How to meet and get kgirls outside of the hobby? (civilian girls, mostly, but I would not turn down a working kgirl if I met her out there tbh). Where to find them, and how to approach?  

They seem very insular, skittish, closed off to approaches, and all the advice I've heard so far has been one of the following:

1. Learn more about their culture, language, etc. so you're not just another foreigner with yellow fever.

2. Make ABSOLUTELY NO MENTION WHATSOEVER of anything Asian, lest you come off like just another foreigner with yellow fever.

Obviously, these are contradictory. Wondering what my fellow monger brothers have found success with in the wild, while looking for these lovely feminine kgirls?

Thanks,

Secondly, if you want pickup or dating advice, go to a dating site not a fuckboard created for hookers and johns.

They don’t like you because you’re creepy. The only reason why you can get within a few feet of them is because you are giving them money. You definitely have yellow fever, it grosses them out.  Also, they are putting on a show for you so don’t ever expect them to behave the same way when you date them. These bitches are crazy like you won’t believe

I'm going to guess that ALL girls are insular, skittish, closed to you unless if you're paying them.

Please indulge me my share my monger brothers??

 

OP, I think you're asking two questions: first, how do I get a date outside the room with a kgirl??and, how do I go about meeting and getting a date with Civilian Korean Ladies??

 

I was a regular at Kun Gumiho's massage parlor for a good five years and one day she asked me out.  Really.  We went out to dinner and spent the night at a hotel after.  Most of my inner circle monger brothers had similar experiences where they became regulars of the kgirl and she invited them out.  It's a patience game...

 

 
With regards to meeting Civilian Korean Ladies, I'm thinking start shopping at Ranch 99, Seafood City or local Korean market. If you've got game, there's new friends to be had without coming off as creepy.

 

My $0.02.

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Excellent share, Brother Twoon. Seems like most of the "success" (as in going OTC) stories I've heard have happened at the initiative of the girl. Even if they don't ask outright, they'll hint at you taking them out. Wonder if any mongers have had "success" taking the initiative. The closest I've seen mongers come to this is giving girls their numbers, but even then, it's up to the girl to initiate something.

How to tell a Korean pro from a non-pro? Lol. I think your best best would be to hit up the room salons in LA and NJ/NYC. At least on the EC, those girls all frequent similar places and have a distinctive "civilian" uniform.

either approach that you suggest, but this question has been explained and answered ad nauseum in other threads on this board by veteran Kgirl daters that have been doing this for years.  The Search function is your friend.  Read the wisdom of the past threads, then if you have specific questions, bring them to the board for current discussion.  The topic is just too broad to rehash over and over.  

 
Sometimes, the perspective on this question is a little different from Korean mongers than from non-Korean mongers.  I suggest you read it all and then try what has worked for others.  As Twoon says, if you are non-Korean, it takes some game to get them to go out with you unless you are willing to throw obscene amounts of money at them.  Money does the trick.  You will be neither loved nor respected by the girls, but they will still take your money and give you the best boyfriend FANTASY money can buy.  If you want the real deal, its not about the money, but about understanding women in general.  Like I said, look up old threads for details.  Don't tell him I said this, but GaG has probably had the largest number of OTC hooker girlfriends, including Kgirls and Thai girls, and has posted massive amounts of insight on this board in the past.  

Get a job at your local H-Mart. If you can't cultivate a relationship with a K-coworker or K-customer after a few weeks or months, at least you'll be getting kimchi with the employee discount.  
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If the idea of working at the H-Mart doesn't appeal to you, start shopping there regularly. They have a lots of good stuff. That's where I buy my Pocari Sweat. (Pocari Sweat is a Japanese product but H-mart has gotten past the Japanese occupation 1910-1945 and sells many Japanese products.)

where can I find more info about these room salons you speak of?

a pretty comprehensive discussion about dating a Kgirl on the outside from a few years ago.  it may have some value for those that haven't figured out how to do it yet.  

I dunno, it seems like if you are a regular customer of any biz, you might get the occasional customer appreciation bonus.  I get Christmas and birthday cards from my bank.  I don't read too much into that.

I would be extremely interested in room salons on the WC, too!

If they do exist they might not be open to anyone not Asian!

I understand the salons in Korea have two different types of clients, higher end salons for Koreans & maybe other Asians!
And, other salons for tourists and Americans/Anglos!

FH422, are you talking about Karaoke bars or room salons? From what I've read they seem similar, but are somewhat different.

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