I have been fortunate to have gone out with 4 different girls over the last 2 years. All off the clock including 2 overnights at the incall and several at my place. There are many different arrangements for the girls and that impacts dating.
Girl #1 - Everything we did was at the in-call, including multiple overnights and meals. Her roommate and her came from Korea together and had a long past, so there was no concern about PO/Manager finding out. All was OTC. She has been back in Korea for nearly a year and we are still in touch as friends.}
Girl #2 - A wild girl who was a little crazy. She had a place with a sister away from the in-call, so it was easier to hangout. I would pick her up after work and we'd go eat and then overnight at my place. This was a daily routine for about a month. Like many of the girls, she had family drama back in Korea and has since returned. We are not in touch.
Girl #3 - She didn't have a roommate so we were able to spend time at my place and hers. We did the most out in the wild of any of the girls, including Christmas shopping, exploring the area, and of course dining. Many overnights at both places.
Girl #4 - tba
No scams, thankfully, and I wasn't buying gifts or anything outside of normal food, etc. I have found that many of the girls want to escape from their arduous jobs, but most are afraid of getting in trouble. The few that I've seen were all very strong willed and independent.
Why do I do this? I like people. I like to know people. Many of the girls have had interesting and difficult lives and it is nice to just allow them to be who they are without worries.