Do the guys who pay to see these often lovely women actually believe these women like having sex with them?  I ask only because many posters write so fondly of the escorts they see that I get the impression they think these women like them and find them sexually attractive. I hope no one is quite that delusional.

tell ya this, cretin : none of the people who frequently post here are GONNA like you for your bitter & insecure post. And that's NOT a delusion ! So take your vaseline, kleenex & rubber gloves & hit the fucking road !

why ruin the fantasy?  for that short period of time where all the world's troubles just melt away in the arms of a fantastic lady, I, for one, am not paying for reality.

Bob
of the busted brackets

Short answer ............ no, most of us are not delusional.

Many of the ladies are quite adept at selling the fantasy.  As long as they are convincing, who cares.   However, "Sexually attractive" can be more than merely physical attraction, especially for women, where chemistry and personality come into play.  Personally, whenever I have induced a rubbery legged state, the sense of enjoyment is unmistakable ......... and that's good enough for me.

It's kinda like the Don't Ask - Don't Tell question of the hobby.  If you're having a great time, why bother to look a gift horse in the mouth!

Treat people the way u want to be treated!! When a man treats me with respect and true kindness with a genuine heart that shows me he wants to have fun without a judgeful and disrespectful attitude!  Sparks instantly fly with me!! So no not for every1 it is not how sum1 looks it is how they make u feel!! Hat's off to the generous man in every way heart, mind, spirit, good energy, and yes every woman no matter what she does loves to be spoiled!!! And if u read about me u will see i dnt mind spoiling you bak with unrushed time ,a goodspirited , truely erotically fullfilling time!! Treat me good and i will treat u better!! Muah!!! Give me a call if u want to be treated right!! (530-965-3188) give me sum time since i live off the strip!! Muah!!
XOXOXOX Marlayna XOXOXOX

I know providers who have had men fall in love with them, become obsessed with them and even propose to them...men who have volunteered to "take you away from this life." For these poor slobs, fantasy becomes reality and they get crushed when the lady lays out the facts of life to them. Although I have become friends with only a very few ladies, you know - I know - we all know - that it is about a financial transaction. As long as you have the dead presidents in your wallet you can buy yourself the fantasy...momentarily.

I will bet that a lot of the ladies out there, if they chose to, could recount various stories of men who have tried to make the fantasy a reality. Men who have offered them "legit" jobs with their companies, offered to set them up in an apartment, tried to actually date them in the romantic (as opposed to financial) sense.

For most of us, it is a momentary diversion from the daily routine of life. Only a small few could be called 'delusional.'

I don't understand this. I have been here short time and see many client I like to be with. We talk and laugh and have fun together. I see many very nice men. I enjoy myself many time and I don't understand why qrst think I not like that. I think maybe qrst do not think too good about himself.
I have fun and meet many people I like
Kisses,
May

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Just read a message from someone named priapus. I suspect his smooth, sweet talking style takes every woman's breath away. Keep up the good work.

You are correct in your original post and most providers are just doing their job whether they like it or not.
That said, I think you should concentrate on your individual sessions and if she is a good actress you will get what you pay for. Climb into her panties, not her mind.

I really like your sweet approach to the hobby, SweetMay.

And you may be on to something as to his state of mind.  LOL

Posted By: SweetMay

I don't understand this. I have been here short time and see many client I like to be with. We talk and laugh and have fun together. I see many very nice men. I enjoy myself many time and I don't understand why qrst think I not like that. I think maybe qrst do not think too good about himself.
I have fun and meet many people I like
Kisses,
May

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