I would like to warn people here that what you think is safe is really not.  I have contracted herpes from a provider.  We kissed, DATY, and had a brief BBBJ.  I am not angry about it or bitter and I take full responsibility for my actions.  Just don't think that because it's covered during sex that you are safe.  I got it on my mouth and the virus has been transferred to my genitals.  I've since found out that 1 in 6 have genital herpes.  1 in 6!!!  Be careful out there and play safe!

You are right!Several years ago,I got a BBBJ from a brothel girl,no intercourse,nothing else.I got a painful "bacterial infection"(you-know-where)that took a month to heal.I see these reviews from guys demanding BBBJ and God knows what else.It's as if AIDS and all other STDS have vanished!Personally,I use a good mouthwash before and after kissing or DATY.

To each his own but some of the behavior I read on this board scares the crap out of me too. I was in high school in the 70's so I have fond memories of BBBJ's. But it's just not worth the risk now. And as far as DATY, I'd like to give the provider a little pleasure but I'm not willing to risk that either.

As Hobbyists why do we not alert other hobbyists when we contract
dieases as a warning??? These are serious health concerns and we need to be informed WHO is spreading disease.