I'm a-callin' you out!!!

research project for a slow day at work.  I can't wait for Mr. BBQ's explanation.  Lol

to overcome the typical white man blindness!!!!

Is respecting your elders not a big deal in Asian cultures, grasshopper? 😄

suffers from a little blindness of his own on why any of his Kgirls would want to ever date a white guy.  He and I have discussed it often.  Nevertheless, he is only slightly over 30 and has a wealth of knowledge about the Kgirl industry, although sometimes skewed to his own perspective, but don't we all?  I admit I see Kgirls through the eyes of an older white guy, and that may be why they look so good to me.  Lol

The OP was just me sticking up for old white guys and their eyesight when conducting a commercial transaction. 😄 I also remember that in his more prolific mongering (or maybe review writing) days, Mr. BBQ was not shy with the superlatives. 😄

that you can get the wife on board with dating a young Korean girl.  I'm single, so no worries about being found out.  In your case perhaps you should approach your wife about adoption.  You have to act fatherly in the beginning, the way Woody Allen did, but his wife found out, so you have to be more discreet than he was.

I Billy D, being of (somewhat) sound mind and body, do hereby move that in future posts mentioning his name, all mongers shall refer to our friend dance, as Mr. BBQ.

is a 50-50 proposition with regard to the quality of the performance?

and the girl has feelings for you, then they will often be much more intimate and genuine than in their paid sessions with customers.  On the other hand, if they are dating you because they have some kind of scam agenda, or its merely a "thank you" date for being a steady customer, then the outside time will not be as exciting as the paid sessions.  It all depends on the girl's frame of mind and what her reasons are for going outside with you.  I have heard literally hundreds of stories of guys going out with Kgirls, falling in love, and then forking over $15,000 or more for "mom's operation."  All Korean mom's must get the same illness, because the cost of the surgery is most often $15,000.  Of course, the $15,000 helps the girl change her name, get new photos and relocate to another city, never to be heard from again.  

$15,000 in one shot? That's SIXTY appointments. Some of you dudes are fucking BALLERS!!!

They tend to target the young and lonely; guys that are awkward socially that have limited experience with women in general, and don't know what red flags to look for on whether they are being set up for a scam.  Married guys like you are generally not a good target because the girls know most of you can't put your hands on a chunk of big money like that and keep it secret from the wife.  

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because she only asked me for $10,000 not $15,000 a few days after we started dating.

I don't mind giving her that kind of money if I'm into the girl. infact, having a real girlfriend is more expensive than casual fuck aka hobbying. I don't think my parents will be happy about that, but hey this is my life.

old P.T. Barnum was right...

going to like it even less if you tell them she's a working girl.  

to go with the poetic justice of scamming them BEFORE they can scam you.  Once you have been doing this awhile, its easy to see the set up coming.  I always warn them up front when it first goes outside the incall NOT to try to scam me.  I tell them to be sincere and they will find me a generous boyfriend in the long run.  Most can't help themselves, they just HAVE to try to con you, because its part of their way of life (manipulating men out of their money) so they get what they deserve from those of us that are ready for them.  

Even after asking them not to scam, they still make an attempt? What do you do then?

See GaG's example above.  Part of the deception, as GaG describes, is providing you with OTC sexual favors, just like you would have with a real girlfriend.  They consider this an investment in the scheme and it costs them nothing out of pocket.  This blinds a lot of guys to what's coming and why they often fall for it.  Once the scam is exposed, you take a few more freebies by stalling a little, and then go ghost on them, just the way they would do you if you handed over $15,000.  

and I am certainly not cynical or jaded about these girls like Muffy or Dance. I have had several LTR's with hookers, both K-Girl and others and "most" of those relationships were not scams.

I brought a hooker GF "home to meet mom" one time. This was over five years ago and they are still Facebook Family although her and I have been done for some time now.

You and the hooker or you and your mom?   Lol

I get how guys are stupid about hot pussy but these ladies are have sex with many other guys every day. Why would you want an outside relationship with them in my experience they are into nothing but the money and are jaded not into you. There may and are exceptions to the rule but not in most cases just enjoy the hour or two you get and be done with it. I have met some great K-ladies in my years but most are doing this because they need money or want to fund a specific lifestyle.