It seems like many guys are giving out 10's when even the text of the review does not appear to support the 10. There must be some pressure felt to give these inflated reviews.
If you're talking about looks ....... well beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you're talking about service ..... well last I checked the Review FAQ it says-
"Her maximum eligible score is based on what is offered, not what is performed during your session with her. You may or may not be interested in the “extra” services she offers, but the fact she offers them makes her eligible for the higher score."
So unless my comprehensive of the English Language is poor (could be ,since English is my 5th language ) I don't understand what your talking about ??
xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: jbecklv
It seems like many guys are giving out 10's when even the text of the review does not appear to support the 10. There must be some pressure felt to give these inflated reviews.
There are pressures to have great scores. And offering something does not make it real. Else -
I offer every lady on here a 1st class trip to Paris. Then on to Florence for a custom fitting in the house of PUCCI.
It will only cost you $100,000.
One might think that makes me rich if you read the first sentence. But then there is the fine print...
Regardless, both cases are real. Regardless of what you think of the person who "offers" it. And the details (how long of a trip, hotel accomodations, definition of first class) are subjective.
Point being - as always - find a reviewer who appears to have the same tastes as you - and if it looks to good to be true.....
Probably it's someone from corporate trying to keep the reviewers in line.
I hate the numbers, if I could submit a review without them I would.
I like the writing. I'm doing my best to adjust my scores, but honestly, if I really like a girl on a personal level, she "becomes" beautiful. I can't boil down my feelings into a number. It's too impersonal. I'm not judging a piece of furniture, it's a person, someone I have a relationship with, even though its temporary and compensated.
I don't understand why the numbers are necessary. The vast majority of the pictures are accurate, if you want to know if she does BBBJ or CIM or GREEK, it's right on her profile, you don't need a number to you. In fact it tells you less.
So if you don't want to trust my numbers don't read my numbers.
BUT.......
If you want to know what her personality is like, if you want to know the "little things" she does to turn you on, what she says to excite you, what her face looks like in the heat of passion or what crazy wild shit we did on our date; then read my reviews. They are graphic, detailed and pornographic. I like writing them. It's what makes this a hobby.
First off , Younger and thinner doesn't always equal better looks ........ well maybe for you ... BUT beauty is in the eye of the beholder !
I used to be a size 0 ( in my waist , never in boobs ) Now I am a size 4 and I think I look much better now . Even society's opinion of looks has evolved with in the years and through different eras.
Years ago the top model look was the very thin strung out look ..... it was called Heroin Chic ..... remember Kate Moss ??? Now a days someone who looks like Sophia Vergara or JLo are considered WOW WOW WOW va va voom ......well in my eyes
Peoples looks can change for the better ....... Just like fine wine
And what many people don't know about TER the early years ........well lets just say a lot was going on.
Scores were changed/lowered if owner didn't like you. Fake reviews were posted and never removed. Guys lowered scores because other jealous providers asked them too ....... That is how one of my reviews that was a 9/9 got changed to a 6/6 ...... but whatever I didn't care and it was left at that. There were tons of political things going on that totally affected the outcome of scores including the average score of today ...... but that is a whole other issue.
So there are things people think they know ...... but they don't.
Yes it is possible for a lady to have gotten lower scores in the past and higher scores in present.
Yes there may be ladies who pressure a gent to give a certain score , or say don't write a review unless it is 10/10 and there are ladies who don't do that ( and no I don't ) ......BUT who frickin cares !!!!!!!
You people have EYES ??? USE THEM !!! If gent says yes she looks like her photos ....... then make your own judgment . Who cares about a number ....... as I say ..... it is just a number !!!! and again to remind people who forget - BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER !!
Geez, seriously do you know ( don't mean you personally Ilovewomen ) how many movies/books/restaurants I have seen/read/ate at that were rated 5 star and I wouldn't give it a one star .........geez seriously !!!!
Ishootcraps gets it right !!! Numbers mean nothing , and who frickin cares ...... Get frickin VIP , read the juicy details , check out ladies web site , communicate with the lady , PM a reviewer to see if he says she looks like photo or not ...... and figure it out !!! Really, it isn't that hard ! College degree not required to figure it out !! Geez ........
On side note score points for OP that he made post with his "real handle name" but don't think it wasn't noted that this is your first and only post here. Nothing wrong with that .......but just saying I do have one more thing to say regarding non reviewers ........ but I will let the rest of the community figure it out.
