A grandson told of his anger at a schoolmate who had done him an injustice.

Grandfather said: "Let me tell you a story." "I, too, have felt a great hate for those that have taken so much, with no sorrow for what they do. But, hate wears you down and does not hurt your
enemy. It is like taking poison and wishing your enemy would die. I have struggled with these
feelings many times.

It is as if there are two wolves inside me:
one is good and does no harm. He lives in harmony with all around him and does not take offense when no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way.

But the other wolf is full of anger. The littlest thing will set him into a fit of temper. He fights with everyone, all the time, for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is hard to live with these two wolves inside, for both of them try to dominate the spirit."

The boy looked intently into his grandfather's eyes and asked, "Which one wins, Grandfather?"

The grandfather solemnly replied, "Ahhh..the one that we feed."

In 2009,,,Let's all feed the good wolve!
Let me end 2008 by apologizing to any TER member i may offended this year!...I don't really know what made me want to feed the "Bad Wolve"
Happy New Year Everyone!

Nikki,
My father used to tell me a similar story. I think it applies to so many things in life.
Happy New Year

To listen to?

BTW Nikki,,,,,thanks for sharing that post with us!,,,,I hope we see more of the "good wolve" from everyone,,,in 2009!

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This wolf was full of duck

life.  I feel the best revenge is living well.  No one can f*ck with you when you live that way.  I still have difficult times, but I do not hold grudges or try to get even or wish ill upon those that do not do right.  At some point they get theirs too.

Thanks, Nikki,

I may incorporate this some discussions with some folks,

Thanks for sharing.