Just got into a long distance relationship, its hard, I see her three to four times a year, if I'm lucky.  

I have needs, so please spare the judgment for now.  

I'm generally safe, no PSE or anything but BBBJ is still risky as is DATY. Do I just have to get tested constantly? I definitely want to be safe for her sake.

I'm curious too. I don't want to give my wife when I'm eventually married any STDs. The craziest ones would be gonorrhea, chlamydia. Even general UTIs would be suspect.

How do you guys do this? Sex with condom for a week after exposure? She would think that's weird too.

And wouldn't she get curious if I'm always clean shaven down there? I always shave before a kdate

a long distance relationship is barely a real relationship. you said it yourself, you have needs.

bang away, brother. Just use a cover for the fs portions

Anyhoo, all you have to do is get tested a couple of weeks before you see her.

 
BTW, how do you know what SHE is doing the other 48-49 weeks of the year?
Cue: "Who's Making Love (To Your Old Lady While You're out Making Love?")
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3RueCun_Bh8

The easy answer is that you shaved for her.  BTW, I just started to shave too about 6 months ago and it feels great!  I think it increases the sensation.  

If you only see your significant other 3-4 times a year, you can get tested for STIs well in advance. In my opinion, you should break off your long distance relationship. Unless she knows about this lifestyle, I don't think it's fair to keep her committed in a long distance relationship.

It's called FWB (Friends with Benefits).  I have had several of these, but never made a mutual pledge of exclusivity. One is a retired Kgirl and either I go to Seoul, or she comes to California once or twice a year for a week.  The amount of sex we cram into a week is truly amazing.  Lol

 
I think the distance works in your favor on your regular hobby schedule.  Somebody brought up STD's, but the most common ones incubate in a week or less, so unless she is prone to show up unannounced at your door, there should be plenty of time to get tested a reasonable time before she shows up, or you go there.  Just don't fuck up your plan by seeing another Kgirl after the test, but before you see her.  Women have a much easier time with "time-outs" in their sex life, but in an FWB situation, you both know there is no pressure to keep 100% chaste for the other.  It's just not reasonable, but it's bad form to bring up your other activities or talk about it with each other.  

A rather judgmental (dare I say Puritan?) take given the raison d'être for this website.