Although I suspect most reviewed providers have at least limited "VIP" status, I'm not certain if the limited status gives them PM access. There's really no way of knowing whether anyone, provider or hobbyist, has PM access. I suggest regular email unless you are specifically informed by the provider that a PM thru TER is acceptable.
If she is a VIP member, there will be a box at the top that says "send private mail to provider." Click on that box, and then a window will open where you can write and send a mail to her.
I can't be sure as I have been a VIP for a long time but I think providers get the PM priveledges without VIP but still can't read anyone's reviews but their own.
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