At the now defunct private (mongers only) board where I used to moderate, I would say that the vast majority of our membership bailed from various regional (mainly east coast) TER boards due to provider drama, but it seemed many of them weren't much better themselves. At one point we had banned as many guys from the board as we had members and it seemed that 2/3 them came from TER. As for this forum, it was noted that most of the drama came from a half a dozen barnyard roosters who seemed to be looking to play childish games of one-upsmanship with each other. Membership required 5 existing members to approve but only 1 to reject. I won't name names but I would dare say that we had a running shitlist of "do not invite" hobbyists and at one point 3 of them were among the top 10 prolific posters on this forum...
This has been my thought for quite a while.
No posts for a few days, meh type of posts, haters/jealous posts or low participation, all MO!
Have any other KMongers felt the same about the Kboard?
I'm getting the impression a number of the participants here have moved on to other boards, or in some cases just moved on. Perhaps a contributing aspect is anyone that's been doing this a while, when there are not a lot of new faces showing up, figure they have said what they have to say. Plus the entire tone of the board has turned more negative than really informative.
and well said!
There are a couple of other forums that I check out and they are cycling through posters too.
At the now defunct private (mongers only) board where I used to moderate, I would say that the vast majority of our membership bailed from various regional (mainly east coast) TER boards due to provider drama, but it seemed many of them weren't much better themselves. At one point we had banned as many guys from the board as we had members and it seemed that 2/3 them came from TER. As for this forum, it was noted that most of the drama came from a half a dozen barnyard roosters who seemed to be looking to play childish games of one-upsmanship with each other. Membership required 5 existing members to approve but only 1 to reject. I won't name names but I would dare say that we had a running shitlist of "do not invite" hobbyists and at one point 3 of them were among the top 10 prolific posters on this forum...
you can talk about that hasn't been talked about before 3 - 4 times.
same questions and topics, just update with the latest Kgirls on the scene!
forum that is very active because mongers name the providers, looks and her skill level. I can see why there's a high participation among hobbyists.
comment back and forth, which is a good way to get intel.
Is that not allowed on TER, because I don't see it happening!
Always wondered about that!
Used to happen a lot in the forum. It's gotten to the point that if you say much positive about any girls people want to accuse you of some agenda other than sharing your opinion and experience with the girl or agency. I don't find it too surprising many moved on or stopped sharing.
The KBoard seems to be the highest viewed board on TER. So it still has it's lurkers.
It seems that most topic become stale. How many times can you rave over a girl at Tyson and then she all of a sudden shes at Tustin?
Can you show me some of these topics?
Im looking at the front page and I don't see any.
I see a "Friday shill" thread but I don't see no "haters/jealous" posts.
just posts in different topics on the boards when they get into back and forth posts with KMongers!
When posters put down Kgirls, no need to mention everything, behind their English, or should I say non-English skills, being cum dumpsters and high-volume providers and let's not forget cheap, when I see it as inexpensive, I see that as racists/haters just showing their true colors, All MO!
Also MO, these posters hate KMongers so much that they take it out on the Korean providers who are just trying to make a living like everybody else!
Fair enough. I haven't seen much of that lately on this board. Maybe sometimes I see it in general discussion.
I thought since you once said I hate kgirls (which is completely and utterly false BTW and I still am disappointed that you said this) you might have been referring to me or similar posters.
saying that to you.
Was it a statement or question, must have been quite a while back.
No, this wasn't directed at you.
It was other posters that just have to put down anything to do with the Kscene for their fucked up reasons!
Once again MO and how I see it!
VIP?
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Got milk?
Lol. No vip right now, hoping to get it soon.
I do review the Kgirl board frequently because it can be a super valuable tool, especially when traveling. But a several things keep me from posting more often:
1. It’s mostly a west coast discussion and I live out east. So don’t have much to contribute.
2. It takes FOREVER for a post to get through moderation and make it the board. Other boards are instantaneous, so much easier to have a conversation.
3. Half the posts devolve into pissing matches and I’m not really interested in the drama.
from my POV.
1. Not lately, a lot of East Coast discussions on the board and if I have it right there are a few East Coast posters pretty active.
2. Forever? I'd say a couple of hours and I've seen them as fast as 15 minutes.
Instantaneous, which board? The only one I know of is the reviewer board.
3. Pissing matches and drama, I just don't get involved unless someone comes at me and then I just cut it off as quick as I can! Sometimes you can get a good laugh at the stupidity of the exchanges!
It literally took four hours for my post to show up. It’s ridiculous.
is way too long. Before TER went dark in the US from April 2018 to December 2019, moderation rarely took more than 15 or 20 minutes on ANY board, so the flow of conversation kept moving. Now, when you wait three or four hours for a post to go live, the conversation has moved on and half the people participating have logged off because, why should they post anything else, when it won't be relevant by the time it clears moderation? I know many of the long-time veteran posters here and many feel the same way. It's like playing chess with a guy in South Africa by mail.
