, get the hell out of here now or I'm calling the Cops! "
I'll be in LV in about 2 weeks. After reading your stories I'm pretty sure I know what I won't be doing those 5 days. Thanks for the heads up and sorry you had to go through those issues. Yes, these ladies do spoil us.
Nubian
Shortly after writing this post and officially (but not really officially) giving up on the Civvies.... the phone rings.
Not just any ring... but the "special" ring set for a complete sweet hottie. One of those rings that you answer no matter what you are doing.
Of course I answer and get some blah, blah, blah... I had not talked to her in almost a year and had chalked this one up as going down in flames trying. Complete hotness. She's having drinks at a bar right down the road and of course.... I have to meet up with her.
Drinks, shots.... Great Conversation (I'll certainly admit she's very sharp) and had a blast. Things are going well and she's telling me all about her loser boyfriends that leech off of her including one that I had met. Never got why she was with that loser dude but whatever.... I'm thinking she has finally seen the light and actually wants to hook up with a normal guy that does not rob / leech off of people for a living.
The big "tease" and flirting is going on... Hot. Next thing I know the bar tab is over $100+ but that's cool if you are going to "hook" up.... right?
Yeah.... big wish on that. Subtle suggestions to get her back to my place and was pretty much shot down.
Pick up the tab of course.... which I absolutely do not mind doing. I really don't expect to get laid just for buying drinks but I Don't even get a hug / kiss goodbye on this one. (So much for that modern day thing and splitting the tab.)
What the hell? Makes me think she saw my original post and just wanted to completely tease / fuck with me. Pretty ironic that she called like 30 minutes after posting. I really don't know what she does for a living but have some suspicions. I certainly don't care BTW because I don't judge people of how they make a living as long as they are not ripping people off.
Sigh.... Should have just stayed home and saved my money for a provider who's going to at least give me a Hug after fucking me. Hell... I've even had some providers buy me drinks before hooking up and in my world... I find that Hot.
Lol...
Civvie Date #4 in a month and I'm in over $1K without getting laid. Work out, dress nice and spend time / money being well groomed. What's the point? Too much damn work / Time / money trying to get laid in the Civvie World.
Better off doing some Review scanning on TER and making the call for what I want. Save time... Save Money. Call the professionals....
Going through my phone right now and deleting the "special" rings to avoid the Pavlov Dog syndrome from here on out.
See you soon sweet lady that will be review #11.![]()
as to what's out there waiting for us all.
I agree with your conclusion and am truly sorry to hear your tale. One thing crossed my mind though, that being your methodology in chasing dwon your next hottie. Im not trying to trash your game plan but most women you want to spend serious time with probably dont spend a whole lot of time hangin in bars.. no matter how upscale the place. Your venue for prospective dates #1-3 were limited to those that do, or at least were on that night, so you were on their screen to say the least.
Still, your story is alarming to me..I could be you, though to tell you the truth, I know Im too cheap to lay out $1000 +or- on the come and somewhere along the line would have thought to myself "I think there may be a pattern developing here" before I was out 4 digits and accordingly shut down my scouting mission before tapping the IRA.
Your story remainds me of a time or two I experienced in New Orleans when I lived there
and another in Richmond with Britt Ecklinds twin sister(could have been though she was better looking even..)..the following mornings I found my wallet stuffed with those blue AmEx receipts(remember those?) and that feeling you mentioned of being used..though I think Britt really liked me..Anyways,
I would chauk it up to experience. As they say in the stock market, stay with your winners...
Your winners will, in part, be found right here. Really..Providers truly can be a blessing and provide an experience unavailable anywhere else. Also, as you just learned, can be a true bargan besides.
Everyone knows the rules here and sometimes you can get real lucky besides.
Good luck to you and thanks for reminding me!
Extended Trip... met up with friends in Chicago to take somewhat of a break from the LV business and get away. And hell.... let's see what I could "do". Face it... Chicago hotties are hot... LOL...
Quite frankly.... Let's be honest with each other. Providers are the easy way out of really trying when it comes to the whole GF thing and I've certainly been spoiled. Little did I realize JUST how VALUABLE Providers are and why I now CERTAINLY APPRECIATE them even more.
Read On...
Date #1) Went to a popular club and ended up catching on to the googly eyes checking me out. She's actually my age. Bought her a drink. Bought her another drink. Ending up buying another round of drinks. In well over $75 in drinks. Cool... we are having a good time and she's a cutie blonde with blue eyes. 5'9" and makes heads turn. Set up for another date to go out to eat that she sets up for the next night and I'm all for making her happy. Of course... I end up sleeping by myself for the night.
