How many of you would consider seeing a provider if she had pink hair? I have a friend that would like to get into providing but has tattoos and pink hair ( awesome look on her) in shape and great girl, but she doesn't think anyone would want to see her...looking for your thoughts.
xo
LaRue McCay
If she is as you describe her " in shape " I would have no problem but she would also need to have an attractive face as well.
In my younger days I was actually in a short relationship with a civie who had a head full of purple streaks within her dark brunette hair. She was Hot as Hell.
I may however draw the line on green hair.
Another way to answer your question would be to send me a photo and allow me to write you with my honest opinion.
As a fellow provider I'd tell her to go for it!
One of the more popular "alternative" adult websites is http://suicidegirls.com/ (the front page of their site gives you web stats on members/comments) so I would say the interest is defiantly there from a fantasy side of things. And in this hobby where all the blondes and brunettes can be hard to keep straight being unique can be very attractive!
I would say the issue most clients would have is being seen in public with someone who attracts more attention than the average provider does. So many clients are here for business/conventions it may end up being a risk they aren't willing to take at someplace like the Bellagio where they might need to "escort" (lol) the lady upstairs!
I'd say there's never any harm in putting together a website for $200 and putting herself out there- especially under the tutelage of a veteran like LaRue! Even if she ends up with a few dates a month initally she can always progress further into the hobby as interest builds, all while maintaining a "real" job if needed!
It is so different than what we as conservative guys are accustomed to. It exudes wildness!
Pink hair would not be a problem at all, and could be appealing to a lot of guys as something unique.
It didn't do anything bad for the appeal of the girl in the Fifth Element (OK, orange not pink but still)...
Not that you can't ask here nad get more input from the Vegas guys, but check out this thread for some answers from LA.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=288321&boardID=1&page=#288321
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You know, leather, chains, huge platform shoes, torn fish net stockings and cracking gum.
It would be helpful if she knew "places to go". I'm hoping to go to the "double down" salon one day and she sounds like the type that would fit right in.
It's not a problem. ![]()
To me, what is important is that everyone has a good time.
1) I like that look, especially on spinners. And 2), it's been my experience that the more wild the look, the better the fuck. Plus I respect individuality.
If it looks good on her (as you say it does), pink hair would not be a disqualification for me.
First of all, I think it's so wonderful that a women can be herself and not feel scared or lack confidence in this biz. There is the "safe route" to take of course. The one where all men will like you. If you want that route, then go blond. Nobody hates a blond. But if you are a person who likes being low volume, or likes to feel more of a connection with those you are with, then you actually DONT want to appeal to every horny guy out there. What does every horny guy want? Big tits, Blond Hair, Hard Body, Perfect Ass, a normal girl next door personality... When I first started out, I actually liked being high volume. And the perfect color for me was blond. I appealed to every man. Every man wanted me. I got off on that in a way. To think that every man wanted me. But honestly, I also lacked confidence back then. The more that men wanted me, the more I liked myself. Those days are over now for me. Im so happy with who I am and I don't need anyone to convince me that I am a wonderful, beautiful, talented and unique women. When you get to the point that your happiness and self worth comes from within yourself, then you can take more chances in this business in regards to unusual looks. My first step into independence and going low volume, was to become a Red Head. Plenty of men didn't want me anymore when I was no longer a blond. Thats ok. But what I found was that the ones who saw me with red hair were so affectionate, kind, and we just had better personality matches. It was Fun and wonderful for me to be with these men who liked me for more then my hair color. So recently I did a very extreme thing. I went to a dark Purple the same color as Katy Perry. I absolutely love it. I had it done in a top salon and paid over $500 for it. So this is not some cheap bottle of Manic Panic. I curl my hair and I look now more like a character in a fantasy novel like lord of the rings, or a glamorous Vampire that a man would gladly be seduced by ![]()
Perhaps now I attract now men who believe in magic, Fantasy, Romance, Creative things... I love being low volume and just having fun. Many girls get jaded because they don't enjoy life anymore, or feel totally caged in a box and they can't expand or experiment. Im loving so much what I do because I do allow myself freedom to be me. And then those who like me for who I am, come to see me. That makes a wonderful time together. Both of happy and confident and having a great fun time.
I think the problem is there is stereotyping of hair color. As everyone knows.. Blonds have more fun. Hmmm, Do they really? But blonds are really airheads, right? This is stereotyping, and there's really nothing to back up these presumptions. I can tell you as a blond, it was hard to get someone to look into my eyes, or let me finish a sentence. Im a very intelligent person who thinks deeply on things. It bothered me that as a blond I was not being heard properly. Yet when I went to Red, everyone looked deeply into my eyes when I spoke. If I gave my opinion, they listened. I loved it! The main reason I went this dark purple is because Im entering into a very creative place in my life. I don't want to be summed up or figured out. I need wiggle room to go in any direction I choose as a creative artist. The second I went to this dark purple, people stopped trying to figure me out. They let me write my stories and do my projects, going in all directions, tapping into all levels of human and universal reality. Its been so wonderful to feel so free! This is something Im enjoying, and wouldn't want to go back to a "normal" color just because people are familiar to certain colors. Now that I have this wonderful gorgeous dream color, I look around me and I see a lot of fearful people. I almost feel bad that so many people live in fear of what others think of them. Its like seeing so many butterflies ready to open their gorgeous colorful wings and fly, yet they are afraid that they will be too brilliant if they do.
Don't let your friend (or yourself) be afraid. Be yourself, be confident and joyful, and you will find the right lovers, who think its remarkable to be so free and comfortable. There is no pressure to fall into a genre like Goth or punk or rebel or suicide girl. Color doesn't define a person. Its just a little icing on the cake. If you are the librarian type, yet with pink hair, then that is just you enjoying your life. Be free and be happy xoxoxo
Lots of love, Cameo, your Purple Creative Lover
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thanks everyone for the great input. I am going to let you her read this for herself and see what her decision is.
Thanks
LaRue
Don't think that pink hair and tats would be my first preference - not even my second or third! Maybe 2nd to last!
xo
LaRue McCay
without variety it wouldn't be a horse race.
Most of the places I stay require the dreaded walk through security. A hobbist of my advanced years is always concerned about attracting unwelcome looks when walking up to the room with a lady young enough to be my daughter. This would be doubly so with a pink haired beauty by my side.
I am sure there is a market for her if she enjoys being a provider. I wish her the best of luck and please let me know if she runs any "old codger" specials.
These are what attracts this hobbyist. A provider could have green hair, if she looks good in it.
It sounds like a hot look and I would enjoy seeing her especially if she was recommended by you.
i would love a hottie with pink hair