I'm getting the impression a number of the participants here have moved on to other boards, or in some cases just moved on. Perhaps a contributing aspect is anyone that's been doing this a while, when there are not a lot of new faces showing up, figure they have said what they have to say. Plus the entire tone of the board has turned more negative than really informative.
The KBoard seems to be the highest viewed board on TER. So it still has it's lurkers. It seems that most topic become stale. How many times can you rave over a girl at Tyson and then she all of a sudden shes at Tustin?
Used to happen a lot in the forum. It's gotten to the point that if you say much positive about any girls people want to accuse you of some agenda other than sharing your opinion and experience with the girl or agency. I don't find it too surprising many moved on or stopped sharing.
I do review the Kgirl board frequently because it can be a super valuable tool, especially when traveling. But a several things keep me from posting more often:
1. It’s mostly a west coast discussion and I live out east. So don’t have much to contribute. 2. It takes FOREVER for a post to get through moderation and make it the board. Other boards are instantaneous, so much easier to have a conversation. 3. Half the posts devolve into pissing matches and I’m not really interested in the drama.
...and have given the kgirl experience a break for awhile. This happened once before and that break became 5+ years! Hopefully it won't last quite that long this time around 🤞
just posts in different topics on the boards when they get into back and forth posts with KMongers!
When posters put down Kgirls, no need to mention everything, behind their English, or should I say non-English skills, being cum dumpsters and high-volume providers and let's not forget cheap, when I see it as inexpensive, I see that as racists/haters just showing their true colors, All MO! Also MO, these posters hate KMongers so much that they take it out on the Korean providers who are just trying to make a living like everybody else!
from my POV. 1. Not lately, a lot of East Coast discussions on the board and if I have it right there are a few East Coast posters pretty active. 2. Forever? I'd say a couple of hours and I've seen them as fast as 15 minutes. Instantaneous, which board? The only one I know of is the reviewer board. 3. Pissing matches and drama, I just don't get involved unless someone comes at me and then I just cut it off as quick as I can! Sometimes you can get a good laugh at the stupidity of the exchanges!
Fair enough. I haven't seen much of that lately on this board. Maybe sometimes I see it in general discussion.
I thought since you once said I hate kgirls (which is completely and utterly false BTW and I still am disappointed that you said this) you might have been referring to me or similar posters.
saying that to you. Was it a statement or question, must have been quite a while back.
No, this wasn't directed at you. It was other posters that just have to put down anything to do with the Kscene for their fucked up reasons! Once again MO and how I see it!
Agreed. I may take a month off. Getting meh for me also and the higher rates make me think what else could I use this money for?!?! Calculating just the month of April or YTD, YIKES! Not saying it wasn't well spent, but just yikes.
I gave up on this place. The same dudes sword fighting on every post. Im not here for that gay nonsense. Just want to get and share info. Its laughable
is way too long. Before TER went dark in the US from April 2018 to December 2019, moderation rarely took more than 15 or 20 minutes on ANY board, so the flow of conversation kept moving. Now, when you wait three or four hours for a post to go live, the conversation has moved on and half the people participating have logged off because, why should they post anything else, when it won't be relevant by the time it clears moderation? I know many of the long-time veteran posters here and many feel the same way. It's like playing chess with a guy in South Africa by mail.
There are other sites where probationary moderation takes place for a month (or less if you are playing by the rules and posting a lot of content). I have cut way back on posting here because they simply don't have the moderation staff to keep up with ongoing conversations on some of the boards. I will put up a post, and if it hasn't gone live in 20 minutes, I will log off again and try a few hours later, at which point follow up comments are a waste of time because the conversation has moved on.
Well, there is one more problem and why I quit. Providers were arguing with me. That was the last straw.
All I said was deposits are risky and there are many providers that don't require it. Which REALLY triggers a few providers. I do not want to log in to TER to see how many DMs I got from providers asking to debate such a basic and obvious fact.
There are no Kgirls posting here, so no one to argue with you about anything. I know several top-tier girls who lurk and read the comments, but they don't reveal themselves by posting.
Not much to get excited about at the moment, its the same Korean grandmas doing the circuit over and over again lately. What are we supposed to talk about? BBFS? OTC? Photoshopped pics? It's all been covered a million times already and tbh I think most of us are depressed about the state of affairs in kgirl-world right now.
You must mean the general board. They're allowed to ask for deposits and I'm allowed to ignore them. I would just delete the DMs. Seems almost all the scams are deposit related. We're just being prudent. I'm taking time off. It's doing me wonders financially. Seems I have a lot of extra cash. Been going to a bunch of sporting events with great seats that I normally don't attend.
Oh it was not a kgirl, it was general discussion and I quit TER because you cannot reason with a provider whose livelihood depends on it.
And to the contrary, I absolutely have been contacted by kgirls here. Other people have too. It was the girl. I knew her well. It was a bit of a running joke because there are certain kgirls that will PM people after a review. Multiple people.
At the now defunct private (mongers only) board where I used to moderate, I would say that the vast majority of our membership bailed from various regional (mainly east coast) TER boards due to provider drama, but it seemed many of them weren't much better themselves. At one point we had banned as many guys from the board as we had members and it seemed that 2/3 them came from TER. As for this forum, it was noted that most of the drama came from a half a dozen barnyard roosters who seemed to be looking to play childish games of one-upsmanship with each other. Membership required 5 existing members to approve but only 1 to reject. I won't name names but I would dare say that we had a running shitlist of "do not invite" hobbyists and at one point 3 of them were among the top 10 prolific posters on this forum...
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