I'm wondering if this fantasy is one that is played out very often.  I've thought of going to a thrift store and buying a dress shirt (you can get them chep there) and having it cleaned and starched and wearing it to a date with a beautiful and agressive provider.  when we get to the room she rips the shirt off my body tearing the buttons and attacks with passion my chest and torso.  leading to passionate unbridal play.  In this fantasy she would be wearing a business suit with tight skirt, shear silk blouse and pumps, with lacy lingerie underneath.  she would be a take charge lover but at the same time she would be taking charge of pleasing me