So I've set aside the time and expense to see one of the most popular ladies in Sin City and was looking forward to it.  Then last night one of my tires blew out and today I found out I needed a complete set of new tires and brakes.  The total cost has set me back more than I was going to use for my night of fun

Will most ladies understand and allow for a reschedule?  it's for three night from now

I know alot of other hobbist will say grow up and do what you want but there is another person involved in this and it will affect her livelihood.

thoughts?

If you are going to cancel or reschedule, do it NOW!  

If you have to cancel or reschedule, it should be done as soon as you know you won't be able to fulfill the commitment.  In your situation, it's a money issue.  You know you have this unexpected expense that wiped out your hobby money, so call that lady and cancel.

The more notice you give the lady in question, the more likely she will be able to book another appointment for that day and time.  She will appreciate that.  If you wait until the last minute, she'll just get pissed off.

At times like that, and I've had them, I need consolation. That, and I pride myself on my reliability. I always have cash in reserve though. It sounds like that might not be the case for you.

As others have said you need to contact her now explain the situation to her and ask if possible to reschedule.
Since,your appointment is three days from now letting her know immediately will allow her to see if she can fill the time slot she had reserved for you.If a gent contacted me and he was in your situation I would appreciate him letting me know and not waiting to the last minute.You have to pay for your vehicle that is your priority without wheels you cannot get to work to make money to see anyone.
Hope everything works out for you.

Call as soon as you can. We all understand that things happen but calling at the last minute or even failing to call at all is disrespectful and rude.

It'll give her a chance to hopefully pick up a replacement! Explain it honestly....Shit Happens!

Then PM me with the name, I may just need another.

Stuff Happens, Call and Tell Her ASAP and if she not Understanding, then maybe she is Not the Date for...I have people cancel on me for various reason...well, i am a human and know sometimes shit just happens...but given enough notice, girls dont usually get to upset.

AVN's are huge & you could be holding her down from making $ because your to busy posting threads on what to do be honest!

I had to contact 1 of our prebooks who just had a baby & if I did not reach out I would not have had time to take new requests, & I booked this TER guy 2 months ago.  The truth is always best!

Same scenerio, except it was the day of for me about 4 months ago.  Good thing I didn't get all pissy because I would have missed out on a really cool time/times. We have seen each other 4 times now and I hope we continue our friendship. You are a stand up guy for considering her feelings, time etc.

Good luck

I budget my money monthly and convert all my irregular expenses into a monthly expense by charging those expenses and paying the card 1/x of the expense. For example car insurance costs me 1500 every six months, charge that and pay the card 250 per month. For car repairs I pay "the card 150 per month and charge the repairs.  Every year I calculate my annual costs, divide by 12, and when that amount exceeds a new car payment I buy a new car.  I put the whole thing on an excel spreadsheet and manage it monthly.  I budget my hobby money the same way.  I hate cars and automobile expenses.  No way would I let car repairs interfere with my hobbling.

....just fix the one tire...you've been driving around with it like this for a while, I'm guessing, so ya go another month or two with the car.  Or just put the car on your CC, or ask your mechanic for payment in thirds...life's too short to pass up on one of Sin City's most popular.  But seriously, I don't really have any idea how you guys play it, money wise, so close to the edge.

And boy am I glad.  I had a fantastic time and now have memories that will last me a lifetime.  I even got to take some nice pictures that will always put a smile on my face.  I want to thank everyone for the advice.  I just wrote a review on this very special lady and hope to see her again.

THANKS SHANNA

WOW WHAT A BEAUTY!!!