Slow down Sunnybro...all hope is not lost.
You went to work out and showed up for your appointment sweaty and gross?! What's the BFD?!Take a shower together and get on with the appointment...unless there's something else you're not telling us??? A few years ago I sat in my car for half hour on a HOT Summer day in San Ho. I wilted and was drenched in sweat when I strolled in...Julia was visibly turned off. I explained to her that it's HOT as FUCK outside and I arrived early without a shade spot. She let me in but the vibe was arctic frigid... We took a shower together that turned into soapy fun; whoo hoo Julia!!! Julia went from who the fuck are you to purring HOT sex kitten. Great fucking GFE MSOG full hour of pleasure. Sometimes you gotta reach into your bag of magic tricks and put on a show!!! YMMV
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My fellow kgirl loving bros, I have a very sad story to tell, and its all my fault. I can never again see one of my favorite kgirls ever again, because I made the oh so stupid mistake of trying to squeeze in an appointment after the gym before going home and showering. I figured I could just shower there before the fun started and it would all be the same. The booker didn't say this but it is the only thing I can think of. It only took one time.
What a stupid fucking mistake. Never again. Don't be like me.
Do you have any kgirl regrets? Let's commiserate.
You weren't able to shower there?
Girls usually do a smell test on you. Some guys come straight from work gym or maybe it's a hot day and they're sweaty. It happens. If you imply you got BLd for that, I find it extremely hard to believe.
My current Kgirlfriend is not the first one I have dated that has blocked guys for passing on the shower who really needed one. Its completely within a Kgirl's discretion to block a guy for any reason. She doesn't have to explain it to the booker, and the booker cannot override her decision. Consequently, its not a BL for the whole agency, just with the girl who blocks you. Women in general have a better sense of smell than men. That's why wives often know when their husbands are cheating. They smell a little perfume when the husband was certain that there were no lingering traces.
SD's Kgirl may have made a conscious decision that she just didn't want to smell him . . . . er, I mean, . . . . see him again. LOL (Sorry SD, but when you tee one up like that, I have to take a swing. LOL)
Yes, but he didn't say he passed up the shower atht the incall. We need more info op.
FYI I did NOT pass on the shower, I gladly accepted it. Who knows, I thought the rest of the session went totally normal. Wasn't rough or anything, didn't overstay, very polite as always, no attempted stealthing or any BS like that, didn't short on the money, I honestly have no clue what it could have been other than the bit sweaty when I showed up.
SD mentions usually going straight from his shower to the appointment. If that means he usually passes on the shower when he arrives, that’s already one strike against him.
Then he shows up in sweaty gym clothes that maybe she has to touch if she undressed. Then the clothes sit in a pile in the room the entire session, stinking up the place. That means even though SD left the place well showered, his stink was still wafting about the room after he left. If a K-Girl has to whip out the Febreeze after you leave, don’t be surprised if you end up on her BL. 
Rocket, I wish I were lying bro. I've seen over 20 different Kgirls this year alone, and I act the exact same with each one, and never had a problem. I racked my brain for almost 2 hours today, trying to think of a possible transgression, as the booker couldn't provide me with details either, because he didn't have them. Just said theres a note there that I'm blocked with her. Only possible thing I could think of was that.
Every other time I've gone freshly showered and had no problems so just using logical reasoning.
I HAVE NO CLUE AND IT SUCKS THOUGH.
Anyways, I saw another Kgirl with another agency and she sucked and fucked my brains out so I feel a lot better now and can just have a good laugh about it with my bros here.
c'est la vie!
I did not accuse you of lying, my man!
I've heard many a stories of mongers coming in sweaty and not having issues. I just said it's hard to believe because it's a common situation imo.
You said you've seen this girl several times?
That's even stranger. Usually if you have rapport, girls like regulars.
Idk. My advice is not to dwell on it unless she was r literally one of your atfs. In that case, I'd try to plead my case to the booker/girl if possible.
But anyway, bottom line is that CDL is right - a girl or a booker can BL you for anything.
No I had only seen her once
Slow down Sunnybro...all hope is not lost.
