Which brings me to some final thoughts. Forgetting about the pleasure / pain issue previously mentioned. And not every woman has been sexual abused,  raped, or suffered a bad relationship fallout impacting pyshe. Then what does that say about normal, or regular man-woman sexual relationships? Let's take a look at a "normal" relationship. Is there such a thing, some may ask. The differences between the genders suggest to some, whimical, eyes rolling skyward, "what's that"? Isn't the true relationship between a man and woman based upon one party giving the other party something , in return for something else. For example, the traditional set up. Family man Joe, 8-5 job. Bringing home the dough. What's he get in return? Sex, a meal, and a family. Isn't this a form of....dare I say...use the term...p%$&&^%#@? How is it different? Well,the woman doesn't go around !@#$ing for a living. Is it just the sexual act that makes it different? But what if the partner can't afford to put his woman up? What if he doesn't have the tools--- but really loves her? And she has to do it? Our society and capitalistic system boils down to the same common demoninator --- money. Whether the man gives the woman money now or later, while the man gives the woman a place to stay, a car, a home, children. It still boils down to receiving one thing for another. Now this is all said and written in the traditional sense. And we haven't touched on the independent girl, or whole other myraid of situations. Such as: just doing it for fame, or porn star, or need to buy a house, or hit on some bad times. The most honorable, I don't want a man in my life and I want my own independence! There are millions of different reasons out there, and they all don't fit the round peg in the square hole.
out enjoy happy mothers day


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or at least after reading this stuff. I have a GREAT EXCUSE...LOL.. get off the acid or maybe back on..?? LOL>. good luck.. try another board..?Were you bottle fed..??? jUST KIDDIN.. don`t take this stuff so seriously.. RELAX>. we are thinking about having a memorial barbecue next weekend.. if you would like to come.. maybe I`ll bring you some good ole Humboldt.. !we`re putting the BAR.. back in BARBECUE!!!!

Q Seeker>> said we could do it in his backyard. since its bigger. mine is all BAR..LOL.. ! which Quzi and I will come back over for a night cap..LOL..the 27th.. !  !