Hit the restaurant to meet up with her... of course apps. are at $15+ a pop just starting off. The "chipper" chicken (lol!) starts off at $45 a pop but of course... who the fuck wants chicken going out? Wine, deserts, and cha-ching! -- In over $250 for dinner. Cool... no worries... except for the fact the chick could not keep a story straight about who she was and what she did. Basically.... I had a dinner with a Bi-polar whacko that by the end of the date, I was just happy to tip toe out of there without getting knifed. Pretty crazy ... Nice to meet you with a peck on the cheeks.... Gotta go as I watched my back on the way to my ride. CRAZY!
Date #2) Hanging out with the boys at a local bar just getting all messed up playing pool/ darts, etc. Super Hottie comes up to me and next thing we know.... we are having a blast together. Turns out she is older then I am and before you know it.... macking it up. Her friends are leaving... she needs to go. She Calls me the next day.... meet me up for dinner. All for it so I tell her to pick wherever since it's been awhile since I actually lived in the "area". Do it up in a Sushi joint and rack up over $100. No WORRIES... she's hot. Date #2 set up. Hit the place and all of a sudden she's in charge of everything including ordering up a $200 bottle of wine and doing the head of the table test on my dime. For you guys that know the etiquette of ordering wine.... well you can imagine my jaw dropping from that. HS! Shit wine from somebody who had no clue about wine... just wanted to rack up the bill and feel important on my dime i guess. Big Balls for a female... Bill racked up over $400... Cha-Ching! In over $400 with this one.... and then I get the whole "I want somebody to sweep me off of my feet, blah, blah, blah." Nauseating to say the least. Tip toe out... nice to meet you... maybe I'll see you later? (NOT!)
Date #3) Funny but not. I actually returned to Vegas for this particular weekend for the Bare Naked Ladies / Blues Traveler concert with some VIP tickets I had. Getting some drinks and I end up talking to this little blonde eyed / blonde hair hottie that is smoking hot. Next thing I know... we are on some couch in some hallway... having a great time if you know what I mean. End up going back into the concert and having a blast. Concert done... end up trickling out and she says it's time for her to hit valet. Ok.... completely cool with that until I find out that her HUSBAND is pulling in to pick her and her Sister Up!
Fucking Really??? HS! Just what I need... She wants me to escort her out to her husband's car to show her husband that she can pick up good looking guys. Fucking crazy thing is when we get out there she basically jumps me and macks all over me in front of her husband!
Yeah.... just what I want... A fucking jealous husband that wants to kill me for hooking up with his wife.
Luckily he was cool and just shook his head as he packed his wife and her sister into his car.
And then the Used Feeling creeps up on you and you are left all alone.... Awesome!
So to hell with the Civvie World. I like meeting up with who I meet up with in the Provider world. I like knowing that who I meet up with has no other agenda. I certainly dig the whole business relationship thing with no expectations of anything happening afterwards.
I like the fact that just because I sleep with a lady that it does not entitle her to half of my assets.
Quite Frankly.... I just love Providers when it comes to my life.
4th of July was a blast and for the lovely Providers who invited me into their lives and the party they had that I was lucky to attend.... I certainly appreciate the Fantastic time had and getting to know them. FAR more down to earth then the Civvie ladies I meet .... FAR more fun to sleep with.... EVEN when nothing happens.
And trust me.... just passing out and sleeping in the same bed with some certain providers was the BIG highlight of July.... and this year in my book.
SUPER cool and no agenda... Certainly Refreshing....
For that I certainly Thank them.... especially after dealing with Civvies for the past month!
So there you go.. I officially give up on Civvies and will stick to the great Providers of Las Vegas as I concentrate on business and not have to deal with the drama!
Cheers!
I can definitely relate!
I am treated much better, with more respect, and have more fun when I am in the company of a hobbyist than in the "real world" dating scene.
There is no secret agenda, usually no lies, and a great time...especially for those who take the time to wine and dine and get to know me.
I've been through the ringer in this past year trying to date civvie men...I've been lied to, had a large sum of cash disappear from my home, threatened, watched someone do drugs in front of me...the list goes on and on unfortunately.
I don't want to be single all of my life, so I keep trying to find someone worthy of settling down with, though I always find myself thinking that I have way more fun when I'm out with a hobbyist!
All of the true gentlemen of the hobbyist world have spoiled me and showed me what chivalry is all about!
I had a different experience. Dated a few times ( couple years ago) and I must attract another kind of woman. I was told by a friend (female friend, yes I have one) - That I am the perfect "keeper".
I am Still single (in my late 30's), decent job and no "baggage" in the form of No ex-wife and No Children.
After a couple of my dates the women called me the same night - wanting to make another date.
Both wanted me to visit them, meet their children....I mean they could not wait a day.
After those experiences 2 years ago - I discovered this lifestyle.
The providers I have met are wonderful women, intelligent, beautiful and a pleasure to be with.
thank you to all providers - you allow us hobbyists to enjoy the company of women.