this forum and the hobby in general.  Otherwise, he would know not to put the word "big" in his username or his alias.  It screams "troll."   Next, he will start a dick-size thread.  Lol

I don't have a sister.
Because it's my first post here I'm automatically a troll? You had a first post at some point didn't you?
Geez, some of you guys really need to get the chip off your shoulder, my god.  

I asked a honest question, thanks for being an instant dick.

The membership is good to weed through the indies that are legit. You need to learn what reviews are mostly truthful. The forums can be entertaining. Have a thicker skin I guess. I recently had a provider try to attack me through pms. It was amusing 😂  You will find all kinds. But definitely the membership is useful.

To avoid wasting everyone's time, including your own, it's recommended you first do a search to see if the topic has already been discussed, and bingo, you will likely get your answer. If not, you can add to the discussion. If you're too unmotivated to do even that, you don't deserve an answer.  

I spent my whole first year on TER not posting at all but was a voracious reader of what others were posting.  The first thing you should do is familiarize yourself with the various forums and educate yourself on aspects of the business you are curious about by using the "Search" feature.  Your original question, which you replaced with a defensive post, should have been posted on the Kgirl board, but then if you had searched this topic there, or even here, you would have had ANY AND ALL questions you have answered.  

 
It's correct that you should be cautious about wasting other peoples' time when the answers are here to be searched and found.  We all sometimes waste our OWN time posting, but at least in my case, I try not to annoy other people by rehashing topics that have already been pretty much exhausted.  Your time is YOURS to waste, but our time is OURS to waste, not yours.  

 
Lastly, the very first posting guideline listed by TER in its guidelines for Discussion boards is . . . .

 
"If a recent thread exists about the topic at hand, post to that thread, rather than starting a new one."

 
It will serve you well to read ALL of the posting guidelines in the "Help" section.  Knowing what is expected by both TER Admin and other members will get you off to a better start.  This is not a fatal mistake.  You can recover if you educate yourself using all of TER's resources on this site before starting threads of your own.  Carry on and good luck.  

This a a fuck board. Being the new guy and getting hazed is nothing new. If you’re going to get that unwound so quickly, you either need to see yourself to the exit or be prepared for more peppering. But if you can grow some skin and survive the attack of aliases, you might find some advice at the end of the road.