So to clients and providers both why are you in this?

There are any number of reasons any of us are here on this site or participate in this "hobby". Some ladies you can tell why they are into this. Some its clear simply for the money, some its for the winning and dining and attention their clients shower upon them, and then there are the ladies who are into it simply for the sex.

I myself its all about the sex and I seek out those ladies who its more about the sex for them. Some guys genuinely like to be seen out on a "date" with ladies and some like the attention and affection of ladies.

So simply why, why do you hobby? I don't expect many ladies on this board will come out and say "yea its all about the money". But I wouldn't mind hearing from the ladies who enjoy the sex as much as their clients do.  

Lets get this board going again its not like we have anything else to do 😂.

I am sure that everyone's answer is a little different. Here is ours: we love the hobby because we love the people--both other providers and also clients. We have met so many great people in doing this that we thoroughly enjoy the opportunity to see them again and meet others. That is not to say that everyone person has been a dream, but by and large most of the people (whether other providers (ladies, gentlemen & couples) or clients (again, whether ladies, gentlemen or couples) have been people that it has been great to meet and share some intimacy with (whether just once, or several times). We originally started this to help share the fun of small group fun and have enjoyed immensely the chance to provide some smiles or relief to others who are looking to smile or be relieved. In the process, we have met some awesome ladies and gentlemen and truly look forward to meeting more. Of course, the personal pleasure has been awesome so that is a bonus. Our hope for all is that we can take the time to enjoy the moment and spread some fun--even if it is for just a few hours at a time. We all need it and we all benefit from it.  

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Tori (& Nick) Benotti

Gonna be honest here, I've always been aroused by, shall we say, uninhibited women: escorts, dancers, wives that play around.   Nothing bores me as much as a 'nice girl.'   My experiences with professional ladies was limited to low-end working girls in The Philippines, Korea, Taiwan, Germany and, rarely, the US before I discovered TER and the much higher class of ladies available.   What has amazed me was finding that many providers actually got into the sex, enjoyed it and were not faking!  OK, we have all been fooled by a woman who can totally fake an O, but I've been with women I'm sure were not!  One woman was very open that she started 'in business' because she couldn't get enough sex otherwise and her performance bore out her claim of wildly enjoying sex.  Others have ignored the time limit paid for or included extra services because they really seemed to be enjoying themselves and had their own desires.   At my age I don't find many 'amateur' women interested in sex and those that are interested in me, well, I'm not interested in them: they are not worth the possible complications of 'an affair' compared to the lack of drama of dates with escorts.  Also there is the issue of 'role reversal': I get to choose who I have sex with from a menu of lovely women.   And, in the bottom line, a woman that will take me to bed minutes after meeting me is a massive turn on!

Because I adore women.   Because I no longer desire to be in a committed relationship with the drama and responsibility that comes with it.  Because I get intoxicated with the excitement and pleasure that comes with NSA companionship.  Because I'm polyamorous.  Because NSA companionship leaves me peacefully happy.

I for one love this hobby even with a couple bad experiences over the yrs but all and all I have made some friends and met some neat ladies  also I am glad to see this board trying to come back good question  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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As a couple that prefers women it’s much easier to do this than swinging.  

It becomes a lifestyle and you will find that many ladies who choose this life truly enjoy providing companionship such as myself. I especially enjoy multi hour dates, thus allowing me to stay low volume by my choice. Many many years ago I would say I was higher volume so it’s not to say that’s a bad thing at all it’s just as I’ve matured I prefer more of a connection with a nice gentleman, which leads to longer times together and I love to be that go to girl you can count on.  

I have met so many great people, men, couples, and other providers that I doubt I would otherwise have met. The conversation is different. I would say we feel free to express thoughts from an open mind, less judgement, and you can truly be yourself when you are with me. I keep secrets, and I find sometimes men look to vent to someone who won’t judge, and be more understanding to different types of world views. Especially those deep conversations just about life in general, I feel part of my duty is to allow you to be free as well and I like to make people feel good about their self.  

As well, I learn a lot about people, life and society in general. As it turns out when you have conversations with people from various backgrounds, walks of life, occupations, their other hobbies, you learn a ton of interesting information I don’t think I’d otherwise be discussing.  

I’m very into appreciating energy, each individual personality, and that’s something special you share when you are intimate.

Choosing this lifestyle has empowered me in several ways, and I love to share great conversations while in a seductive setting. It’s very enjoyable and freeing to embrace seduction and sexuality and of course to be appreciated and spoiled greatly is a nice perk.

It’s rare I meet with someone new lately, but I plan to open up a little more to new friends this winter and I to the New Year.

I love Vegas, living here is great and I imagine you guys come here to let loose, enjoy yourself immensely, and forget about the real world for a moment. I would say I can definitely help with that.

I can definitely say I’ve had the funnest wildest crazy Vegas nights but also can appreciate a chill sensual relaxing atmosphere.  

It’s more than just sex (even though that’s great) and it’s more than just money (also great). But I guess that depends on how you look at it. 💋