NO matter the number at the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder .......and even service can be in the eye of the writer . but that also is a whole other post.
and welcome to another Spice lesson xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN
yes grade inflation is totally out of hand. this topic has been discussed many times over the last 3 or 4 years ... check out the reviews of a girl that been around say 4 years plus ... when she was younger and 10 lbs thinner she was typically a 7 or 8 ... now older and age is reality reviews are all 10s .. that speaks volumes right there. (remember talking looks not performance)
this phenomemon has been repeated countless times .. and you can very easily find guys who give 10/10 to over 90% of the girls they have seen ... you might notice thats usually only guys who have been on TER for 3 years or less .. the more established reviewers actually have standards and dont give 10/10 just because they found a girl willing to have sex.
Bottom line the 10/10 do more harm then good ... the girls that deserve super high marks no longer stand out ... and the girls would have have been rated 8/8 in the past have no incentive to improve.
I am very apprecitave to all the guys who have PM'ed me over the years asking for referrals becuase of my honesty .. and then i suggest the ladies that truly work hard in making themselves special, lovely as well as understanding how to pamper a gentleman.
Posted By: jbecklv
It seems like many guys are giving out 10's when even the text of the review does not appear to support the 10. There must be some pressure felt to give these inflated reviews.
I know this post will ruffle some feathers,so here goes.
After 3 years of hobbying Las Vegas here is my conclusion. The higher the $ the worst the performance. the better the pics the the worse in real life. The scrappier the pictures and the reasonable price means a stellar experience. Those of you who know me, know who you are and know what I am talking about.
OK let the mean spirited comments begin I am ready for it.
that a particular score requires a particular sex act is dumb.
While looks are always subjective, the fact that there are multiple reviews corrects for taste. There are ladies out there who get consistent 10's that I would not rate over an "8" (poet and didn't even know it).
My take on performance is more in line with how well the provider handles the session. This is the really complex and difficult part of the hobby that I think most hobbyists don't appreciate. If a gal obviously fakes an orgasm (e.g. the moment I tongue her womanhood she screams in pleasure, but her vee jay jay is bone dry when I attempt to insert a finger), it does not merit a "10" in my book. On the other hand if it is apparent she is enjoying the attention without an orgasm, I find this a very pleasurable experience.
As much as we (guys) think with the small head, we need to think with the incrementally larger one in writing review. (as for myself, I am frequently left wondering which head has the better thought process.
It isn't about luck. I know for a fact that he does his homework very well . He chooses ladies he sees very carefully. He is picky on his wants/needs/desires/fantasies and he is sure to communicate those wants/needs/desires/fantasies with the ladies he picks. SO the sessions he books always meet HIS expectations and then some. Making the session a 10 for him , almost every time .
AND if he didn't communicate his wants/needs/desires/fantasies then he understands that's on him and doesn't blame the provider. After all they are not mind readers
Ishootcraps doesn't pick a lady because everyone else says she is a 10/10 or 9/9 or whatever. He picks a lady because she is HIS idea of a 10. Everyone has their own idea what a 10 is .... no matter if looks or service . That is why I say - even service is in the eye of the writer.
I got so many private emails from gents who said - Well , XYZ is my idea of perfect service . and ZYX I could care less about . Just proves my point about service too.
So yes , many of Ishootcraps reviews are 10/10's because he picks ladies that provide him and that are in HIS opinion a 10/10 Just because your idea of what a 10/10 is , isn't the same as his ......... doesn't mean he has no standards. Quite the opposite, he has great standards and he makes sure that every lady he picks , meets HIS standards.
BTW , who appointed you the King of what the standard is ??
If your standards is young and thin equals a 10 in looks ........ well while I personally may not agree with you on that , I still respect your opinion. It's your opinion I don't say it is worthless.
So instead of people being so hung up on numbers they should get VIP , read reviews , go to ladies web site , communicate ......... oh wait , I already gave that advice LOL LOL LOL
If you want people to respect your opinions, then respect theirs . Doesn't mean you have to have the same opinion ........but every review and every reviewer has it's value. If not for you ....... rest assure for someone else.
So maybe if people would stop being so hung up on numbers and stop hiring a lady just because she is top rated ........find the lady that is right for YOU . Pick a lady that meets your expectations. The reviews are just one tool to guide you in that direction. Other ways to found out - is this lady right for me . ??? Just because she is right for Gent A , doesn't mean she is right for everyone.
