Go look at the high posters on the PS board.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/topPosters.asp?BoardID=23&Page=1

One of the mods is #1, but there are several ladies in the top 10.

It's also a pretty informative, lively and well-moderated board, in my opinion.

I don't have issues with ladies being active participants in the discussions here- it adds the right kind of "spark" to things- and some of us LIKE talking to women.