Hi guys... Kinda a newbie to the K girl scene. I finally broke in the LA scene about a week ago and have been having fun since. I have only posted one review and will post some more later... This question is not in regards to the gal that I did review already. But a girl that I did see recently gave me her phone number and we have been texting back and forth. I am pretty busy with my job and so I have not a chance to try and set up a date or anything. I travel a lot so I am not in LA all that much.  
But that being said... Have any of you guys ever had a K girl give you their number and text back and forth a lot? I am curious, what is their angle? Has anyone ever gone out with a K girl not on a paid date? I am not trying to be a WK or anything, and I have no expectations from this chick. She is probably all in it for the money. But just out of curiosity, have any of you taken a K girl out for a day away from their daily routine? To the beach, showed them around a little bit? Like I said I am not trying to be a WK, but I do treat the girls I have been with like a gentleman. They are very pretty and there is probably no way that I would ever score a date with any of them outside this community. So perhaps that is why she has decided to communicate with me. I don't know. I treat them like girlfriends and as a good gentleman would like to maybe show this cutie the better side of our city (LA) rather then having them come over for a few months, stay in K-town, fu*k a bunch of dudes and then go home. Yes their wallets may be fatter, but they probably leave thinking that Americans are are bunch of horny fu%@ers and that is about it.  
I guess that I am just asking to the guys that have been here and done this for a while. So please feel free to respond to either this post or PM me. To be clear, I am not trying to be a WK or think that I can have the is girl as my GF. I am probably 20 years older than her so that is not an option. I understand, I think..What these girls are over here to do. But trying to be a nice guy is in my blood and just want to be a gentleman. I know, ridicule me all you want if you wish for perhaps being perceived as being naive or mushy. But I feel that these girls are still humans and I treat them as such despite that I paid to play. Please feel free to chime in. Thank you

I had one girl want to give me her number but I heard she text a lot & with a SO that not a good thing for me.

Same token I have about 6 K-girls number that have been CFs.
I have no issues with them when they asked for my number.
It has helped me get time slots by text to them in advance that I want to see at this time tomorrow.

I have had a few that drop me a weekly hello, how are you, miss ya.
Figure that more a don't forget to keep seeing me kinda message?

Either way just be careful if your in a relationship cuz you don't want a girl to text you like crazy.

Girl needs to establish some trust for me to offer her up my number.

I know some dudes ask many girls for their numbers but that not my style.

Most of the time when I get a girls number it has come at the end of the session as I leaving & they say come back sooner next time.
That is when I tell a CF I have tried a few times but the booker not giving me times I can come see her.

Then the hand motion comes, waving give me your phone as she calls her phone.
Tell me, now you have my number & just call, I will help you .

Same as you dude, I probably 20 years older then many ic but if I get the vibe from a popular girl I want to see it worth it.

Most are too busy to be chatting with us all day, day in & day out.
I too don't have the time for that.

An ATF that was 1st one ever to give me her number left for long time.
I would shoot her a text every few months.  Just a simple hope you doing well & thinking about you.
Never did return my text but when I seen her she said she did get them all & was happy I thought about her.
She gone again & I still shoot her off a text now & then.
Hope she returns to the BA soon cuz I do miss that girl.

kgirls exchange numbers and date guys all the time.  texting and going to movies..dinner etc.   so don't worry about that.  your not in some unique situation.

but what kind of relationship you want is what makes it complicated.  i mean if your looking to just have fun and will not mind paying for things all the time...ie..being her sugardaddy etc...then an angle doesn't really matter does it.  

but on the other hand...thats not what your expecting but actually thinking of dating her for real..well then thats somewhat complicated.  no one can tell you for sure what angle your girl has.  whether shes going to use you or is genuine with her feelings to you.  only thing i can tell you is what happened with me and maybe that can help you somewhat in not getting burned.  

 
i have had several relationships, most of them were real i guess ...ie...we barebacked, i never paid, she would call me when she was done at work,  sharing expenses,  etc.  it just didn't work out for various reasons.  and one interesting thing about these "real" girls is that I had to ask them for their number.  and it wasn't easy..had to to actually pursue and woo them to get their number and eventually becoming a couple.

now don't get me wrong just because a kgirl gives you her number doesn't mean shes not genuine but odds are not good.  ive had 6 kgirls who gave me their number when i didn't even ask them for it and only 2 were "real" sweet girls.  4 not so much.  gave the definition of being a whore.  what they did was pretty much what you expect i guess for a girl who tries to use you....ie...always asking me to buy things, whenever i didn't see them at least once a week she would suddenly never respond to my text or calls till i saw them, did not do bareback with me, or even dating to movies or dinner...she would never DFK at end of the date.  when that happens one or two dates you know what angle the girl is doing.  

so if looking for something like a relationship then just use common sense..and look for the things i mentioned above.  and be conscious of whats going on if she gives you her number first or asks for your number first.  from my experience she is more likley going to use you.  or if don't mind paying all the time in incalls or on dates etc.  then go for it and have fun!

good luck..

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Can't speak for kgirls cuz I only got a few kgirl numbers over the years but I got plenty of white girl numbers.  

Some strippers who gave me their number only did it to solicit more visits.  

