You have the right to post whatever review you want subject to TER approval. On what authority can another user tell you to stop posting reviews, whether they are constructive or business-killing or otherwise? Based on his speculation that your reviews are hurting girl's business? Why would we stop reviewing based on his hard-to-verify speculation? My two cents: ignore the censors, especially here where the whole point is communication and information sharing, even if your review is total B.S. or just entertainment.
Even if your reviews are not helpful to some, it is on those persons to disregard them. I read your review on Coco and for my primary purpose - credible intelligence - I don't have enough information to verify its content, and I am not sure that I could even after visiting Coco one or more times. But reading your review for the purpose of entertainment and sharing, and perhaps empathizing with, your intimate first person view, it was great. I did not feel like I wasted my time reading your review. If it was a waste of time to me, that is part of the experience here. (E.g., the short general reviews that appear to be submitted solely for VIP credit and are wholly un-useful are an accepted few seconds of wasted time cost of this site.) It would be fun to see Coco and see if I could capture the same magic that you purportedly did. Even if I didn't, whether your reviews are real, fiction, or anything else, a main draw of being in this community -- in particular reading reviews -- is that the users and their reviews provide context to hobbying that is lacking if we are hobbying in isolation on an island. Most of us are no longer young randy teenagers who only need pumping and exploding to make an encounter interesting. I dare say most of us need our experiences to be interesting in different ways these days. Visiting providers whom we read and talk about here makes the experience different and interesting, even if the experience might be bad. It is interesting when I feel gratified as I experience something great with a provider that I read about in a review. It is interesting when I laugh at myself for believing a review that turns out to be totally false and try to salvage the encounter with varying degrees of success or failure. It is interesting when somehow I am experiencing the same visit as another's whose review I thought to be just great erotic fiction. It is interesting when I meet a provider who is totally different than the impression I developed from the reviews whether she is different in a better way or worse way. It is interesting to compare my experience of an ATF over time with what others say in the her growing body of reviews, especially if something surprises me (e.g., "she does that too? I will have to try!"). I could go on, but you get the point. So I say the same to you as I would to a completely useless waste of time shill or troll -- we write or say what we want. If we don't like your content, then we should ignore it. If someone tries to control what you say, they can just f' off. I hope you ignore those kinds of PMs or posts in the future, even if your reviews become a stream of worthless crap, because we are already spending way too much time on this topic and empowering the would-be censor in any event. Share what you will and have fun.I saw a request in LA Board asking me to stop posting review because "Every time you post a review, obviously an overrated one, you are killing the girl's chance to make money."
Is this true? I would understand a low score review would be bad for the girls, but did not realize a high score review can also make people avoid her? Aren't scores subjective? Aren't experiences YMMV?
Honestly, I did get worried that my reviews would be bad news for these girls, especially when I see few or no reviews for girls I reviewed. I also have a preference to see and review less popular girls so I feel worse for them if I bring them trouble.
This poster gave me a wake up call when he PM'ed me so I even tried to ask TER to take down all my reviews. My reviews are TER property now and TER chose to keep them.
I will respect his wish and stop reviewing because I care about these girls.
Peace.
Please don't stop reviewing because of the post. I saw it too and didn't understand what the poster was complaining about.
I have found your reviews to be interesting and reasonable, and I don't think your reviews are fake. Maybe the other poster can explain more clearly what is the problem because I really don't see one.
he has a review of a Coco in LA that is really low -- 3/4 or something -- so maybe he has an issue with the girl (or it's a different girl as it's from April 2016). [Ed. Just looked at the two revivews and Provider Profiles -- different girls so maybe an odd/really dry sense of humor)
Seemed like an odd thing to post but I get the impression LA is an odd area (eccentric area?) so generally not surprised by anything from there.
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Ye, LA is unique.
I recommend comeinsexy continue posting and reviewing. With more feeling faces.
