Las Vegas

do looks matter?
mrtrouble22 1 Reviews 1305 reads
posted
1 / 28

this question is for the ladies. i have been reading tons of reviews as i prepare to head to vegas at the end of the month. i will see high reviews for a girl, then a low review or two and wondering if the looks of the guy effect performance? thanks for your input. =)

Lovely Lorena See my TER Reviews 1056 reads
posted
2 / 28

even beautiful women have off days..I dont believe it has to do so much with outside appearance..just my 2 cents

I find as a provider that you cant be perfect for everyone.  I hope this helps..

sincerely
Lorena

AngelsVixens See my TER Reviews 931 reads
posted
3 / 28
CarlyCrawford See my TER Reviews 1010 reads
posted
4 / 28

I have never found that the looks of the client matter, and as far as that having any effect on "performance" you make it sound somewhat derogatory like the passion exchanged within a date is contrived or inauthentic?  

I find the larger part of great sexual chemistry stems from intellectual compatibility, as a girl in my mid twenties some of the best sexual encounters I have enjoyed in this hobby have been with men 30 years my senior or perhaps 60lbs overweight because we started with dinner or a lengthy conversation and found commonalities that connected us way before the clothes started come off!

I think that inconstancies in review scores that you mention are probably due to a lack of that very chemistry, not because of a lack physical attraction because we all know that one person’s 10 is another person’s 7.  
Posted By: mrtrouble22
this question is for the ladies. i have been reading tons of reviews as i prepare to head to vegas at the end of the month. i will see high reviews for a girl, then a low review or two and wondering if the looks of the guy effect performance? thanks for your input. =)

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 1074 reads
posted
5 / 28

The guy stated i was lovely, and he would be proud to have me on his arm in public.  lol Funny that I was rated a 7, but to each their own who am I to argue if he was being honest I respect his opinion.  Don't sweat the small stuff!

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 952 reads
posted
6 / 28

I don't think have any correlation with how a provider is going to perform.
Not everyone is going to look like they stepped out of GQ magazine and that is okay.
I have performed the same no matter what a gent looks like.
But,everyone's perception of beauty is different so what one gent thinks a provider's score should be for looks or performance and then another gent has a whole different idea of what the review scores should be.

Or how he perceives the provider looks to him and how was that experience in his eyes.
That is why you see different scores.And then you have to take in to account sometimes there are fake reviews that have been posted for a provider that she may not be able to have removed.
Have you ever seen a post where a guy is questioning a review of a provider and he cannot seem to understand why she got a high score?Maybe he has seen the same provider and to him she is a 7 and some other guy thought she was a 10.
Just my .02

Holedriller 21 Reviews 843 reads
posted
7 / 28

It depends upon how good the providers are and if they are into providing to Ken types only.  I have to say that I am far from Prince Charming.  However, I have had great times with the most beautiful ladies.  Other times the chemistry is just not there.  To quote Forrest Gump "It happens".

Hpygolky 214 Reviews 830 reads
posted
8 / 28

I wish everyone had your outlook and attitude....
"Not everyone is going to look like they stepped out of GQ magazine and that is okay.  
I have performed the same no matter what a gent looks like."
You keep on keeping on....

pressure46 49 Reviews 842 reads
posted
10 / 28

While the ladies , especially those in Las Vegas, are generally in the top 10% of attractiveness in the general population, the clients come from the full range of looks. (After all the ladies are selling a commodity based a great deal on looks.)
But how a gentleman presents himself is more important to getting the best out of the lady in question. As they all say, be clean, respectful, and considerate of her limits, and things will go well. That does not imply that all encounters will "click" as sometimes personalities don't mesh,. Also by being considerate, I don't mean that there can't be a "freaky" session.  
Just my .02

russbbj 89 Reviews 782 reads
posted
11 / 28

I'm 50 years old 15 lbs overweight with grey thinning hair and to be honest have never really been amongst the good looking men (which is fine, if we were all good looking then none of us would be). Money I have. Youth, good looks, a fit body not so much. So I hope our looks don't matter much.

