I have a question for providors. Let's just say, after knowing a client after three or four years and they decided not to pay for legit reasons what would you providers do? You ladies can alyways PM me if more comfortable. A few of you know me out there.

GLENN

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and then if I actually did "play" with him before recieving my donation and he refused, I'd black list him.  I have seen guys for 3yrs + and not one has refused me.

Tasha

I could care less about being blacklisted by this one.  She's not worth the time or the effort. I'm morre worried about providors stalking the clients more than anything.

GLENN

Ok so basically something went bad during the session?  Well, that is another story hon.  If something happened and you refused to pay for those reasons then that's different.  I highly doubt you'd have to worry about stalking unless the said person is a physco.  Usually though they'd simply leave the situation alone.  Sorry, I misunderstood the post.

Tash

I am a little confused...... what "legit" reason is there not to pay a lady ?

You know the story here, I don't need to repeat it but if interested PM me.

GLENN

don't know what story you are talking about ............. you have many

But in general it really doesn’t matter if you know someone for one day ,3 years 5 years, or longer.

If a lady provides here service well then you should pay.

Even though I have been with my doctor/lawyer/accountant/trainer/dentist/hair dresser for 10 years I still pay them for each visit…………….do you get my drift ?

Unless you both agreed that the relationship is now different. That you both were VERY clear it is no longer client/escort.
And I mean VERY clear …………... not just in your mind !

What can happen ??  well that depends on the lady. What type of person is she?

She may let it go and just never see you or talk to you again.

She may try to hunt you down until you pay her.

She may tell other ladies what happened and then others will not want to see you.

I thought this year was going to be drama free
Hope all works out
Xoxo CindySpice

Haaa. it is drama free and Ive been very very good. Much better than last year. I didn't get what I paid for so therefore Im not paying her. That's all I have to say. Would you actually go to a persons house and hunt them down to get paid even though it wasn't deserved?

GLENN

"Would you actually go to a persons house and hunt them down to get paid even though it wasn't deserved?"

NO !!! I would not !!! But that is ME !!!She may not be me

Oh ,ok I think I know now to which story you are talking about.

If she was contacting you regarding the money she claims you own her well politely explain in an email …………... I did say politely ………….. why you think you should not have to pay and see what she says back?

It is always best to clear the air and come to an understanding ........ some girls do not leave things alone....... and many others do let it go.

But if someone is trying after all this time to still get money........ I would wonder what they may want to do.

"I didn't get what I paid for so therefore Im not paying her"

Well since that would never happen with ME and a client I am with, it would never come to a problem of a client not paying me.

Never had a problem of a client not paying me

I was just telling you options I have read or heard of what ladies have done.

Hi Cindy---

Thank you, if you gave me what I paid for I would never have a problem with you. This was the first I ever felt violated by any provider. But, I still feel they're stalking me.

GLENN

Damn it, When do I get to be "violated" by a provider?  Any takers?  LOL

Bond

If you were in my position you wouldn't be laughing.

GLENN

Your life in the hobby seems to be filled with all kinds of drama. I wonder who's to blame for that...

You paid for time, nothing else.  If you got the time then pay her and stop whining.  If you didn't get the time, then post the details here and you'll get some appropriate feedback.

Frankly, I don't think you're stable enough to play in the hobby.  I suggest you find a new hobby...perhaps stamp collecting.

You mean I didn't "violate" you enough ??? *wink wink*
Gosh next time I'll just have to tie you up ! LOL LOL

Your the best ! Love Ya man
xoxo CindySpice

If You Always Do What You Always Did, You Always Get What You Always Got.

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...and I couldn't have put it better myself.  Cut and dried; he played, he should have paid. And, why all the utterly needless drama?  Seeking GFE, you summed it up very well.

I wouldn't ever let myself be in your position.

Does that mean I can laugh now

Bond

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Glenn, do not make me moderate you again, you been doing well, so far. Okay

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No matter how much drama one has caused etc, he has his reasons for not paying the girl, myself knowing why.  I wouldn't expect my donation if I had done the thing that happened.  So, even though he may have been wrong in the past, IMHO I believe he is right for not paying his dues.

Don't make me put you back on moderation. Okay?

no problem Smarty.....Thank you I apologize.

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Edited by moderator. Do not need outsiders coming in and calling names either. Thank You.

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