Okay I read comeinsexy's review of coco and it is entertaining, and I can understand why some may not enjoy it, but he seems to be good natured and constructive in the review.
Lol fergalicious.
there have been people who were openly unfriendly to the Kgirls. In fact, I recall one reason TER started this board was triggered by many debates on Kgirls on the LA Board.
... felt that she wasn't as attractive nor service oriented as you described? Please share some of his thoughts if you can.
His post and his PM ring true to me. I am cool with him even if he is not with me. He started out PM me asking & giving intel like normal but somewhere along my reviews I must have touched a nerve.
I think it is the pattern of my reviews. I do give girls high scores and do give an impression of exaggeration. They don't realize I only reviews girls I really enjoy or want to remember. It appears like I am shilling for these girls as a booker or friend of the house. I have nothing to prove so I don't defend myself.
Obviously I liked these girls too much and I had an unbelievable two months of my life in December and January. It seems impossible to him and his friends that they all can perform at such high scores.
Understandable. This is why I get even more addicted. I tried to ease off before but these ladies dragged me back in like a tornado so now I am trying to climb back to the mountain top I have seen.
I knew exactly the effect of my reviews so I even tried to put in disclaimer. Then I ran out of space for disclaimer so I gave up and just rambled on and on hoping people would ignore my reviews.
There are reviewers who give nothing but 10-10s that are COMPLETELY worthless to the rest of us, you are a long ways from being that "easy".
The only constructive criticism I might want to offer is the length of your reviews. I skimmed through a few of them and was never able to read one all the way through. Aside from that, don't listen to one douche bag who insists that his way is the only way. Next time he sends you a PM, simply tell him to "GO FUCK HIMSELF!!! and that "this message was approved by GaGambler" lol
I appreciate any advice to help me improve reviewing. You are a respected poster to me too.
Nobody is more TL;DR than me. I can barely get through 1 paragraph in General Details.
But I type like a maniac on speed after a good session and dare myself to read it again. I even have to re-edit it to meet TER character limits. It is too much fun that I even use big words I don't really understand. (WTH does "existential" mean?) As I type more, my true nature comes out.
The other day it dawned on me that maybe I had been pranking myself and others with my reviews. They were so subtle that I didn't even realize it as I wrote (or maybe I did LOL).
Being a good guy, I even tried to warn people to stay away from my reviews. I don't want someone to get blown up by me. This poster for some reasons followed my reviews like following a train wreck since my review of Pepsi. I finally managed to tick him off as I got wilder and wilder and lost all inhibitions.
Sorry, brevity is the soul of wit. That is asking too much of me. If I have to think as I write, it won't be fun for me. I only want to do boring things for money.
People are better off not reading my reviews or just try to get through my General Details. Sorry ![]()
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Do you have a nice stamp of approval link/logo (like the TER logo) that can be added to the response. I suspect the DB won't take it very seriously without that proving it's an official approval! ![]()
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And I will post right below you with the GaGambler seal of approval? lol
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Your link was a great classic and I was thinking of this song when I saw that title. I love both.
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Be true to who you are. Don't let others run your life. You have a Poetic way of expressing yourself and your mastery of the Queens English.
The interesting fact is who approves these posts. I was once was rejected for not being descriptive enough.
Some folks get angry when they have to read and think. LOL
Hey its your dime, they can take it or leave it.
Thank you, sir. Nobody runs my life but me, even if I may run it into the ground.
My second review was rejected for not talking about the sexual acts I was engaged in during the session.
I was a master at writing a lot without saying anything substantial. I was able to get away with it with my first review somehow. Since TER rejected my second review, I went all out with subsequent reviews as a revenge to the TER Gods. I am sorry TER Gods, please forgive this sinner
Now the TER Gods can finally be free of my endless wall of text :-&
Strumming TER pain with his fingers
Singing TER life with his words
Killing TER softly with his song
Killing others softly with his song
Telling his whole life with his words
Killing you all softly with his song ![]()
were a couple of ones that had TMI in the "general" section. Certain details can only be put in the Juicy section. It always been easily fixed in a few minutes once its pointed out. As you get used to the guidelines, and what is required where, the incidences of rejection will diminish as it did for me.
to kill her business. He's a low-volume jerk, maybe with an agenda, as someone else said. Just ignore. More detail would be nice on some of your reviews, but writing good reviews is a learned process.
