I assume, vegas its different because of .. Its vegas.. Its a sexy place. But I think the only time it makes a eye brow raise is in the daytime.. going into a hotel in a short,tight, breast showing dress would look odd , when people are checking in and out with the kiddies.

I would think If you are a sexy, confident women .. you would look sexy in anything ? So my thoughts would be .. A dress tight enough to hug the curves but not to burst a grape.. and leave the boobs and ass hanging out till the night time .

Jeans heels and a baby tee always looks good on a hot lady, and then just bring a change of clothes to change into..

Hello everyone, this is a question that I have been asking myself a lot recently since my return. Obviously attire depends on what type of meeting it is. My main concern is how to dress in a sexy manner without drawing too much attention from security and making it painfully obvious to on lookers. My first thought was a nice sexy vest with either jeans or form fitted pair of slacks and a pair of nice heels instead of a full blown suit jacket and pants considering how hot it has been lately. I'm not quite sure. I'd love to hear your feedback. Thanks,

Hugs and a lick,
Aimee Aston

P.S. and how much is too much?

Far be it from me to give any woman advice on this topic.  I'm just a guy (and have no training in security).  All I can say as a guy from Kansas who has lived in Vegas about 17 years and who has finally become a little more aware of what goes on is: big, big heels, a short skirt, cleavage and that strut just scream "working girl."  What you've described sounds perfectly acceptable to me.

At home I always hobby at incalls. Whereas in Vegas, I meet the lady at the casino floor, hang out at the lounge a bit, or even have a meal before going to the room. So, it'd be best if the provider's attire matches mine; otherwise it would look out of place.

I am a casual jean-wearing kind of guy, so I always appreciate casual wear.

Aimee, as long as you don't have your boobs and ass hanging out all over the place you should be fine wearing something sexy. Aria actually has security literally standing at the entrance to the elevators 24 hours checking room keys. I lost count of how many gents i saw with sexy gals who all seemed to be wearing the same attire: Nice, sexy dresses that showed off their figures without being too overly revealing. Make no mistake though: The dresses definitely accentuated the goods. The guys checking the keys had absolutely NO issue with any of them and they all were waved through. You think security did'nt know what the hell was going on? Besides, from what i noticed (and i notice everything), a LOT of the non working ladies dress the same damn way. It takes a really trained eye to scope out the pros from the non-pros. So, in my opinion, Fuck the vest, the jeans, and the slacks. You have an incredible, curvy body that should NOT be hidden. And believe me, to be seen with you would be a helluva an ego boost to any gentleman. Having said that, my advice is as follows: Have the gent meet you at or near the casino or bar, then the 2 of you could proceed to the room. The fact that you will be with a gentleman totally eliminates the chance that you will be hassled. It was actually funny as hell watching some of the more dorky guys heading past security to their rooms with these gorgeous babes on their arms.

Personally, I find a nice, black, tailored business-suit always looks good, on the right woman.  That being said, I think I might want someone dressed more business-like in a place like Bellagio or Wynn than South Point, Bally's or The Rio.   And, to be honest, I had a great time with you about a month ago, including a nice cocktail downstairs, and I really don't remember what you were wearing in public at all.  And, consider that a compliment, because if it looked outrageously trashy or just plain out-of-place, I'd likely have remembered.  Whatever it was, I think you slipped out of it pretty easily!

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I couldn't agree more with you Jeffery, hence why I asked the question, especially since I have been I have been shopping for clothes lately so that I have more of a variety to chose from. Guess it really does come down to what is the gentleman's preference.

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I have sat and watched some of my provider friends showing up for appointments dressed very casually, or dressed ultra conservatively.....I dress the same way for appointments very casual or in an outfit I could wear to any corporate job...

HOWEVER.....that FOCUS on the conservative look kinda made me stand out bc honestly, the tourist chicks dress like hoochie mommas esp on the weekends after 9pm....they are half nakey. It has never been my thing to dress up like a street walker even if I am enjoying a girls night out...

If you are high volume I suggest you not take on a predictable appearance.....

Regardless... for me I prefer the jeans, heels and nice blouse / top because I like to meet downstairs in a lounge for a drink or two before going up. I've already been impressed with something to book the appointment already and don't need to be wowed in the little black dress. (Something I'm sure you look really good in.)

A couple of recent meetings in some upscale hotels with some happening nightclubs right around 10:00 P.M. and my "dates" looked more civvie then the civvies showing up for the club(s)...  which was very comfortable for both of us. Just a happy couple checking out the sights... LOL! Yeah... the guys around us were still getting googly eyed but I don't think they thought that I was with a provider.

You would certainly get away with the outfit from photo 9 from your site at Venetian on a Thursday night or other higher end places with something going on in the nightclubs. (Palms Place, Aria on the weekends, Cosmo...)

Too much?? Little black dresses (or similar) in the lower end places... especially if those lower end places don't have a happening nightclub in them...

