just initiate it.  they are there to make sure you have a good time. helps even more if speak korean.

but like in anything there are exceptions in the 1%.   ive had one or two that just whined and bitched to me when i tried to change the routine.

they want to make sure you are Clean, and it gives them a chance to look for 'visible' problems.  If you pass on the shower their comfort level with you drops dramatically, and with it the service.
 

Hey all,

U could tell them in beginning u want more bbbj. IMHO they do this routine cause it is a job to them. They want to be good at it and get good business to make the money they need for their ends. Having had relationships with different kgirls, u can change the routine easier after the second or third visit.

Then again if u are trying to fit two pops in 1 hr, best to let them have at it on u lol

 
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If not get that done.  

You are from DC so most of the ladies you get are on the tour and are rather experienced . If you act like a gentleman will accommodate your wishes as long as they are not predatory in nature or take forever to complete. If you smell clean and look fresh , especially with repeats , they may skip the shower.
 
Language should not be  an issue because most know enough to serve their and your purpose. And they do not come to America or tour secondary markets, instead of working LA ,  in search of Korean men. Many in LA refuse to see Korean mean and prefer other ethnicities over Koreans. So much for the language.