You went to work out and showed up for your appointment sweaty and gross?! What's the BFD?!
Take a shower together and get on with the appointment...unless there's something else you're not telling us???
A few years ago I sat in my car for half hour on a HOT Summer day in San Ho. I wilted and was drenched in sweat when I strolled in...Julia was visibly turned off. I explained to her that it's HOT as FUCK outside and I arrived early without a shade spot. She let me in but the vibe was arctic frigid...
We took a shower together that turned into soapy fun; whoo hoo Julia!!! Julia went from who the fuck are you to purring HOT sex kitten. Great fucking GFE MSOG full hour of pleasure. Sometimes you gotta reach into your bag of magic tricks and put on a show!!!
YMMV
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Fuck if I know, bro!! The booker said there was a note that something bothered her but couldn't provide details as he didn't have them. Didn't push the issue since I didn't want to piss off my favorite agency.
I consulted with CDL in private messages and as he wisely said, sometimes you gotta take the L and soldier on.
Sucks though, she was one of the hottest girls physically that I've seen in the hobby.
Cue 'Super Califragilisticexpialidocious'...
Could be she has GPS.
Just as well...I personally don't wanna session with a kgirl who'll BL me over some BS! Carry on Sunnybro.
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but yeah, I think he got it right this time. Sometimes, actually most of the time you will NEVER know what actually happened when a provider, K-Girl or otherwise, BL's or ghosts you. It kind of goes along with the territory. Sometimes it's not even your fault. I had a Thai provider once that stopped responding to me and for the life of me I couldn't figure out why.
Now this is kind of an unusual situation, but there were two providers who shared an incall, one Thai, and one mixed Thai and Japanese, I used to see at least one of them pretty much every week, most often I would see each of them a week or so. One day I reached out to the Thai girl for a session and I got no response, and I didn't get a response for MONTHS, I couldn't figure out what was going on, I continued seeing her roommate and while I didn't flat out ask her why her roommate was ignoring me, I did confirm she was ok and still seeing clients. Finally after about 6 months I tried "one last time" and she finally agreed to see me and that's when I found out the issue. I had dated one of her very good friends for quite some time and I knew at least half of her closest friends and she confessed that it made her feel "funny" seeing me as a client, ironically she did leave the door open to us actually "dating" but hot as she was I decided not to walk through that door, because it would have meant the end to me fucking any other Thai Girl in Dallas. lol
Yes I did get closure and I did find out "why" but for every story where I can tell you what actually happened I bet you there are a dozen where the guy never finds out what the real story is. and like CDL told you "just take the L and soldier on"
I bet you there is another reason she won't see you again. Now that I live over a hundred miles from the nearest K-Girls I almost ALWAYS show up unshowered, often I show up right after playing 18 holes of golf or more. NEVER has that caused an issue because I always tell them the minute I walk in the door that "I am stinky today, and I need a shower" Besides I LIKE the shower part of the session, just like I like the table shower at the AMP's.
You may never know what really happened, but I seriously doubt that showing up straight from the gym was the reason, UNLESS of course you refused the shower that was offered to you, but from your OP that does not seem to be the case
I just posted a few days ago that mongers should never pass up a shower at the incall. not just to be clean, but its the best ice-breaker there is with a new girl you just met.
I go one step further. Oftentimes, after undressing and a little preliminary grab-assing, a girl will tell me how good I smell, so I will look her in the eye and tell her. "I know what you're doing . . . . You're trying to cheat me out of my shower." That is a great moment of levity that they all appreciate. Even if you just took a shower in the apartment across the hall, your balls can NEVER be too clean for a Kgirl's mouth. LOL
They don't like confrontation with customers, so if they ask the guy to shower and he refuses, they will soldier through a smelly session, and once the guy is out the door, they tell the booker to block him.
This “I am stinky today” is exactly what I do when coming from a workout. Which is pretty often (endurance athletes work out a lot). I do take it one step further and let the PO know in advance that I’m doing so. This gives the girl a heads up that I think helps. Though I can’t prove it does anything at all.
