Seriously, I need to teach my damn chihuahua who is the master. Before I exile myself to train on one K-girl at a time, I wonder if any kind gentlemen would give me some tips on how to last?
Now let's get the background out of the way, I have a problem, the dog never listens to me. Over the few years I've been seeing K-girls, most of the providers think I am like a box of chocolates because they never know what they are going to get. It's more a curse than a boon, especially when you want to last more than 2 minutes with someone you are hot for 
I don't like to see the look of what the hell just happens on someone's face. That would just make me want to retire. I am also generous. I do believe sex is something to be enjoyed by both parties participating, and not yours truly only, just my opinion though. So finally I decide enough is enough after I see a young pretty K-girl. We kiss like long lost lovers for a long time, then I make love badly to her like a teenager because it feels too much even with a thick condom 
I try to go slow then later pull out and cool down, then oh shit, I feel it so I fumble to put it back but, oh no, too late man. My dog done doggone for good! I make up to her with other appendages until I see time is up. I get up but she does not even look at the clock and toss two more condoms out. What is she thinking when she sees the incredulous expression on my face as I stare at not just one, but TWO condoms? 
Suffice to say I beat a hasty retreat with a request for shower. Shameful!
Thanks for any help you masters can provide, I really, really appreciate it. Please put me on ignore if I annoy you. I do try to minimize my idiotic posts. I need to stop participating in TER so I have time to do some serious self study, but TER is so addicting that I can't help it sometimes 
I found this link that I thought was useful. According to it, I may have secondary PE because my dog was certainly stressed out by her overwhelming body. It was really anxious to get it on.
Although I don't know if their suggestions would work for me.
Masturbate an hour or two before sex? WHAT??? I have only one shot man.
Engage in foreplay? We did for so long that I thought it was a personal record. That only increased my stimulation even more.
Use thick condom? The condom, it did nothing!
Distract myself? How? She is all I can see and feel. Not enough brain power to recite the alphabet or multiplication tables.
Switch-up positions? Went from hot CG to tender missionary and that became a quickie.
Squeeze and/or stop-start technique? Who have time for that crap when I may blow at anytime man?
But it sounds like something I should practice often. Regrettably I don't know if I can because I don't want to waste my precious juice outside of a K-girl.
Looks like a useful link, yes. I also second CDL's Kegels recommendation.
One comment on that link, though, I'm not really a big fan of distracting myself by "thinking of something mundane such as multiplication tables" (one of the suggestions on the site). Why take yourself out of the experience? Plus as an Old Guy with testosterone levels that are OK but not what they were in my twenties, I find that that can backfire on me. As far as mental states and consciousness go, I'd look at meditation--there are studies that suggest it can improve sexual performance, and you get the bonus of being more aware and in the moment, not less.
A couple of books you might want to look at:
How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild) by Barbara Keesling. I haven't read this but have seen it recommended a lot, and it's on my "buy and try" list.
The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia. This one I have. I have just started working through it so can't claim results yet. I would say it looks promising, though. Worth taking a look at, in any case.
In general--and you probably know this already--the better your physical condition, the better your sex will be and the more control you'll have over it. And this may be a little speculative, but I strongly suspect that exercises that focus on your core and on conscious control of your movements, such as yoga and Pilates, would be especially beneficial.
Good luck! I'd be interested in hearing back in a few months if you try any of these ideas.
I am not a fan of distracting myself for the same reason. I have always an interest in meditation, just don't know if I have the patience for that, but I will keep it in mind.
Already got "How to Make Love All Night" book LOL and will buy the other book too. Now I just need to start reading and practicing.
I feel embarrassed even thinking of doing Yoga and Pilates among the ladies for some reason. At least I can try Kegels since they seem easier. Yoga and Pilates may be a later thing as I like to lift weight more.
Thank you.
The first is the least expensive, try a few shots of alcohol, partly to "take the edge off" partly to "desensitize" down there. You may have to experiment a bit to get the proper "dosage" as we all have different tolerance levels and no woman wants a sloppy drunk, nor do you want to get so drunk as to be unable to perform at all. lol
The second is a more long lasting solution as a big part of your problem seems to be that you get so excited about the prospect of fucking a beautiful woman that you can't control yourself when you finally get to do so. The one surefire cure for this is a LOT of sex. I don't mean sex everyday, but a couple of full fledged "Fuck fests" until you no longer so eager that you become a two pump chump.
