In the last years I've found myself preferring to play always safe.
This means CBJ, but it also means I can't  DATY.
Obviously, many ladies enjoy and expect it, so it's somewhat embarassing.
Or is it just my idea and I should have no problems with it?
And eventually, better to say something like "I always play safe" before an appointment or go with the flow?

While it is not something I could do, I think you are totally entitled to doing what you are comfortable with, and any respectable ladies should just appreciate and honor your request

To make an encounter successful, communication and expectations are very important.  I always appreciate when a patron is clear with his boundaries.  I'm sure you'll have no problems having a wonderful, safe time with a great lady!

Enjoy!

You should not have any issues with wanting to play safe.
I have gents who I see who are the same way as you and they let me know when we see each other.
There is absolutely no reason whatsoever for you to be embarrassed this is what you are comfortable with.
I think you are over thinking this a bit
I would make it known at the beginning of the appointment.
Good luck to you and enjoy

You can still play safe & perform oral sex on a woman. The best way is to use a dental dam. A dental dam is a thin square of latex that can be used to prevent the spread of STI's during oral sex.  They can be bought in certain stores, or you can make your own using a flavored condom or a latex glove.  

Place it over the vulva before performing oral sex. It acts as a barrier between your mouth and her genitals. This can also be used when rimming.

You can find them at drug-stores/pharmacies, sex shops, online stores and in many different flavors. However, their also very easy to make.  

Homemade Dental Dam-Take a male condom, preferably flavored or plain (no taste), non-lubricated. Roll the condom down, cut off the tip, and cut a straight line down the length of the tube of the condom and unroll. It should be rectangular in shape.

It's definitely Okay to want to play safe. Most providers will appreciate your honesty & open communication.

You would be welcome by many, including myself.  

xo
LaRue McCay

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You have no idea of the requests that we get daily...

Some of them I can understand, but others could easily be answered by reading reviews.. I understand not everyone has the time (or they could just not be bothered) to read through lengthy reviews.. (Which is also why I like the ones that are more explaining our services and reliability as opposed to your own porn script)...

Your request is beyond easy to accommodate.

The only thing I could see being a problem, and it's sooooo minor.. Is the the taste of a condom isn't really up there in my top tastes.. If you let the girl know in advance she can bring flavored or you could grab them.  

I didn't realize that most are cool with dental dams. They are helpful for the oral freak that is extremely clean and safe....

I would much rather play it safe for your safety as well as mine. Communication is key and just letting your provider know what your expecatons are. Then everyone is on the same page and it can be a relaxing appointment verses stressful for you!!

Enjoy!  
Holly

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