I should not get involved in areas I don't have any clue on the facts. Next time I'll just sit on my hands and read.
Reviews are hard. I wanted to provide useful details as CDL said, but with my cavalier attitude, they would still be just a giant crap shoot. If I am serious about this, I may post to see what makes a review useful? Right now my reviews are not useful and I already have all kinds of reasons to stop.
Alas, I am just too easy going. I like any girl who shows the least bit of interest in me. I also practice all kinds of misdirection and shi-tzu in my reviews to hide info in plain sight. Furthermore, I am a master practitioner of TOFTT-fu so at the end of the day I think my review is just a giant pile of YMMV.
I write expecting people can grasp what I grasp from other people review. I mean, no TER reviewers can fool me into a bad session because I have been in the wild with nothing but my own two eyes, gut instinct, and experience. I didn't blame anyone after seeing all high score reviews of a high performing lady who all agreed was DDG. I looked at the pics and thought the pics might not be accurate or I might not be into her. Being a master TOFTT-fu, I didn't even bother to read more details and just prepared.
It might be a tough skirmish so I utilized my greatest strategy; I got a little drunk. (Please don't try this at home men; I need to be just at the right level of drunk to be able to screw anything that moves while not bringing attention to myself as I walk gaily to the apt). This sounds demeaning to the ladies but I am a gentleman drunk who always loves and respects these lovely honeys.
So I walked in not remembering any review or pics and my smile did not even slip. However, my dick done dropped dead and gone (DDG dude!). I managed to savage the situation and we still had a blast. My dick was just a little surprise with her face but l would still screw her any day if she is willing.
And I thought everyone is as prepared at me. When I saw that was not the case, my review became a heavy responsibility to both hobbyists and Kgirls. You know what I think when it gets complicated, LOL. I just want to waive my sword around lightly and knock on the door to Kgirls heaven.
Thanks everyone for making me feel not guilty.
I may appear again when I see a great new lady.
A lot of reviews don't go into the same level of detail to be beneficial.
Your hera review is hilarious.
I think the guy was just disappointed because he didn't enjoy the girl as much as you did.
YMMV.
Read the reviews, but always go in with low expectations.
You will almost always be disappointed in some way if you raise your expectations too high.
I add 5-10 years to the age and 10-15 pounds to the weight list in the CV ad. If the height says 5-6 or taller, you can add another two inches on top of whatever it says.
Then when I go in, if its better than what my "adjustments" rendered, then I am not disappointed.
I salute you two sirs. I am the eternal newbie who would take your advice any day.
Thorough research and measured expectation are the key. I only mastered the low expectation part.
Somehow since the beginning, I don't even care about age, weight, stats, and scores. I would let her pics pull me to her, even if I know a booker tends to use representative or enhanced pics. I barely read reviews but may skimp through a new review for a new girl if I have time. It leaves an impression if a reviewer says the photo is real, if he seems to like her, if he makes her cum, or if she is wet. That's all I care LOL.
If a girl stays longer, I will have accumulated more info in my head and prioritize her better. That is if I have the patience to wait that long. I think my crazy system only works for me.
When I go see her, I promptly forget reviews, pics, and anything else for that matter. For that entire session, she is the only one who exists in my world and in my thoughts. There were only two times when I questioned my hobby because I could not summon up the interest for her, physically or emotionally. I was stupid for coming very tired. No one likes someone who seems not to like her.
Anyway, thank the K Goddesses for not judging this fool and guide him to bliss. I love them.
