So, let me preface by saying that I'm new here, and many aspects of the hobby are much different than where I am from. Also, let me add that I was prior, an incall only provider. I'm new to providing outcalls, done a few, but not many.

Ok, so the scenario is:

I've got a client who wishes to see me for an outcall to his residence, however he states that he has nosy neighbors and wishes to meet me at a nearby public place, and then "usher me in" undetected. He mentioned something about his son's car having tinted windows. I got to thinking, and was like, wait, he wants me to get into his car with him and drive to his place? I'm not so sure about this, but I ask, is it commonplace here? My firm instincts tell me, of course, to never get into a car with a client, period. But in this much more fast-paced arena, maybe that is something people do. Just seeing what you guys on here might have to say.

Now let me say this client is registered on a popular board, and has submitted many reviews. I spoke with him on the phone, and had a pleasant conversation. He lives in a nice part of town, in a gated community and has stressed that discretion is a big deal for him. I completely understand that, but who is asking too much? Him for expecting me to get into a car with a complete stranger, or me for refusing to comply with that request, even if it means losing the sale.

What do you think?

I say that if it feels wrong, or not comfortable, don't do it. There will always be other clients and always other situations. But only ever 1 YOU. When you have instincts, and you deny them (regardless of how prolific a hobbyiest he is on other boards, etc), you can only cause harm to yourself. If your instincts say no... I think it's best to follow them. Remember you're the master of your domain! He might have requested the outcall to his residence but power always rests with you. You can decide that you don't or can't do that anymore and so other, more comfortable arrangements need to be made.  

You have the power, and never forget it. And your comfort matters most of all.  

Thanks for the good post Pandora..
Las Vegas as a rule has more security issues than normal in my view. All those tourists...all those escorts....its a tough business,
The fact he has good reviews is comforting but are you sure these reviews are his? If you can communicate with him on the site with the reviews that is a good sign..if not..uuhh why not..

If he plans on driving you into his garage, I dont see how him driving you into his development, and we trust safely out again, would be much better than him granting you access at the development gates. Unless he drives you into a garage, actually its worse to me. If you drive into the development alone, park and come alone to his door, how different is the effect from walking into his home with him? To me not that much really. I mean unless you show up looking like a casino girl with lots of warpaint (makeup) and sketchy attaire, just what kind of impression will the snoopy neighbors get? Arriving into a garage, in  car with darkened windows, which closes behind you is another matter..with new concerns..  I would have to know the guy pretty well to do that if I were in your position.

Now here is a new issue:  You have to rely on him for transportation out and back to your car or take a cab.
I would suggest a compromise of meeting and following him to his home in your car. If he refuses to do that, you have to think how good an experience is this going to be with your heightened security concerns?

Hope this helps you sort through this issue Pandora..I would say its unusual..maybe someone else tell me how Im off base..Hope so but Im with you on this one.. I'd be sure before I go ahead with this..

I agree with " if it feels wrong don't do it" .  I have always had the policy of trusting my "gut" instinct and it has never let me down.  However, I will also say that I have felt awkward about doing incalls with ladies and don't do many unless I know them.  I always made sure they were well reviewed first.  I have also rode with several providers and never had any issues.  So it goes back to trusting your instinct.  Good luck and be safe!

If you are at all uncomfortable then dont do it. Period! Always keep your safety at the forefont of your thinking. Nothing is worth you being safe. Sounds shady to me and I personally would take a pass on an appointment like this.  

Good luck!
Holly

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He probably just has nosy neighbors.

You say he has many reviews on a site, just check that his email address corresponds with his review account.  Also check his name and make sure he does reside at the said address, ask him to email you a bill or something with his name and address on it,  if it all adds up then i wouldn't worry about it.

Also ask him to email you the make and model of his car and also the car registration.

I think the human nature of this industry makes us more wary, but to be honest i don't see a problem with meeting him in his car and then him driving you back to his place if all the info he supplies checks out.  If he was asking to take you across the Mexican border then i would worry.

I had a client in Canada who was the same and i had to get the all clear from his body guard before i was allowed entry and damn that body guard was hot to trot, i wouldn't have minded having a full body search from him :-

The question is: IS IT WORTH IT?

Is it worth it if something DID happen?
If he DID do something?
If he is LE?

 
Is it worth the chance for a few bucks?
I mean, really, is it?

Everything went just fine, we met a public place, and I ended up driving both of us to his place. I'm ok with that. He was a fantastic guy with a beautiful home, so it was just nerves on my end, and nosy neighbors on his. We met in the middle and had a great time despite.

Gotta keep your senses sharp and your wits about you at all times, so I thank everyone who responded. It's good to see people chime in and remind each other that safety comes first. My day went well, but one can NEVER be too careful.

Happy hobbying!

xoxoxox
Pandy

I was contacted by a gentleman saying the same thing a little different but very similar any how he wanted to meet by his house and me get in his car to go to his house I thought to my self defiantly not.... so I told him I do not feel comfortable doing that and that I'm sorry .... He then said well you can park your car in my garage again I was not comfortable doing that ... I told him I was very sorry .... A week went by and he contacted me again this time he got a room at a casino "pefect" I met him and the rest is history....  He now contacts me regularly and I come over to his house to spend time with him he turned out to be a very nice guy and I am more than happy to provide a reference for him.....
I can not say that the person you are speaking of is the same but  I will say please be careful and always go with your instincts you can never be to careful I just wanted to share my story with you so that you could see that I have been threw some thing similar and  how I went about it ....
Xoxo kayden

don't do it. There are many other hobbyist who do not give such strange requests; regardless of how many reviews they have. It only takes one nut case.

I only invite friends who are real friends.  

Every guy is different I guess.  I wouldn't invite an escort if I had a teenage son living with me,  that's just asking for trouble.  

if it feels strange just go with instincts...  let him build trust.  
better safe than sorry imo

get into the car and then when you get to his place, text his address. Actually let him see you do this. Tell him if you don't contact them within an hour they will come looking for you. If you do have security, set up a pass word you can say or text to let them know you are in trouble. Like I am "wonderful" is the password that you need help.

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Sanford says

 
don't do it lamont
you big dummy

don't do i