There are other sites where probationary moderation takes place for a month (or less if you are playing by the rules and posting a lot of content). I have cut way back on posting here because they simply don't have the moderation staff to keep up with ongoing conversations on some of the boards. I will put up a post, and if it hasn't gone live in 20 minutes, I will log off again and try a few hours later, at which point follow up comments are a waste of time because the conversation has moved on.
…so naturally there was more emphasis on the West Coast scene. But it has become more of a national board over the years.
...and have given the kgirl experience a break for awhile. This happened once before and that break became 5+ years! Hopefully it won't last quite that long this time around 🤞
Agreed. I may take a month off. Getting meh for me also and the higher rates make me think what else could I use this money for?!?! Calculating just the month of April or YTD, YIKES! Not saying it wasn't well spent, but just yikes.
I gave up on this place. The same dudes sword fighting on every post. Im not here for that gay nonsense. Just want to get and share info. Its laughable
Well, there is one more problem and why I quit. Providers were arguing with me. That was the last straw.
All I said was deposits are risky and there are many providers that don't require it. Which REALLY triggers a few providers. I do not want to log in to TER to see how many DMs I got from providers asking to debate such a basic and obvious fact.
There are no Kgirls posting here, so no one to argue with you about anything. I know several top-tier girls who lurk and read the comments, but they don't reveal themselves by posting.
Oh it was not a kgirl, it was general discussion and I quit TER because you cannot reason with a provider whose livelihood depends on it.
And to the contrary, I absolutely have been contacted by kgirls here. Other people have too. It was the girl. I knew her well.
It was a bit of a running joke because there are certain kgirls that will PM people after a review. Multiple people.
I thought it was the booker who was contacting member under kgirl alias.
Maybe that happens, but I can only speak to actual DMs me and two other people got. I know the girl well, I know it was her. In fact her DM to me was nice simply thanking me for a good time. That is not the norm, but a small percentage of kgirls are fluent in English and have TER accounts. It's just her personality, that was harmless.
Two other friends got DMs from the exact same kgirl after their review of the girl. The kgirl even carefully researched which girls they saw and what kind of girls they were, making comments to them about the girls. Which is next level creepy. There is a whole lot more but since it's private that's all I'll say.
And as I've said, I've gotten DMs from providers (I assume white) wanting to debate me and tell me to stop suggesting girls who ask for deposits might be scammers. I think that's a fair stance, not all of them are, but I'm not on TER to debate providers. I just have no interest, that's not my hobby. So I answered that question. I still have her DM in my inbox, she is QB. Don't know who she is, I've never spoken with her before she simply read my comment warning guys about deposit risks.
So just want to dispel the false idea that providers don't DM people. Obviously they do. It's still in my inbox and my friends' inbox. On the other site we discussed it extensively and named the girl (you can literally ask the girl yourself and she'll admit it), but since it's old drama I'm not going to stir it up again.
Just FYI on TER boards and providers, nothing against it it's just not my cup of tea and that's why.
called an "outlier." You have confirmed my points that 1) this is NOT a common occurrence with Kgirls because you mention ONE girl who PM'd three customers about reviews, which I did not mention, but NOT ABOUT BOARD POSTS, and 2) even an outlier Kgirl is not likely to argue with you or say anything negative, publicly or privately. It's just not their style. I stand by my statement that Kgirls, as a class or group, do not argue publicly or by PM with posters on this board, which makes this a "safe space" for shy or sensitive mongers compared to the GD board, and your ONE outlier example does nothing to rebut that, unless you have one that has posted on this board that you have not told us about. There have been Asian indies in the past, like ChristineGFE and Parker South, who engaged in polite discussion here with no arguments, but no Kgirls on THIS board.
My post was about board posts and your complaint about public/private arguments with providers, so I told you that is not a worry for you here on the Kgirl board. All of your added self-aggrandizement about having a Kgirl PM you does not make you unique as you will find out with more experience. Lol
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You must mean the general board. They're allowed to ask for deposits and I'm allowed to ignore them. I would just delete the DMs. Seems almost all the scams are deposit related. We're just being prudent. I'm taking time off. It's doing me wonders financially. Seems I have a lot of extra cash. Been going to a bunch of sporting events with great seats that I normally don't attend.
Not much to get excited about at the moment, its the same Korean grandmas doing the circuit over and over again lately. What are we supposed to talk about? BBFS? OTC? Photoshopped pics? It's all been covered a million times already and tbh I think most of us are depressed about the state of affairs in kgirl-world right now.