Coming to Vegas in just under a month, but having major league trouble getting top rated providers to even respond.  I only do this once and a while, but have reviews and a single reference from PHX.  Multiple hour appointment requests too.  Professional who provides full employment information and personal cell number in addition to email.  What gives?  Smarty, or anyone else, can you tell me what I am doing wrong?  Is Vegas diffrent than rest of country?

Send a Picture of Yourself along with a picture of 10 New $100.00 Bills----I am sure that will get their attention as they will like one or the other!!

I would like to hear from the ladies on this one.
I have been having a similar experience lately.
I have made visits to Vegas & LA and sent emails to about 10 different providers and did not get a single reply. Ladies let me know if there is something I should change?

My emails typically read:

"Hello xxxx,

I will be visiting Vegas next week and wondered if you may have time available for a visit? I will be staying at XYZ Hotel and will have time available Weddnesday & Thursday evening.
I look forwrd to your reply."

I don't see anything wrong with your email .....but each lady is different.

You would have gotten an answer from me right away ..........unless I was busy on a 24/48 hour appointment.but I would still answer your email as soon as I was available ............. ok but that is me

As I have already said many times before just because a lady has great bedroom skills doesn't mean she has great administration skills.

also sometimes can happen that emails do get lost in space and the lady never got your email.

My advise ...... email once , wait a day , email again ( incase email was lost in space ) if still no answer ......well move on, but don't wait until too last minute or you may find yourself horny thinking with your little head getting ripped off like what happened to "leeandash"

Sorry to hear you emailed 10 providers and didn't even get a single reply ;-( Maybe you chose the wrong ones. Hope next time works better for you .
all the best
xoxo CindySpice

not sure who you emailed, but i answer my emails whithin 24-hours of getting them. If I am out of town and dont have the internet...i set an auto message to go out letting you know.

LaRue
xox

This may be completely off base and not the situation at all in your case, but...

Did any of the ladies you emailed have instructions on their sites as to what an email should contain?

I do know some ladies want some screening information and information about the desired appointment (length and such) on intial contact, and if that were requested in the initial contact and you didn't provide it that could be a reason for no replies.

Like I said...just a thought.

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just cause I am a great ho dont mean I am a great secretary!  hee hee

When I read this message earlier, I thought your "typical e-mail" seemed to lack some information that I have found that most ladies appreciate, if it is well written and does not contain inappropriate comments or questions. Whenever I contact a provider for the first time, along with a paragraph similar to yours, I always introduce myself to the best of my ability. I will give her my TER handle, for instance, and if her web site calls for references, I will provide them in my initial e-mail. If it doesn't, I will at least say that I can provide some if she wants. I will also let her know my vocation, and anything else that I think would be of interest to her. A little flattery about her web site, pictures, and/or reviews can also go a long way, I think.

I was busy after I read this, though, and now I see Webbie has beaten me to the punch, lol! As always, I am in complete agreement with Webbie.

T.L.

Maybe your messages got into the junk mail box. You could try calling or perhaps you could try getting their attention on this board?

Thank you Ladies & Not Quite Ladies

I appreciate your input. I will take your advice to heart and include more personal detail in my future emails.

That was quite a run. I have emailed or phoned providers in the past who did not respond but this was 10 in a row...

Thanks again.

Steve

I would've answered it too;  hell, if we turned away every guy who didn't follow exact instructions on our sites we'd go broke.  LOL

Common courtesy goes a long way on both sides....from what i've been hearing from forner clients lately is that alot of ladies aren't doing the 'email thing' at all.  I've also heard from many guys that the ladies aren't too keen on setting up ahead of time.  Which really blows my mind as your screening goes right out the window....but what do i know.  lol

I don't get it, the last minute thing always made me run for the hills.

'top rated providers' - aka 'in demand'. Can you even guess how many emails the ladies get? And how many of them might be from loyal customers who they know and trust? Also, a month out might be too far - many of the ladies don't necessarily plan that far out all the time.

You also say 'no responses' but then complain about screening. So which is it? That they aren't replying or that you don't like their replies.

I'm not a huge fan of screening either - but I always volunteer to bring my work id - which is much harder to get than a driver's license. Why not get a temporary cell phone where you prepay for the minutes if you're afraid of using your own cell?

So I guess my advice is: lower your standards a little; be willing to offer some level of screening whether it's showing a company id, recent pay stub (with last named and SS# covered out); try to make contact a little closer to your trip; get a temporary cell phone.

Thanks for all the advice.  Am making progress now.  Never realized 200-300 emails a day for top rated providers was happening.