I am sorry but, why do some providers still do this during a date?

The date should be equal for both sides, right?  

It's crazy, how some providers think in this hobby.  If you are worried about doing it, then don't do or expect daty either.  

So the providers that don't have a problem with with daty or bbjcim are the smart ones.

One word why bbbjcim does not equal daty - Hematospermia

There are other words too.........but guess I am just not one of the smart ones LOL LOL LOL  

xoxo CindySpice

 

But must admit receiving won't get me there and I'm really a better giver. :-p. Boys, keep up on your consumption of pineapple. Makes you taste extra yummy.

As usual, Ms. Spice is correct.

I presently have hematospermia due to excessive drinking and have advised providers of the condition when I set an appointment.   Some don't mind, we just do everything covered.  Some just stop communicating.  By the way, it can be a symptom of an STD.  I got tested when it first happened and found clean.

I would not feel right not informing a provider.  I think we have a responsibility to help one another keep safe and healthy.

It is a bitch getting old.

cmon you have to be petri dish to suck on that and
who is seeing a provider right after prostate surgery?!
I'm sure people with fever, chills and blood in their urine
are anxiously calling providers

The argument that bbjcim is not the same as daty is crazy.  
When both are done right a woman will cum with daty and a man with bbjcim.
I have been in the hobby game, for 23 years and never had a health issue or std!
So either one can carry a risk, but so can this hobby in general.
I just love having fun in this hobby, with providers who are fair and healthy like myself.

Also Dr.Spice, it's go to see you back.

I think you should have a talk with Dr.Spice. Lol
So hopefully it's more open minded providers, like you out here.  
The date should be enjoyable for both sides, not just one side

...... Or do you simply not understand what you read ????

I am not judging anyone's choices. Not what a gent wants or what a provider is willing to provide.
Everyone has their comfort level , for everything. From the screening to the service.

Every activity carries some risks.( not talking only about STD's)  Some activities more then others.
Each to his own comfort level and that is why DATY yes and BBJCIM no.
 
To make a statement as if a lady isn't smart because she doesn't do bbjcim..... now that is crazy.

You asked why some providers allow ( no, they don't "expect" , that is up to the gent ) one thing but won't do another. So I am letting you know why.  
and oh btw with or without DATY the session is just as enjoyable. well for me anyways.

Never heard a lady complain about - well damm he didn't do daty so this date sucked .... and not the good kinda suck LOL LOL LOL  

Yes the date should be enjoyable for both sides.  
If daty and bbjcim are deal breakers for you and they are both a MUST for you to enjoy "the date" ........ then all you needed to do was say - looking for ladies who truly enjoy DATY and CIM.

What is with what is crazy and who is or isn't smart.  

but what do I know. Since I don't offer bbjcim , I am not smart LOL LOL LOL  
Yeah the B*tch ( the one that will say what many others are thinking ) is back  

xoxo CindySpice

Hey man,  I will not even answer a question like the one you asked me.  
We have a difference of opinion and that's fine.

Some do it and others won't do it.
I just prefer the providers that are open minded enough, as far as bbjcim are concerned!

I understand your points Cindy and I did come off a little strong with smart comment.  
So all I will say is the more choices a provider offers, but better for both parties!
Just be up front with people, in the beginning and bbjcim is still the way to go. Lol


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Providers expect daty? It is your choice if you want to do it or not. Never been with a provider who expects it

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OK, let's say CIM is on the menu.  Are you willing to kiss her afterwards?  even snowball?  cause that sounds fairly reciprocal to me.  #justsaying

YOU go both ways!!    

J/K!  Wassup, Quzi

quzi you can't be serious with that comment or so called question?

Do I kiss a provider after, I come in her mouth?  Well after she spits out the cum and does a quick  rinse out, why not? Just like when I am eating her pussy and she cums in my mouth, I spit out and do the same thing. We move on with our date.  Do I play safe on my dates, you better believe it!

I am not into anything like dato or nothing else too crazy, but I love it when a woman knows how to give head on a date!  So everybody different, but don't act like all of you don't get blowjobs with covers or without one.  

We all came into this hobby, to have fun with open minded providers and play safe.    

Some of the top providers in this hobby, do bbjcim and enjoy it. So what's the problem?  If Cindy does not do it, fine. I bet that does not mean she does not give blowjobs or hobbyist does not want to daty her either on a date.  

This is her right not to do bbjcim and it's my right to enjoy bbjcim!

It's nothing wrong with that either way, so stop the bullshit.