Each person has their own idea , own expectation not everyone has to be the same........ after all that is what makes the world go round
Seriously I don't understand why people don't use their own eyes , take the reviews as a starting tool and figure it out. Once again , really not that hard to do . Am I missing something ?? I would be happy to debate ...... xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN
when a guy posts 20 reviews and 18 are 10s (once in a lifetime) its not about eye of the beholder .. its the guy has no standards at all and his reviews should be automatically discounted.
Actually the reason why your post doesn't ruffle feathers ....... well in MY opinion why not Is because all you did here is express your opinion and tell your experiences.
Now some people may agree with your statements , and some people may not. Some people may have experienced the same as you , and some may not .
but bottom line you didn't say stuff like - and my opinion is the only one that counts. and my opinion is the best and the rest of your opinions are BS .......hey that rhymes LOL LOL LOL
Maybe if you would have worded things different , it would have provoked mean spirited comments.
WHat I read in your post is someone expressing his opinion and yes we can have our own opinions ......even if they are different.
I notice that people get "mean spirited" or "in your face" ( like I do sometimes I get in your face ) when people get full of BS or lie about stuff or behave none gentleman like ( or ladylike ) ....... and then it is on
So big difference between that and just expressing an opinion . Just my observation and MY opinion.
As always one can take it or leave it , that's ok xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: Scorpio77
I know this post will ruffle some feathers,so here goes.
After 3 years of hobbying Las Vegas here is my conclusion. The higher the $ the worst the performance. the better the pics the the worse in real life. The scrappier the pictures and the reasonable price means a stellar experience. Those of you who know me, know who you are and know what I am talking about.
OK let the mean spirited comments begin I am ready for it.
Wow. Uselessly literal much? 10 may have the words once in a lifetime next to it, but that doesn't mean you can only use it once. A 10 is a 10, regardless of what helpful description they want to stick next to it to give you some perspective help.
To me a 10 means as good as it get, nothing better but there may be many different flavors of 10 and still all be 10. My 10 maybe your 5 or his 2 but thats great. One guy gives a 2 because of a scar that I may not notice.
This number mirrors my taste in women not the women herself.
I gotta lot to say about "definition" and "meaning" but I have been super busy and now this thread is kinda getting stale/old ........ so I will save my opinion for another day and another time when I have more time to post ....... cause it's kinda long ...........well aren't all my posts LOL LOL LOL LOL
In the mean time I hope no one "will die" over my comments ......... so does this mean they are really going to die ?? LOL LOL LOL
"hint hint" that is part of what my post is going to be about ..........hope my reference didn't go over anyones head
xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN
10 = Once in a lifetime ..... thus a reviewer can not have countless 10s .... yes I agree that even my worst orgasm was right on the money LOl .. but ... if such a simple definition has no meaning ... then the review / grade has no meaning ... its a pretty simple concept.
Its not about someone giving a girl a 10 that others give a 7 .... its about someone who gives nearly EVERY girl a 10 - you (and other girls ) should know that many reviewers besides myself dismisses reviews by anyone who has multiple 10s listed.
So far I have One once in a lifetime blond and one brunette I can not choose between because they were both life altering, so they are a tie.
It is mentally impossible for me to leave an impartial number because what I consider young is not what you consider young, So you are reading my interpretation of her. Numbers is only a popularity game and as such should be ignored. The reviews and web pages need to be read in order to help determine compatibility.
Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN
10 = Once in a lifetime ..... thus a reviewer can not have countless 10s .... yes I agree that even my worst orgasm was right on the money LOl .. but ... if such a simple definition has no meaning ... then the review / grade has no meaning ... its a pretty simple concept.
Its not about someone giving a girl a 10 that others give a 7 .... its about someone who gives nearly EVERY girl a 10 - you (and other girls ) should know that many reviewers besides myself dismisses reviews by anyone who has multiple 10s listed.
You have multiple 10s listed. Is the limit 3 10s before it is to much.
And now you know the rest of the story
Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN
10 = Once in a lifetime ..... thus a reviewer can not have countless 10s .... yes I agree that even my worst orgasm was right on the money LOl .. but ... if such a simple definition has no meaning ... then the review / grade has no meaning ... its a pretty simple concept.
Its not about someone giving a girl a 10 that others give a 7 .... its about someone who gives nearly EVERY girl a 10 - you (and other girls ) should know that many reviewers besides myself dismisses reviews by anyone who has multiple 10s listed.
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