This used to be one of the more active boards. While I have no doubts the link to top posts for the last 30 days will be no surprise to any (and I suspect is a bit skewed as account can choose not to be included in the calculations) it was interesting to see it in numbers.

slowing up a while back, but it would pick up here and there.

For myself, just not a lot of the threads interested me.

I thought I put up a couple of interesting, maybe even fun threads, but not too much participation.

I've got a couple of ideas, I'll post and see what happens.

. . . why waste people's time having them read about nothing? [Was that a Seinfeld reference?]

I have two thoughts: First, one of the most prolific and experienced KBoard posters has been gone for 2+ months. That might contribute to the inactivity. Second, so often posts here turned into vitriolic arguments that it pushed me away from posting, and I'm probably not alone. It seems like much of that vitriol has now infected the General Discussions Board, and it's far beyond the scope of the KBoard arguments. Frankly, I come here to gain and share information to assure my fun and safety. As the arguments increase, my desire to post/participate decreases.

I agree but somewhat implicit in the observation is perhaps why is there nothing worth talking about.  Or at least that there hasn't been anything interesting to talk about -- which I'm not sure is the case but one would think so based on the posts.

 
But perhaps that is it. Most have been around long enough that little is worth commenting on.

Definitely agree with the second thought. Used to be the personality conflicts and vitriolic arguments but the ratio of those to general discussion was much lower than it became. I get why that produced reactions like yours and don't think you were an outlier.

arguments getting off topic and out of hand, but at least they were Kmongers.
Quite a lot of times the anti Kgirl people and haters would post some bull shit question just to fuck with Kmongers or come on with their racist shit against the Kscene and the Asian women, all MO, just because they had something against the guys that like them.
That's just how I saw and read it by what was posted.

 
PS
Also MO, I don't think one guy controlled or stopped people from posting.
I think it's the content or the direction a thread would go that slowed down the board.

With the US Dollar so strong now, I've been traveling to Japan and Hong Kong to experience p4p. If you're lucky enough and have time to travel, I highly recommend it.  
Service is not as good as K-Girls, but you have so many options at significantly cheaper rates.  
At Hong Kong, you can see Russian women in their 20s for ~$130/30 minutes. I saw a 20 year old Chinese woman for $77/30 minutes several months ago.

in long time.
Been thinking about checking it out again.
* Hong Kong

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Too often one poster would hijack threads to advance his Quixotesque causes. He even attempted it here in this thread and the admins thankfully pulled it.

I just noticed that his nonsense was pulled. That's funny. Maybe Admin has taken notice of his history of bad conduct.

Many people attribute this board dying to me, as evidenced by the last few posts.  

 
I will take that accountability and will say I'm sorry to those who were turned off by my posts here. So yes I'm at fault here.  

But again, the "vitriol back and forth" wouldn't be a thing if people on here wouldn't defend bad behavior towards mongers and pretend like bookers orgs and girls can't do anything wrong.

If they just let the truth be said out loud we wouldn't have this issue.

completely agree with you and that will stop the arguments.

 
Well, why don't you just agree with them to stop the vicious back and forth posts.

 
And then we can hopefully open the board up to discussing the Kgirls that we all like, and that the board is named for.

 
Now Rocket, I know your stance on the whole Kworld outlook, and I am kind of playing Devil's Advocate with you to show it's a two-way street. Not looking for a lecture or a hassle with you. I'd rather have you share the Kgirl info you have.

PS
IMO, I believe they were talking about CDL and the fact that if he's not posting, the boards not worth bothering with.
As I stated above, one guy doesn't control the board, all MO.

No, I don't mean that.

As far as the board goes, it's not just about kgirls we like. It's about kgirls we DONT like too. It's about orgs we like and orgs we don't like. It's about practices we like and also ones we don't like.  

 
Some people for some reason think negative sentiment is a bad thing, and I don't see how its even an iota worse than positive sentiment. It's equal in its magnitude.  

When every single negative thing said is met with utmost resistance and denial, then there is a problem imo.