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My review of Daisy gave me some guilt. I disappointed at least one monger with my "overrated" review of Daisy. But I also made her way too popular that she decided to make a comeback. She disappeared quickly afterward probably because of that monger's bad review. That was a double whammy to me; causing disappointment to you guys AND indirectly killing her chance to extend.
Since a happily "gay" guy like I do not want to hurt other people's feelings, I want to throw away the pen and do something more productive with my life, like masturbation. I can certainly produce much more seeds in much less time for much less cost.
Believe it or not, I do want us all to have a good time and the girls to be busy. I have no interest in keeping a girl a secret after seeing one awesome girl gone so quickly because of no reviews. Plus I like to move on for new talents and I don't ever feel like I can't see a girl again because she is too busy.
But just for you guys, if I find a new girl who impresses me so much, maybe I will spotlight her with a review after waiting a little bit for other reviewers. You guys should be careful and read between the lines and choose wisely with my reviews. The only times when I review are when I am drunk, on passion.
I will try to keep a lid on it. But that's akin to asking a philanderer to stay in a committed relationship.
Is this true? I would understand a low score review would be bad for the girls, but did not realize a high score review can also make people avoid her? Aren't scores subjective? Aren't experiences YMMV?
Honestly, I did get worried that my reviews would be bad news for these girls, especially when I see few or no reviews for girls I reviewed. I also have a preference to see and review less popular girls so I feel worse for them if I bring them trouble.
This poster gave me a wake up call when he PM'ed me so I even tried to ask TER to take down all my reviews. My reviews are TER property now and TER chose to keep them.
I will respect his wish and stop reviewing because I care about these girls.
Peace.
Like they say in the business, "No news is bad news ."
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Damn killing Coco! I expected people to be smarter than that. Coco's business end is so fancy.
You have the right to post whatever review you want subject to TER approval. On what authority can another user tell you to stop posting reviews, whether they are constructive or business-killing or otherwise? Based on his speculation that your reviews are hurting girl's business? Why would we stop reviewing based on his hard-to-verify speculation? My two cents: ignore the censors, especially here where the whole point is communication and information sharing, even if your review is total B.S. or just entertainment.
Even if your reviews are not helpful to some, it is on those persons to disregard them. I read your review on Coco and for my primary purpose - credible intelligence - I don't have enough information to verify its content, and I am not sure that I could even after visiting Coco one or more times. But reading your review for the purpose of entertainment and sharing, and perhaps empathizing with, your intimate first person view, it was great. I did not feel like I wasted my time reading your review. If it was a waste of time to me, that is part of the experience here. (E.g., the short general reviews that appear to be submitted solely for VIP credit and are wholly un-useful are an accepted few seconds of wasted time cost of this site.)
It would be fun to see Coco and see if I could capture the same magic that you purportedly did. Even if I didn't, whether your reviews are real, fiction, or anything else, a main draw of being in this community -- in particular reading reviews -- is that the users and their reviews provide context to hobbying that is lacking if we are hobbying in isolation on an island. Most of us are no longer young randy teenagers who only need pumping and exploding to make an encounter interesting. I dare say most of us need our experiences to be interesting in different ways these days. Visiting providers whom we read and talk about here makes the experience different and interesting, even if the experience might be bad. It is interesting when I feel gratified as I experience something great with a provider that I read about in a review. It is interesting when I laugh at myself for believing a review that turns out to be totally false and try to salvage the encounter with varying degrees of success or failure. It is interesting when somehow I am experiencing the same visit as another's whose review I thought to be just great erotic fiction. It is interesting when I meet a provider who is totally different than the impression I developed from the reviews whether she is different in a better way or worse way. It is interesting to compare my experience of an ATF over time with what others say in the her growing body of reviews, especially if something surprises me (e.g., "she does that too? I will have to try!"). I could go on, but you get the point.
So I say the same to you as I would to a completely useless waste of time shill or troll -- we write or say what we want. If we don't like your content, then we should ignore it. If someone tries to control what you say, they can just f' off.