Going to a country where this is legal is a great way to do this, it's also less expensive. Costa Rica or the DR are great, close and affordable ways to get this out of your system. Simply go to one of the places where there are a hundred different women available and fuck to your hearts content. By the time you are on the fourth of fifth woman of the day, cumming at all will be a challenge and if you can keep that mindset that it's "only sex" and not making love to the woman of your dreams, you should be cured for life. At this stage of my life, I can pretty much cum as fast (within reason, but within ten-fifteen minutes if I put my mind to it) or as slow as I want to, but I have done a LOT of fucking. lol
I did not know DR is just as good. Anyway, it's on my bucket list or whenever I can get away.
I already practice the first suggestion for emergency or new girl I am iffy about.
As for the second suggestion, I had been there when I thought I was jaded with K-girls, until I discovered my second wind and broke through the first wall. Now I feel like I ran into the second wall.
To me, it is always just "only sex" but my dick is quick to pick up something out of the ordinary and there it goes. I still don't know why some ladies make my dick so hot when my mind is as calm as a monk.
I have been on horny streaks where I was afraid I could not cum anymore. One time, a girl collapsed right after and sighed in relief that it was over. I apologized but had to laugh out loud. Another time, I thought I came then I looked at the condom and, WTF, where was the juice?
The only thing I really need is for my dick to obey me so I need some serious training.
Kegels. Women aren't the only ones who have them. I do my contraction exercises mostly while driving. Its wasted time anyway. After a few months, you will be able to be the one to decide when to cum, not her, and not Mr. Johnson. Google it to see the proper exercise techniques.
I didn't believe it when I heard about it. But if you said so, I will definitely give it a try now.
Much appreciate.
good old fashioned exercise. Its all natural. The only drawback is you don't get "instant" results like you will with drugs or shots.
Tequila
I do practice being drunk in certain situations. One time a K-girl told me she does not like a drunk. I denied vehemently because I was still lucid, but she wouldn't believe when seeing my unusual grin from ear to ear. She smelled my breath and asked what I was drinking? I confessed I had some whiskey before coming. She chided me that next time you want to drink, bring it and we drink together. If we don't both have somewhere to go right after, I would want a drunken fuck fest with her.
did not understand some of it; but, taking a stab at responding.
First, sounds like it is in your 'head'. It may be somewhat physical; but, I would say 20% physical - 80% mental. Need to change how you think. It sounds like you have anxiety and performance issues (mentally at least), and you are simply 'reinforcing' those thoughts every time. I don't know how to change that - but, my best advice 'stop giving a fuck'. If you come in 20 seconds or 20 minutes - who cares. She certainly doesn't give a shit and prefers the former over the latter.
Second, look, I know you might have good intentions of wanting the girl to 'enjoy' it. But, let's not fall into fantasy world here. The girl is there to make money and ensure you have a good time. That's it. Your job is to be nice, properly pay the donation (and possibly tip), be respectful, be gentle, and be a gentleman. That's it. It's not to get her off or show her how great your stamina is. So, again, she does not care if you use 23 layered condoms or 2 - as long as you use said condom, finish, and treat her nice - she won't care.
Third, I guarantee you that 95% of the kgirls really LIKE when guys finish quickly ... they absolutely hate it when guys just hammer them like a nail going into a 2x4 for 30 minutes. Imagine if I was spanking your ass hard for 20 seconds or 20 minutes - depending on your lifestyle, most people would opt for 20 seconds.
Finally, stop overthinking it. It's not about you being master over your ... WTF did you call it? Some dog ... (which you called it a Chihuahua?? ... that tells me it is 99% mental rather than 80% mental because of what you called it) ... My guess you are worried about performance, you are worried about size, you are worried if you are any good, etc ..... etc .... etc. Stop worrying about that ....
Juts keep this in mind ... you are NOT the worst person she has been with and you will NOT be the best person.
If you are trying to be the 'best' person she has ever been with ... drop the fucking ego because it is just completely douchey. Just my 2 cents.
I was not worried or thinking anything at all but my dick was burning as soon as she lay on top of me. It felt too good that I didn't know how to stop that feeling or even wanted to.
It does make me happier if the girl is into it, but the main thing is for me to be able to end on my own term. I simply want to maximize my pleasure since I only have one shot. I have no need to be the best or worried that I am the worst. My ego and my brain stop at the door and my dick is in control.