Some agency escorts who gave me their number,  the same...  They wanted to retain clients.  

A good number wanted to be real friends.  

Some just wanted to be text buddies who hardly ever meet in real life.  

Some of the ones who originally had an agenda of soliciting more business actually ended up becoming real friends and not just business friends.  

A few wanted to  date otc.  

A few became friends with benefits.  

A Few went on trips with me off the clock and had otc sex. OTC sex is rarer but it happens depending on your appearance and game.  

So the odds are it is safer to assume she is giving her number for reasons other than wanting to have sex with you off the clock...  

She probably isn't interested in dating either (yet) even though she is obviously open to some type of friendship.

Obviously there can be many different reasons, but a while back a gal I saw (she's no longer around by the way) gave me her personal phone number and told me to call her directly to make a "special time" appointment. It was easy to figure out that in this case she just wanted to do an end run around her booker so she didn't have to deal with a commission. I politely refused and told her that I had known her booker for a long time and felt that I should go through her. This was the end of it and the gal eventually moved on. I don't know if she had offered the same deal to others or not, but I would assume she had. The bottom line is to try and figure out what the gal's motives may be. Ciao!

Don't overthink this, or try to figure out their motivations, and just go with the flow. I've had several k-girls give me their phone #s, but it didn't result in very much - some just exchanged texts, I went on "dates" with a couple (coffee, dinner). No big deal. In my experience, they gave me their phone #s because they said they are comfortable with and trust me, I am easy to talk to and seem like a "nice guy".  Basically, they were just looking for a friend to talk to. I would often chit chat with them at the end of our sessions, if there was time left over. So, over a period of time, we got to know each other as people. We consider each other as friends (not as boyfriend/girlfriend), which actually enhanced our sessions, as they became more passionate.

Thank you all for your input. As I said in my original post, I was just trying to figure out her angle.  
I would like to take her out on a regular date, so many cool things to do here in LA, and I am assuming that they don't get out too much. So I am fine with a regular date with nothing else. She is a cute girl and probably would be fun to hang around with. As far as SO's, I am completely free of them so I don't have a problem with her texting me a lot. No one will ever know that could compromise me. I guess that I just like the fact that she took an interest in me and has been texting. I have no expectations what so ever about dating this girl.. Period. If we become friends then that is great, but at the of the day, she is going back to Korea at some point and I am not going to be left hanging with my heart in my hand. I am just trying to be a good guy, show a cute girl around if she wants that.. and if things move beyond a date then so be it. It is just sex and if I earned it by being her friend, then that would be great, if there is nothing outside the bedroom I am fine with being just friends and maybe showing a cute gal around our great city. In the meantime, there are a ton of super hot K gals that I still want to enjoy their charms. Hopefully I have finally unlocked the key to this scene. I will always treat the girls like a gentleman, and hope that I will be rewarded as a gentleman should be. I do hope that all you guys out there treat them as they should be.. Very sexy women, but also they are women with minds and hearts, so enjoy what we have, a couple benji's in my mind is well worth the money spent to spend some amazing time with them. So as always, have fun, be respectful and treat these ladies as they should be treated. Like gems.

Same here, got a K-girl number last week.

She stated so I could let her know when I am coming.

I now have 4 numbers
1) My ATF where I live, Lovely Chinese girl, early 30's Best massage I've ever had. (I have a bad back and get massages regularly) and the most exquisite HJ ever, well, to date. Luckily she lives close by, no trip to San Jose.
2) A beautiful 24yr old Korean AMP girl locally, we chat occasionally, incredible FS and HOT as hell.
3) The above Korean's 18 year old sister, long story, amazing experience, once in a lifetime.
4) The Kgirl I met last week

All are strictly business and none of them text during off hours or on weekends unless I instigate it.

Always treat the girls with respect and you will be treated in kind.

She wanted to see me socially but lived out of state. However no way for TER board
members to guess her motivation so just ask her...

I'm late too the party!  

I had this happen once. I did'nt have the heart to decline on spot. She asked for my number when I was on my real phone. She never called me.  

On the other hand, i've asked for the number of the girl in an amp before. She was my atf and her previous place got busted before. I found her at a different place based on review and asked for number. We rarely contact each other.

I probably will never ask for numbers again or give out number. I'm paying good money to enjoy myself at appointed time. I don't want to think about whether the approach is genuine or not. Also, imagine getting a text or call at the most inappropriate time. Although it is improbable,  it is not impossible since they do have your number.

Remember, this is not dating or marriage arrangement center. That is just my opinion at this time.

I've had a few text me just to talk and hang out when they are not working.

this post has been on for awhile, but Id like to give my two cents on the subject.  Got the number of my ATF, but know that others have gotten it too.  I talk to her on kakao or do regular texts.  Some guys dont get any response, or rarely.  For me, she been pretty responsive from time to time.  Sometimes apologizing to me if she cancels an appt or whatever.  Hasnt gotten me anywhere beyond what she does with other guys.  So a number getting a number doesnt really mean anything.  Most of the time its used as a marketing ploy, sometimes friendship and trust builds and it goes further.  Its all up in the air.  Just have fun with it, but dont bug them alot.