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 862 reads
posted
12 / 28

Some of the "Brad Pitts" of the world can be harder to deal I with. They think they are doing us a favor.. If all of us ladies made emails public that said things along the lines of, "wait until you see me... "

Why does it have to be like that?

When it comes to looks I have such a diverse taste.. My man among men is Kevin James. I just find him the total package of sex. I think he has such a fun look, his sense of humor always gets me, I would rest my head on his belly every night.. Then there is Dave Grohl... I could watch him for hours upon hours.. The list goes on..  

If you are presentable, reciprocate my hug when I enter the room.. Well, we are off to a good start. :)
Xx

pmashley See my TER Reviews 924 reads
posted
13 / 28

This probably won't go over well, but, I'm glad somebody finally asked this publicly.

I don't leave my eyes in valet with my car. Personally, maybe I'm shallow, but, I have left appointments because I've found that if I am visually offended it makes for a horrible experience all the way around.

There is nothing better than showing up to an appointment and finding an attractive gentleman. I love that and have been fortunate to have had the pleasure of meeting quite a few and they all know who they are because I can't help saying so.

Ashley the Asshol

nebrintellect 19 Reviews 796 reads
posted
14 / 28

Wow. You might have expressed your true feelings, but I am not sure it was a wise choice to do so. I know if a provider ever did to me what you claimed to have done on some appointments there would be a TER review with a '1' in performance as soon as I could post it, along with a well-written explanation why.

In the last few years I have experienced a number of incredible Las Vegas providers, including three who responded to this thread saying looks didn't matter. One gave a pretty good description of me, though she probably was not thinking of me when she posted her reply. I had a wonderful time with her and all the others too and am certainly I glad I chose them instead of you.

Perhaps you should add a disclaimer to your ads stating:

"Do not contact me unless you are an attractive gentleman.

Hpygolky 214 Reviews 832 reads
posted
15 / 28

My hats off to you. I've been watching this thread to see if anyone would honestly says what's on thier mind. Looks do help. Chemistry is alot but first impression really does mean something.
Let's not be so PC about this, but then again who's really going to anwser this correctly without some kinf of backlash....

MrTwister 3 Reviews 762 reads
posted
16 / 28

Whatever dude. She's honest. I'd take honesty any day over someone lying or acting like they didnt care if they did.  

And for my two cents, if it we me in her shoes I'd be the same way. God....dudes , me included, are the shallowest mother fuckers between the species...and we MOSTLY pick dates based on looks. Dont fucking double standardize man

jgoodman222 14 Reviews 675 reads
posted
17 / 28

Personally.   I would prefer when a woman exits a date when she finds me repulsive.  

It would save me a lot of money.

nebrintellect 19 Reviews 869 reads
posted
18 / 28

Do you know me?  Do you know how I pick who I see?  The ladies I have seen do. I've been doing it the same way for over 10 years and I think I'll stick with what I have been doing and not worry too much about someone coming on here full of bluster and b.s. who so far has mainly shown crude and rude and not much more.

MrTwister 3 Reviews 919 reads
posted
19 / 28

Nope. I don't know you. Nor do I know who you see. But I bet they are mostly attractive. Which I bet you enjoy. And if they were not, you'd likely not pick them. If the picture represented an ugly woman, in your mind...you would likely pass. Am I wrong?

I doubt it.

Hence, my point. As well as the female to whom you derided

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 749 reads
posted
20 / 28
BBWjodie 786 reads
posted
21 / 28

I am a mature woman and posted a real picture, a current one, and in a recent review was given a less than 5 on looks (but over the top performance).   Had another gentleman a few days later who read the review and who wanted to see for himself. He did not leave a comment on my looks but gave me a 10+++ .  And said he would be back !!!

So, the short answer is. It all depends on the man !  Do you want nice, clean, honest gal, no drama who you would go back to ... who by the way rocked your world ... or do you want a model who sees probably up to 10 guys a day and only gives 20 minutes of her time, forces an upsell, for you to get screwed (twice!).

