If the delay was just minutes , NO not a big deal .
When the delay becomes hours , yes it is a bit of a deal .
Not for every post it matters. But for many posts it does.
For certain posts and banters when they don't get exchanged in "real time" causes the post to lose
it's meaning ,point or effect and even "get stale"
what does " get stale " mean ? let me try to explain - Like if I made a post that expresses something that someone wants to reply to .
My post takes lets say 2 hours to post. in the mean time I have to get going.
by the time the post gets posted , I am away .
People respond to my post .
I have things to respond back but by the time I return to make another post , and now that post is taking HOURS to get posted ........now maybe the thread is on another page making my post stale. Cause really most people don't check the next page
Heck many threads "get stale" half way down the page
So for ME that is frustrating and annoying........cause then why bother ?
My post are trying to help and inform more people , not 15 people .
For other people ???? , well some probably could care less , but for those who want to banter with me , I can assume it is a bit frustrating as when certain banter doesn't happen in "real time" ,
it loses it's meaning.
Since this glitch has been on going for all my posts in the past 2 years , but yet never ever a problem in all my years on TER before that ....... it just makes you go hmmmm.
and when I see other types of posts ( that sometimes have no business going up at all ) go up in real time , Yes it gets frustrating and discouraging to ME !
I am sorry you don't understand what the deal is about it .
No one said it was a BIG deal , but it is a deal.
It isn't about ego or anything like that .
Yes. it is like that frustration of when you post a check into your bank account, but funds are not yet available to you even though you know that check will clear 110%
( great analogy Ol_D

)
I didn't ask Ol_D to post anything about it .
I made a comment , and he decided to ask about it in public.
Anyone who knows me , knows I don't go running to my friends to ask then to stick up for me .
Not my style , and my mouth is big enough with out their help LOL LOL LOL LOL
So when someone "white knights" me , it is purely out of their own hearts .
Which is very sweet , cause nice to know that there are people who do really care.
Hopefully this post has given you some insight to the world of the avid poster/reader.
and if not , then at least it helped you find a hot Latina . or maybe it helped someone else.
Since a VERY hot Latina ( Lovely Lorena ) responded on this thread .......see how meaningful things can happen from things you think are meaningless
While LL may not be a full blown Latina , she is so hot hot hot ....... who frickin cares !!!
No worries , we all are still having lots of fun ;- )
xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: hpygolky
Is she your Dr. Phil or... and it gets discouraging for who, really? I'll buy the notion of a computer glitch or whatever. But to equate a post to a monetary value is taking this a wee bit too far. But I respect your frustration, I just don't get it. Its not like it's the gestapo or anything... ......now where are the hot Latinas, dam it!