Then again.... something tells me you are going to attract attention wherever you go (in a good way) so I would certainly request that you dressed casual if we were meeting up..

When I was in the Casino Biz... a lady overdressed walking around by herself and hanging out at the bar (by herself) and talking to any guy who walked up to them... we tended to assume they were a provider. (Just the nature of the Casino Biz..) If it's not obvious but the lady is still gorgeous... we really did not care.... even if we knew they were a provider as long as they were not bothering the guests.

Some of the Casino trollers are just so damn tacky it's flipping obvious... those are the ones asking for trouble and ending up in the clink. Some of them were so damn stupid they would come back even after they got 86'd from the joint like nobody would remember them...

I'm meeting withing reason.
A lot of people just prefer ,sexy but low key.
There is a way to dress sexy without showing the world what you've got. As far as heels I'm 5'10 so I can't wear them too high or I will be 6'0 +    

I recall one time I was wearing a turtle neck(it was winter) out to a show and by the time we got back to the room and my top was off, it made for a great surprise what was hidden under.  

Have fun but still remain classy and dress how your comfortable.

While off topic...it's been mentioned a few times in this thread so I'm not singling you out...but why in the world would you expect security to refuse a guest from bringing whoever he wanted up to his room??  I can understand a woman dressed suggestively, not having a key, and sort of wandering around BUT if I'm a guest and I am not allowed to bring whoever I want to my room then there is going to be a major issue.

I may need to rejoin the suit wearing crowd in a few, but I've had several business meetings in recent weeks in shorts.  My approach is that if you want to do business with me, get over it.  The suit thing will be in a different city with a different climate and for enough money to make it worth my while.  This is Las Vegas and it's summer.  Naked is good, but if the neighbors complain, just enough to make them shut up is the appropriate amount.

Worms R Us?

Dress in a way that makes you feel confident.  The business suit is the most conspicuous and just plain uncomfortable imo.

OK, I was in Vegas a couple of weeks ago and staying at the Palms. My friend that I see a lot, text and said she was at the bar we always meet at in a red and black bustier, black lace boy shorts, black thigh highs and come F me pumps... I'm thinking, oh this is not going to go well... I went down the elevator and low and behold, 80% of the ladies were dressed that way. Playboy Midsummer's Night party or something. She fit right in... in fact had a little problem finding her...
Usually I like jeans, sexy top and heals... but have to admit, her outfit was amazing... ha ha

My personal preference is conservative, dark colors little to no cleavage showing.  A business suit with a plain blouse is fine.  I also prefer to give the lady a room key discreetly and walk past security separately.  I rarely encounter it, but a lady should be prepared with an appropriate story for security so she does not become flustered if confronted.

It matters not one wit to me how sexy a lady looks in public.  I prefer not to draw attention to the meeting.

It almost seems common sense, first check with the client to see if he has a preference.  I personally want to match styles so it actually looks like we are a couple who planned a meeting.  Then I would always suggest dressing in a comfortable way, something that is appropriate for the venue and time of day...as a guide...something you would wear to go out if you wanted to attract a man in the civvie world.

Of all the outcalls I've booked the all time favorites was a "beach date" several summers ago...I've never been in public with a woman 15 years younger than me with 34DD's popping out of her top (NOT recommended attire for most outcalls!!!!) and a casino date on the east coast when we both just happened to wear almost exactly the same thing (we both wore jeans, black shoes, a white button down, and a black blazer...we looked like two waiters taking a break).  Her's was opened further down than mine and made for a very sexy look.

Since I always stay at a hotel that requires a room key for the elevator, I always meet my date in the casino and have a drink together to get to know each other a little if this is a first meeting, or to catch up with one another if its not. Since I usually dress fairly casually when in Vegas (jeans, sneakers, golf shirt), I usually like my date to dress somewhat low-key as well, so that she doesn't really stand out too much when we're together. It only works so well, however, since, Like Aimee, everyone I see is extremely hot looking, and even dressed casually, they draw stares while we walk through the casino to my room.

So, I guess my best advice is to ask your date if he has any preferences ahead of time, as others have mentioned.

But I need to learn how to ask for certain attire.  I feel uncomfortable asking for lingerie, I worry about the etiquette rules, but I new at this and I'm getting better, usually I buy some in advance. I'm 56, and the last time I wore jeans on a date I was in my twenties.  I always dress nice for an appointment, and I like it when the girl dresses nice as well.  I'm starting to understand the concern ladies have for LE, but I see so many tourist girls dressed in tight short dresses with heels I don't see why it's a problem.  I would love it if my date showed up like that, then emerge from the bathroom in sexy lingerie, that would be a total fantasy.  Maybe I need to start asking to meet in bar, tell them how I will be dressed, and hope for the best. I really don't like it when they show up in jeans, I think it extenuates our age difference and makes what we are doing more obvious.