So I started on Wednesday to arrange for a date tomorrow night. I emailed a lady I've seen in the past. After 24 hours with no response, I tried another lady through P411. After 24 hours with no response, I tried another lady through P411. So today, I tried once more, another lady through P411 and had a response within an hour.  I've been a "hobbyist" for almost 10 years now and I've never had such a hard time to make a connection. These were all well reviewed providers that had been active on P411 in the past week. Every inquiry was polite and with appropriate etiquette. I still have not heard from any of the first three. So, ladies what's a guy got to do?

I love pre-arranged appointments.
That's what I am used to back East, and it is tough for me here because the phone rings late, last minute, and I am not prepared to go to a casino late nite to meet someone I haven't communicated with.
But, that's the way a lot of this world operates in Vegas.
Hope you find a happy landing!!

xoC

If you contacted ladies THROUGH the P411 site , my advice to you is to contact ladies THROUGH  
their own personal email address or through their website like if they have an appointment form .
not the best to rely on contacting someone through a 3rd party site .......
regardless your past experiences with the site .

What does "active" on the P411 site mean ...... nothing really , just that they have logged in and logged out  . Nothing to be "active" on the site .  

Your request don't show up when ladies log on to the site.

Your best bet , use ladies direct web site ....... there is a reason they have personal web site  

So that is what a guy should do  

Hope this helps  
xoxo CindySpice

 

   

It's possible that those providers aren't choosing to ignore you because your email offended them but perhaps they are already booked through the weekend so they know they won't be taking on any additional appointments.  

It's not a very polite or professional practice but the reality is in this busy market many girls won't take the time to send a "sorry I'm already booked" reply... And by leaving you hanging there is always the option if their prior plans cancel they can send a quick reply saying "yes I'm free tonight, let's get together" since they never confirmed or denied their availability previously! Tacky but it happens.

I do have to 2nd what Cindy said about p411, I love the ability to screen easily but I'm not sure why so many people choose to use the messaging feature there! Filling out my contact form gives me all your information and the date information in 1 place that I can easily access from my cell phone without having to go to a 3rd party website, log in, click mailbox, click your message and then reply.. Maybe one day they will have an app of their own and that would make things easier

I can't count the number of times over the years that I have filled out ladie's appointment forms , then not her from then for 3-7 days. Just sayin'......

And I'm too smart to use sites like P411 in the first place.

Or providers wouldn't be posting in the forums and throwing up ads without saying "book in advance".  

The truth is, you can't swing a dead cat in Vegas without hitting a hooker. You just came across a few with poor communication skills.  

Browse over to the Ad board. If they have a phone number, send a text telling them you just sent them an email with BFENiceGuy in the subject line and the email contains all of your references info and the date and time you'd like to see them tomorrow night. I'll bet you score before you leave the first page.

As soon as Ms. Rightnow responds and you're setup. Do the right thing and get in touch with the others telling them you've found your fun for the evening and you'll contact them when you return.

non-spice advice

Second time this week I've seen my modis operandi decreed as being "not smart"!!  Yet, I've never had any problem booking on the day of arrival and every appt request I've made on P411 has resulted in a response....probably 95% in the affirmative!  

Guess I need to rely on dudes that have NO reviews to get a handle on this hobby, eh?

So true pre-booking are great !!

No reviews HERE ! This is true, but it is this site's choice not mine, since my attempts at reviews HERE are deemed "not explicit enough."

directly is usually better than via the p411 site as most providers have their email set up on their smartphones and can prolly reply faster

Well that is a whole separate issue .........

but if ladies are not answering their own emails from their own web sites or they are not responding to their own appointment forms ..... then how can one even expect them to answer a request through a 3RD party website . ?!?!?!?!?  

And it isn't about convenience or in this case non- convenience of access to a 3rd party site .

It is just certain things shouldn't be done through a 3rd party site . period.
Yes p411 GREAT site for certain things and reasons  ...... but not for everything .

If people can't think a little bit ahead and figured it out ....... then never mind.
Just because something seems easy and convenient doesn't mean it is the best choice .
It just means people get "lazy" . ........cause why not just hit a button and boom your request is off
but , when people get "lazy" , their guard is down .... when their guard is down .....
Well ,  that is when trouble can happen or happens .

Sometimes the longer roads are more safe , discreet and private .
Since I don't use google mail , or hotmail , or yahoo ...... or any of those crappy non secure sites.
I am more confidante that my private email address is the most private , discreet ,and secure email address one can have ........that is where I want requests to land .  

Now please no one get into the debate that the internet is never 100% secure blah blah .
I know . nothing is never 100 % .
But if I can keep it 99.98-99.99 % secure ....... then that is the best place to inquire about a meeting .

I know AbeNormal , you already got that  
Hopefully more people will finally figure it out .

I can write a book about stuff people think they know ..... but they don't know.
and stuff they do thinking it is better , when no it isn't .

Sometimes , there is a place and time for certain things and not for other things.
My motto is always - better safe then sorry ........since I have NEVER EVER been sorry ,
guess I got it right !  

xoxo CindySpice