Do K Girls need references to make first visit? If so, how do I get references? I'm not going to ask my employer or friends. "Hey, so, I'm thinking about seeing a professional for sex, can you write up a kind word for me?"

But not from an employer or friends. From another booker. Seach this board or the LA board for kgirl screening.  
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...obviously has not seen another K-girl.  In fact, he's such a newbie he doesn't even know what references are.  He shouldn't be diving into the deep end of the pool to try to see a K-girl.

Your right. I am "such" a newbie. I thought this forum was to gather info and for more experienced hobbyists to help out us newbies. I don't understand your "he shouldn't be diving into the deep end of the pool to see a K-girl." Enlighten me O' King of the hobbyists.

...especially if you haven't seen ANY other providers.  My response was to HH who said you need a reference from a booker to see a K-girl.  But how can you get a reference from a booker to see a K-girl if you haven't previously seen any K-girls?  It's a Catch-22 - you need a reference from a K-girl in order to see a K-girl but you can't get a reference from a K-girl if you haven't seen a K-girl.

...and he says it IS possible to see a K-girl if you've never seen one.  As he says, the key is:

Go to the Newbie board and look up PF411 & Date-check. These agencies help you start with indies. Once you have a couple indies as refs, you can call K-girls. Not all K-bookers accept indies, but some do.  
This is how some of us started.

Different areas of country have different screening procedures. It's probably helpful if you would post where you are interested.  You might also get more helpful responses or PM if you didn't post with an alias.