Sorry for the hard to read post. That's why I know some people will hate me. I can't help open up and type like a maniac after I open her pussy. Also my guilty pleasure is to give people the wrong impression of me so I put in Easter eggs like "chihuahua" or whatever my twisted mind comes up with. If you don't know, I laugh at my own joke even if nobody does.
I will try to "stop giving a fuck". It will be very hard because I am there to give her a fuck.
Appreciate the response.
I'm not really sure or practice any kegels, but whenever I almost there like about to cum, I'll pull out and slap my dick couple times and put back in again. It worked every single time previously, except there was this one girl. She is smoking hot which I couldn't hold it back anymore.
I will give it a try next time. I have a strong suspicion any sudden movement will make me explode.
The pull out actually excites my little soldiers even more. Perhaps I need to get the timing just right.
This seems like a great time to distract myself by reciting "pull out and slapping, pull out and slapping, ..."
Especially if her English is not so good ... give her that special "WTF??" moment.
Posted By: ComeInSexy
Seriously, I need to teach my damn chihuahua who is the master. Before I exile myself to train on one K-girl at a time, I wonder if any kind gentlemen would give me some tips on how to last?
Now let's get the background out of the way, I have a problem, the dog never listens to me. Over the few years I've been seeing K-girls, most of the providers think I am like a box of chocolates because they never know what they are going to get. It's more a curse than a boon, especially when you want to last more than 2 minutes with someone you are hot for
I don't like to see the look of what the hell just happens on someone's face. That would just make me want to retire. I am also generous. I do believe sex is something to be enjoyed by both parties participating, and not yours truly only, just my opinion though. So finally I decide enough is enough after I see a young pretty K-girl. We kiss like long lost lovers for a long time, then I make love badly to her like a teenager because it feels too much even with a thick condom
I try to go slow then later pull out and cool down, then oh shit, I feel it so I fumble to put it back but, oh no, too late man. My dog done doggone for good! I make up to her with other appendages until I see time is up. I get up but she does not even look at the clock and toss two more condoms out. What is she thinking when she sees the incredulous expression on my face as I stare at not just one, but TWO condoms?
Suffice to say I beat a hasty retreat with a request for shower. Shameful!
Thanks for any help you masters can provide, I really, really appreciate it. Please put me on ignore if I annoy you. I do try to minimize my idiotic posts. I need to stop participating in TER so I have time to do some serious self study, but TER is so addicting that I can't help it sometimes
Dog? Then make love badly? Someone still uses that? Im thinking fuck, bang, or turbo jack hammer pumping her pussy!
Anyway, thiese are 2 methods that work for me If im in the mood to have 40mins nonstop sweatfest pussy bang action:
1) i jerk off 1-2hr before i see the girl. The intial cumming will make my penis less sensitive to the cum force so i last pretty much the whole 1hr unless i go bang her in turbo speed mode.
2)if i didnt have time to jerk off then soon as my session starts i quickly get naked on the bed and spread eagle and have the girl suck my dick till i cim within the first 13mins. Then i spend 15mins chilling wich gives my love rod time to recover with less senaitivity to the cum force so i can bang on turbo speed for the remaining time with no worry of busting too early.
Try it. Should work.
no insult perceived because no insult intended. i like to pretend but may actually be a retarded and i like to lift things i read somewhere to mess around. i love your writing style the most so watch out. i enjoy subverting the sanctity of k-girl board for my own amusement sometimes.
thanks for the response but i can't be like danceddg69 or i would be blasting in her mouth in the first 10 minutes, then tornado sucking her clit in the next 10 minutes, and end with a sweatfest of turbo jack hammer banging in her pussy. i brought a jack hammer before, it was only good for a couple pumps.
jerk off 1-2 hr before? cim in the first 13 minutes? me? the one hit wonder? the girl will start talking to me for the remaining 47 minutes. i had long conversations before but it's not my thing
Also try jerking off everyday. Your duck gets like calluss like tough and desentized. So can last like an hour without cumming! Cum force gets blovked!!
Tru this too!
Or do you just play one on TV?
Posted By: dancebbq09
Also try jerking off everyday. Your duck gets like calluss like tough and desentized. So can last like an hour without cumming! Cum force gets blovked!!
Tru this too!
i am not a stud like you, dance. i thought like you but i need the cum force to be unleashed in exactly 40 minutes, give or take shower time, or it will be all over for me.
if i need to desentized, i see a new girl one day, then see who i really want to see the next day. if i am still horny, i continue with more girls and curse the dark force for blocking my cum force.