The worst response I’ve ever gotten, which I mentioned earlier, was from my ATF quite a few years ago. But that was about the smell of my clothes. She would wrinkle her nose and gingerly carry my stinky clothes back to a corner of her apartment that was far from the bed and bathroom.
Before my ATF made me aware of the extent of the problem, I had avoided sessioning immediately after a workout. Because it (my post workout presentability) was an unknown to me and I don’t like unknowns. But when I told her one time I had to go home and clean up after a workout before I could see her she just told me to come as I was whenever I wanted to see her and we’d figure it out.
Since there was a time that I used to see her once or twice or even three times a week (because sometimes she was just the only one who could scratch the itch), I took advantage of the opportunity to experiment with different approaches to eliminate the smelly clothes problem. She was very happy when I finally got it right. I’ve never had a problem with it since.
What specifically made you feel you were BL? Did you try to schedule a repeat visit and didn't receive a response? Could always be a technological issue on their end. I'd try reaching out again in a few days. I feared the worst after a booker that usually responds within the minute didn't, but it just took them 30 minutes to get back to me.
I asked the booker straight up and he told me. Thank god I wasn't BLed from the agency itself, they're my absolute favorite.
Specifically - asked for an appt with her, they said no. Asked for the next few days, they said no more "GIRLSNAME". Checked the website, she's still there. I asked a friend to reach out to them and they told him she was available and he made an appointment. I put 2+2 together, then asked the booker politely and he told me straight up.
Back in the day our then (large) company had lots of employee activities including group training for 3k and 5K runs. We'd practice a few times per week in the afternoon. Different people would show up on different days. One afternoon just one guy, and lady and myself showed up. This guy must have worn the same running clothes on pervious days and must not have washed them recently. Good god did the man stink! And this was outdoors. I didn't want to run near him it was so terrible. He probably showered that day, but by wearing those previously sweaty clothes he draped himself in a smell suit. It was hard to un-remember that stench when seeing him again. I can imagine a sex worker getting turned off by a smell.
Smelly clothes are a bigger problem than some mongers realize.
I have heard complaints from a few girls about “dirty clothes”. When asked what they mean they just cover their nose. Pretty sure that translates to “smelly”.
It is because of this that I take specific measures to minimize the odor of my clothes every day. The more often I workout, the harder this is. But I believe it is worth the effort.
Years ago my ATF would hide my clothes if I didn’t do a good enough job. When I finally got to the point where she didn’t wrinkle her little nose and hide my clothes I knew what I was doing was working.
Pro tip: You either have to wash your gym bag frequently or use something disposable (environmentalist alert) to hold your workout clothes. Otherwise the bag will make even your clean clothes stink. Wrapping dirty clothes in plastic before you put them in your bag helps a lot. But carrying your clean change of clothes outside of the bag is best.
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Note:
The only complaints I’ve heard about smelly clothes in recent history were from girls talking about other customers. I take that as a good sign for me. Not so great for some other mongers. Hopefully, none of you guys.
that are the big chain operations, but many independent upscale gyms in metropolitan areas where there are a lot of executive offices have valet services. After you finish your workout, you put your dirty gym clothes in a designated laundry bag and they wash them overnight and hang them in your locker for the next time. You wear them once and they are washed, so there is no mildew or other bacteria accumulating on wet gym clothes and neither are you wearing the stank out of the gym and into your car. it works out to about $5-10 per wash, depending on how exclusive the gym THINKS it is. Lol
I have availed myself of that service at hotel gyms if I was staying long enough to be there to pick up the clean clothes.
More commonly, I just learned to bring some sort of plastic bag. I usually re-use the plastic that my dry cleaning comes back in. It takes up almost no space in my bag until I use it. And it seals in the stank. The only downside I’ve found is that I have to wash the clothes relatively quickly after that or getting them odor free again can be a tiny bit more challenging. Still, even that is solved with a little bit of Oxiclean Max Force before I throw them in the wash.
If I’m staying in a hotel, I just take the plastic bag they leave for your laundry and put my sweaty clothes in that.
However, most of my workouts don’t take place in a gym since I tend to be cycling or running. So I have to carry whatever solution I’m going to use with me somehow.
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