I hope you ignore those kinds of PMs or posts in the future, even if your reviews become a stream of worthless crap, because we are already spending way too much time on this topic and empowering the would-be censor in any event. Share what you will and have fun.
I was trying to have empathy. You make me realized if I quit now, then that would send the wrong message. I will continue to write for the girls nobody review or if I simply want to remember them.
As you said, I thought people could just ignore me if they don't trust or like my reviews. I started to feel like I am gloating and it's unbecoming. My review of Daisy was the penultimate chapter.
Sure enough, I got a PM from him saying neither he nor his friends believe my inflated reviews. Then I saw a reviewer was majorly disappointed by Daisy. I lost motivation and rode into the sunset.
Even though I was doing a shoddy job of it, I was really trying to provide what info I can to help others make the right decision. They made me feel like I wasted my time.
Then Echo asked me to review for some reason so I decided to review for girls few know about. Until he posted that I will kill their business LOL. I was skeptical so wanted to confirm with the community.
I am a carefree guy so all this drama made me wonder why I am doing this when I should be spending more time to strategize for Kgirls
The main reason was because I liked this community so I thought to give something back. I enjoyed reading discussion boards. There are so many smart, funny, and knowledgeable posters around.
Thank you for your very thoughtful response.
I can't wait to read the next installment of ComeInSexy's escapades!!
It is also pretty entertaining to go back and check his reviews for girls that I've seen.
So that got me thinking. Should TER put "Follow" option on for Reviewers? (Kind of goes with an old suggestion I made about rating review -- most feared it would lead to even more fake/over rating in reviews, and this might too but I'm not sure I care)
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Because I thought I am talking to myself, I am able to reach into the crazy corner of my mind where only Kgirls could have glimpsed. If I become aware of followers, I will probably become a censor or magician to avoid spilling too many beans.
Since I tend to overshare and describe a session like I remember, I am already afraid some insiders can ID me. One time I accidentally spilled something and had to ask TER to remove for me.
I just want to put into words the flashback I have without overthinking.
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You probably do need to keep yourself in check -- if you're not watching your own back it's probably the case that no one is.
As for the following the reviewer -- that could be completely anonymous so you would never know who might be hanging on every work and phrase
Just like now but someone needs to look for the review.
Just try to read one of your review. I bow down to another master reviewer.
Some of you gentlemen made me looked like a kid writing an essay for homework. Really wish I can write like that so I look a little less coocoo. Unfortunately I am a little coocoo so it came out LOL.
I certainly want to take your advice if I can remember it next time. It's just that I have a FTW attitude so I write like I just don't care. I know crazy attract crazies but que sera, sera...
I finally got around to following the link to that request you mentioned, and saw this line:
"Also, your generic reviews sound so gay."
Puh-leeze. Who (still, or ever) uses "gay" as an all-purpose aspersion? That right there was all you needed to know about that poster and his "request." Pfft.
And since he threw a childish insult, I knew I could not have an adult conversation with him so I asked the community to confirm if I placed high regard for hobbyists incorrectly.
Thank you all for restoring my faith. I was prepared for a thrashing and to ask responders help remove my reviews. I felt like an island (rock?) entire of itself, a lone wolf (cub?), a tiger (kitty?) on the prowl.
I was getting ready to leave everything behind. Now I know there are cool people around. Anyone who read or skimp my reviews (or this manic post) without being annoyed at me has my thumb up.
Since I don't want to call attention to myself, I rarely want to post. I want to take this chance to tip my hat again to CDL, GaG, mrfisher, Bendadick.Cuminsnatch, Nightisdark, Luv-Kit2.
Sorry if I leave out others, I simply remember these gentlemen from their posts. I always liked Nightisdark. His review of Nadia convinced me to see her when I had doubt before. May be Emma K & Mila will be next.
Now everyone who responded to me is seen by the eye of Sauron ![]()