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Its hard to contain but can be used as concussive blasts.
Im talking about restricting the eruption of semen from youe penis. Only the dark side of the cum force can cause that!
im no pure jedi knight. was a sith. k-girl republic turned me to the cum force but the dark side can block my glorious eruption when i need to erupt the most man.
can control both the light and dark side but together is a different story. need more time to train. i struggled to light up my saber during critical battles and fought tooth and nail many times man. yoda told me, much to learn you still have man...
If you lose your wood quickly (and have trouble getting it back) you probably could benefit from Viagra or similar.
Also, ironically, Viagra can help you last longer (maybe too long.) In many cases if you don't pop in the first few minutes, you'll keep your wood but will be increasingly difficult to achieve the O.
Sometimes different day gives me different trouble: PE, ED, OD (Orgasmic Dysfunction), you name it. I will consider Viagra after checking my T-level, doing Kegels, and things I learn here.
I talked about Viagra to some K-girls before, they all gave me a resoundingly loud "no, you don't need it." One girl told me she was not happy when a guy taking Viagra and had wood the entire time. It could be a YMMV thing if the girl likes your wood. Me? Perhaps they liked me better as a one-shot quick draw Pete.
I resemble that remark. HaHA. In my youth I could look at pussy and come. Now I have to slam my dick in the door. HaHa. I guess what I am trying to say is that eventually you will slow the process. Also physical health helps in recovery time. Stay in shape and go for multiple pops. That's the goal. K-girls rock 
Posted By: ComeInSexy
Sometimes different day gives me different trouble: PE, ED, OD (Orgasmic Dysfunction), you name it. I will consider Viagra after checking my T-level, doing Kegels, and things I learn here.
I talked about Viagra to some K-girls before, they all gave me a resoundingly loud "no, you don't need it." One girl told me she was not happy when a guy taking Viagra and had wood the entire time. It could be a YMMV thing if the girl likes your wood. Me? Perhaps they liked me better as a one-shot quick draw Pete.
injections if the little blue pill no longer works for you. I've been on it for nearly two years and my little fido turns into a roaring tiger for couple of hours. The best thing about injections it does not require much mental stimulation. The downside is kgirls get a little skimmish about their clients taking injections; therefore, I have a limited handful of top notch kgirl regulars who have no problem with me taking injections. In fact, they love the longlasting stimulation. I need more of you to try this out so the word will get out among the Kgirl community.
Needle into penis sounds painful. So I did a little research and it might not be so bad. Long lasting stimulation and a roaring tiger sound very appealing. But I hope for more years without extra help.
and the subject of preferred clients came up. Not surprisingly at all the view she express was the sooner they pop and the gentler they are the better. I have not doubts some have some clients they want more from but for the most part they prefer easy money to hard earned money.
You may actually be one of their favorite clients.
I realize that probably doesn't help you with lasting longer but I'd suggest stop worrying about trying to satisfy the K-Girl. She probably would appreciate a massage over FIV to make up for the quick pop.
I totally agree with this, as long as I am a gentleman and show up clean /hygienic and on time then I will likely always be on the preferred end of the spectrum. My performance is very secondary, although I have had girls express concern if I don't pop twice during a two hour. I doubt I'm anyone's favorite but I do believe everyone I repeat with is happy to see me.
But I only want to maximize my own good time. I know where to start thanks to the feedback here.
I enjoy trying to make them happy only because that gets me hotter. Girls who like me the most may get the worse from me because I quickly become overstimulate and my dick runs amok. I like seeing new or lesser known girls because they feel even more natural.
I never asked but some told me they like me exactly as you said about attitude, no matter how quick I pop. I wouldn't be addicted and happy if I didn't think they like me, real or not.
It is really amazing that within a couple of minutes of walking inside, it would be like with an old fuck friend. Some takes longer to warm up, but once we connect, it is really amazing.
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I stumbled across the effectiveness of a drug called tramadol in extending my play time. When taking 50mg of it for back pain, I was pleasantly surprised to discover that I could actually now enjoy several minutes of oral or intercourse - whereas before it was measured in seconds.
Not a perfect solution but I am healthy otherwise and already work out regularly. Not recommending it for all as it is a narcotic and could be habit forming - but I use it sparingly and only when I am hobbying - take it about 3-4 hours before a session
Not proud of it just answering the OP's question
