Consider them gone when they don’t have their ads up.  

99% of these girls shut off this life after they leave the business. 99% of these k-girls lack real sense of any emotions or connections to anyone.

 
And retiring means that they are done for good.

The last time I saw her (the last day of February) she was going back and forth on details about planning a vacation including a longish trip around the Southwestern US and a trip to Korea. She hadn't been back to Korea since a couple of years before the pandemic began, so she thought she was overdue to see friends and extended family.  I hope she comes back in the next couple of months.

She'll be back, she pops up every now and again, she takes breaks/travels around, probably went back to Korea for a few months. She'll be back. She's one of the "lifers"/long term kgirls that visits NOVA often.

has been an idiot at some time in their Kgirl career.  Don't beat yourself up.  Learn to get individual contact information from Kgirls.  (If you're not sure how to approach it, say so, and I will tell you the best ways that work for me.)  It's important to make sure they are not BSC first.  Lol