I saw Jessica last year and emailed her about seeing her again during an upcoming trip to Vegas.  She responded a couple of days later that she was available.  That was almost 3 weeks ago.  I have emailed her a couple of times regarding details of the trip but haven't heard back from her.  I even called and left her a voice mail message to no avail.  I know that she had some issues this spring and her website at that time said she "wasn't ready" to come back for some reason.  Finally, late this summer, her website was back up.  I hate to move on to someone else, but feel like I have to start looking.  Does anyone know anything about her situation and whether or not she is OK?

and she will be back this  next month.. ! I have alot of players that want the 2 of us. ~~  BUT  like all of us.. she took a break.  here is my situation.. My mom  ( MY BEST FRIEND) is very sick  and I want to spend time with her. its seems that all my appointments  ~~ get very upset for my canceling~~  ~~I`m putting my mother first.!! THIS MAKES ME SICK,to think that I ACTUALLY cared for any of you guys~~~  Its all about YOUR feelings and  your hard dicks.. ! It makes me puke~~ to think these" people" I kind of liked..NOT ANYMORE~~~~~~~~~~~~ I`m going to start telling it like it is ~~ you guys have to pay for sex.. so get over it!! no more Mrs Nice guy here!! and in all HONESTY  it makes me sick to think I made an effort to smile for any of you!~~~~~~

Please don't include me in this group.  I have never become upset when a provider has to cancel as long as they let me know.  I hope the lady would understand if I had to cancel at the last moment due to family illness or issues. So lj please don't give up on all of us.  You are clearly on the short list of the best!

Where did all this come from when the poor man was simply inquiring as to where someone was at or if they were still around? Second off, are you to the bottom of the bottle yet? LOL

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I am sorry to hear about your mom and hope everything is ok or ends up ok.

Most times as long as there is communication both ways, cancellations aren't a problem.  But if the provider doesn't give timely notice the client may have reason to be upset.  Family comes first.  But as to the fact that we are paying for sex, think that if we didn't pay for it, how would some ladies make a living, they are selling it.  LJ is definitely at the top of a short list of the very best.

if you didn’t use an alias! You never know who's hiding behind an alias!

I am just a little confused that I haven't heard back from her after repeated tries.  That's unusual for her, and I hoped that she was OK.  I thought maybe someone who knew her had some insight.  And as far as us meeting as we had originally discussed, I am sort of in limbo, that's all.  I certainly understand if personal problems come up.

First, she isn't drinking right now, but has asked me to bring her a bottle of Jack Daniels, so you and others had better be prepared and get ready to face the consequences.  I will do my best but NOBODY can control her all the time, and anyone she is pi**ed at for any reason, better heed this warning, The  Indian is ready for the WARPATH!!!  Just am glad that she isn't nad at me.

You are on this board every day shilling her.

I would not see a reason for her to be angry with you of all people.

I DON'T SHILL FOR ANYONE, SHE JUST HAPPENS TO BE A FRIEND.  DON'T YOU KNOW WHAT THOSE ARE?  OR DO YOU HAVE TO PAY TO HAVE YOUR FRIENDS BESIDE PAYING FOR SEX!!!!

Or is your caps lock feature stuck on your keyboard?

I am pretty sure LJ can defend herself, without your continued shilling. Give it a rest.

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references from two different ladies in this thread alone that refer to our "hav(ing)to pay for sex" in a very dergoatory manner.

Guess we are finding out what the objects of our affections REALLY think of us.

I really don't think marinesgt is a lady!

I also don't think LJ really feels that way, MOST of the time anyway. I think she was feeling bad about her mom, and was upset about the reactions she got when she cancelled some appointments. In other words, she was having kind of a bad day!

We should all know by now that LJ never hides her feelings! I also think her feelings are always genuine. I'm sure that when she posted, she really felt that way. I am also pretty sure that when she smiles at a client, that is an indication of a sincere feeling too! She doesn't have to force herself to smile or enjoy the company of her friends. We all have bad days and get depressed sometimes. Unlike LJ, most of us keep our feelings to ourselves when that happens. We don't post about them on the board. But LJ herself knows that she is in the wrong mood to have a date, which is why she cancelled a few appointments. She just couldn't resist venting on the board, lol!

But even if LJ really doesn't respect the guys she sees, which I don't believe, I wouldn't attribute that feeling to all the other sweet, wonderful girls who post here sometimes. I don't think that would be fair.

By the way, I also look forward to Jessica Riley's return! I haven't had the pleasure of meeting her yet, and I really feel deprived! Wow, I think a duo with her and LJ would have to be an awesome experience!  

T.L.  



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I guess that sticking up for a friend that is worried about a family problem is shilling, then I guess I am guilty.  At least I have a friend that appreciates true friendship, and I don't have to pay for her friendship. It is given and recieved freely.  You might try it sometime if you ever get the chance.

Do you have a brain in your head? Of course you are nothing more than a meal ticket. Try asking LJ for BBBJ,DATY and GFE for free. I feel sorry sheis losing her best friend but I feel sorry for any weak minded hobbist who does not know the real reason for LJ being in the business. Money,Money,Money. I have spent a ton of it on her but not when she is drinking.

Amazing amount of psychological experts out here that have surfaced with opinions lately.  I know why LJ is in this business, and have never considered asking for freebies like some losers try.  She is now and has been for a long time a friend.  You must be the weak minded one here, sex is not the end all requirement for being around anyone.  Sounds like she has turned you down many times, and you are trying to get back at her for a reason know only to you.  My suggestion, get a life yourself.

I was indeed assuming that marinesgt was a lady just from the tone of the thread (No, that was NOT a shot).  Should have taken a second to look up...

As for LJ, having never met her I wouldn't have any idea how she feels about anything.  Bad day or not, I did think it was crappy to interject that load into a simple question about Jessica.  Ah, well...

BTW, I look forward to Jessicas return as well.  She's been on the short list far too long, which I really hope to fix in Feb!

Dearest Mr.Mustard,

This one is totally my fault. You've gotten lost in the "come back" email that I wasn't quite ready for and it prevented me from getting back to you in a timely manner. I am going to have to direct people to a new email address after scheduling a date, so no one gets lost. I totally dropped the ball on this and take full responsibility. If you haven't already made other arrangements, please let me know by sending me a message with URGENT in the subject line. I promise to reply within hours and I would like to offer you a discount for any worry I have caused you. I know you were more concerned for my well being than our date, and that makes you a special person in my book.

LJ, I am so, so, sorry to hear about your Mom. I know how the world can look when you're suffering and hurt. I hope I can help put a smile back on your face, even if it's for a little while. Sometimes we need to take a break from things and make sure we take care of ourselves. Everyone should come back up for air now and then. I know that LJ is singling out the few bad apples in the bushel. We both know that there are alot of great guys out there. When you're hurting the bad looks worse. The good thing is that there are more Mr. Mustards out there than bad apples, and they make life and this job fun. Sending love, JR

Nice to hear from you and know you are OK!  I have sent an email to you so look for it if you haven't already received it.  See you soon.  (Thanks Discussion Board!)

Hope all gets better for you, Jessica.  Hope to meet you, on my next Vegas trip.

Glad to see that people can work things out.