I'm just saying...
Posted By: mrtrouble22
this question is for the ladies. i have been reading tons of reviews as i prepare to head to vegas at the end of the month. i will see high reviews for a girl, then a low review or two and wondering if the looks of the guy effect performance? thanks for your input. =)

oralconniseur 10 Reviews 789 reads
posted
22 / 28

it has to; at least a little. Humans are visually stimulated and/or unstimulated. It is just natrual that humans will always makes a judgement on what they see regardless if it is another human or food; so looks always comes into play.  

Some providers may say that it does not matter to them, but they will see the hobbyist first (and make a judgement) when you open the door; before speaking to them and learning their personality and if they click.

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 820 reads
posted
23 / 28

I actually have three, but one is back east and I don't get to see him anymore.. So I'll leave him out of it.

One - the night we met I entered the room and he had Katy Perry on. I just knew it was going to be fun. He had two candles lit and some bottled water. I looked at him.. He said, "I read it in a review.. " I looked at the bed.. He said, "go ahead.." I went and jumped on it and he joined me.

Two - he's in a wheelchair and insecure about his body. I learned her persona from a board before we actually met.  

Two gentleman that maybe in the real world I wouldn't look at twice - but the guys in the real world that I look at twice are never any good for me!!! Lol .. (And vice versa, haha!)

As I get older I honestly find myself way more attracted to men who I have something in common with. Men who I can let loose around and just be myself. And gosh darnit, me who let me jump on their bed to Katy Perry!!!

Maybe when I was in high school looks would matter more, but somewhere along the way things changed - thank god! I never want to go back to being young and dumb. :)

MrTwister 3 Reviews 732 reads
posted
24 / 28
hiddenhills 143 Reviews 774 reads
posted
25 / 28

if you were going you'd get an up close and personal look at just what a motley crew hobbyists are. So if looks really mattered, we'd all be in trouble. What providers care more about is showing up on time, being squeaky, respectful and not being a squatter.  

Posted By: mrtrouble22
this question is for the ladies. i have been reading tons of reviews as i prepare to head to vegas at the end of the month. i will see high reviews for a girl, then a low review or two and wondering if the looks of the guy effect performance? thanks for your input. =)
-- Modified on 1/16/2014 2:12:53 PM

mrtrouble22 1 Reviews 645 reads
posted
27 / 28

i want to thank everyone for their responses to my question. didnt mean to start any arguements between TER members, was just curious.  i know personality and how men treat their providers mean alot more than how they look. just wanted to see if some of the providers would respond honestly about the looks questions.  

i guess i could have phrased my initial question a lil better, like maybe "are you dissapointed if the guy is less than average looking?" or "do the looks of the guy make it a better experience?" but again, thanks for posting and being honest ladies. =)

thefoozler 15 Reviews 894 reads
posted
28 / 28

And that means that looks shouldn't enter the equation.  This, of course, assumes that the customer is clean, friendly and respectful.  Since most of us are older gents, usually somewhat past our prime, providers should have a clear expectation as to how we will look.  Providers are paid to give us the fantasy of our choice, while customers have no such obligation.  This is the hobby after all, and not eharmony.  LOL

In my experience, the providers of Vegas have been very good to me, so I'm not complaining here.  I've only had one bad experience in the past 5 years, about a year ago, which which might have been related to OP's question.  The provider was extremely unprofessional in many ways, which prompted me to write my first negative review.  

I'm reminded of an excellent LV provider whom I've seen in the past.  Even though I wasn't at my best (I asked her about rescheduling, but she wouldn't hear of it), she gave me a wonderful experience.  To quote her website, here is her response to the question of entertaining guys with disabilities:

"Yes, Yes, and Yes...I do not discriminate on any basis and neither should you.  I have seen men in wheelchairs, walkers and the use of canes along w/ other ailments and it does not bother me a bit.  I find it is the personality whom I will discover in them who are the most enjoyable."

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