Good luck and be safe

Do what you can to get your reviews back up.  A reputation could take a long time to earn, and 3 pages of good reviews shouldn't just be lost in the memory hole.

I would be willing to help any way I could! And I'm sure a lot of other people would too! Maybe if enough reputable members sent letters to TER on your behalf, the powers that be would believe the truth and reinstate your profile! So if that could help, just let us know! I agree that that would be preferable to starting over with a new name, but if you decide to do that, I doubt if it would take too long for you to be as well respected here as you ever were. If you do that, though, I would suggest that you don't make it too public. Just have your friends spread the word through back channels. You might need a new IP address too.

T.L.

-- Modified on 4/29/2008 4:45:10 PM

as someone who has seen
you and has reviewed you as well i would try and fight for TER posting your old revs

but if you do change your name PM me and let me know i will only be  to happy to see you again and write a new review........

444play

I am sorry to hear of your situation and hope it turn in your favor soon.  Without knowing all the details of the situation I can only offer a small piece of advice.  Contact TER and ask to get your reviews reposted.  Don’t give up unless you feel it is in your best interest to move on.  A good reputation is worth a lot in this business, as it is in any business.  

On the flip side if you would decide to change your name I think a lot of gentlemen would be willing to see you again.  Personally I would be willing to see you inder any name.  

Take care and best wishes in what ever you decide.

We don't know what is best for you.

I'd love to have you molest me again, so I'm hoping you start from scratch.

-hmmm sounds familar

-- In addition to advice above, would suggest keep your name, it's difficult to build things back up by starting over.

-- in addition, suggest either do one or none of couple (opps I listed more than a couple, a few options now) of things: (a) patch it up with ex or (b) set him up-somehow/someway with another SO so he can forget about you (c) change your passwords frequently , keep a record (d) get a restraining order - OUCH ! -- (d) talk to Tony Soprano--opps, I didn't say that (but i did know someone who once gave that as the first suggestion every time something of this nature came up). It's hard to provide info not knowing the extent of "really f*ck you up. But that's not right and it's bad karma for someone to do that.

Dang what do I know anyway, I am just an ex ballplayer quoting Yogi Berra and Yoda the Jedi Knight. But I do hope things turn out for the best.