A while ago CDL asked why the board was dying and I gave an example that most of my negative experiences were providers replying or DMing me really weird comments. They weren't even part of the coversation. What set one provider off was when I warned a guy that deposits were risky with many guys being ripped off. She sent some unhinged messages not even addressing or reading what I wrote and making a lot of obviously wrong assumptions. The content of their message was really creepy and disgusting. To some extent, so were the arguments on this board in the past.

CDL didn't address those points but instead denied that providers reply or DM us in the first place. I literally had the DM in my inbox still and knew many other examples. But he claimed to know my experience and inbox better than me. I used to think CDL was a troll but that day I realized he actually has no common sense. He just wants to win an argument by moving goalposts and he discusses everything in bad faith.

TER is supposed to be about girls. It's fine if people get off topic sometimes but there's almost zero talk about girls to see. People get really carried away sometimes. I think we'd be okay with that if it was just occasional, rather than the main event.

CDL defended all that and I pointed out I was simply answering his question. He had asked why people didn't post and I gave him the true answer. I didn't post after that.

In NYC there is a corg (NYCSE) now banning customers for negative reviews. There's only two ways around that problem. One is to raise awareness of this policy and that NYCSE expects customers to accept very bad service. The other is to do normal reviews of only the good girls and using dog whistles on the bad girls to alert people. Using terms that only native English speakers would fully grasp. Or other sites they don't know you on.

The reviewer is easy to please and was even reluctant to write the bad review. But it was objectively very bad and clear cut.

I had multiple posts removed about specific features of specific girls because that info was deemed "vip details". I will say that on other forums you have much more freedom to write a short mini (not even mini but some description) of a girl. And compare or contrast  

 
Hell I even seen Jensen who claimed he's over reviews, write such a pseudo mini there and it was a solid one imo. He got info to fellow mongers which is what it's all about.

 
Slightly off tangent but ter also has this weird rule that we can't contrast or compare provider in a review to other providers, which is so baffling because it's so useful to us kmongers. I believe you're download x so you do a very good job of contrasting and comparing on forums, and for a lot of people such comparison to other girls is vital and often more helpful than just an abstract overview. Especially when it comes to service. Saying girl x is close to this girl in terms of DTbj or squirtign is very valuable imo.

Kgirl board and that's the board that is being discussed, sounds like you are talking about the GD board.
You're talking about deposits, as far as I know Kgirls aren't asking for deposits. At least not any LA Korgs that I know of.
And are you talking about being DM'd on TER from Kgirls?
Not that it's impossible, but IMO highly unlikely!  
They do text and use KKT to communicate with clients they would feel comfortable with.
So, I doubt Kgirls are sending unhinged messages.
Not that they can't, but once again highly unlikely IMO.
So, are you talking about K or J girls, or indie Asians, kind of a big difference to me.
Do you have a link for the thread with the CDL comments and the name of the provider sending you the unhinged message?

You wrote; "there's almost zero talk about girls to see". I would also like that, but IMO TER is not that kind of site, it's for reviews and boards with topics.
There are other sites like that which I've found and use.

non lecture!
I guess everything needs to be spelled out for you, fuck man lighten up some!
And don't tell me how you will never lighten up, because of your crusade and it *will* be heard, I've heard it plenty.
"cause that's not what I'm saying.
When I said Kgirls we like, I didn't mean negative stuff should not be posted, of course negative info needs to be put out for Kmongers to see.
I think negative info is just as important!  

"If they just let the truth be said out loud we wouldn't have this issue" this is your truth, other people have their own truths and outlook, just the way of the world!
And this; "No, I don't mean that", yes you do or should realize it! All MO!

 
Now give me both barrels!

You bring up several important points so I'll try to be concise. TER wants people to buy VIP. We have to decide whether or not to play along. TER is a valuable resource so I think a mini preview is the way to go like you said.

Yes the comparing provider rule did turn me off. I don't agree with it but there's probably a logical reason for it. Girls asking their bfs to bash other girls and promoting a different girl in that review. It's harder to do in a self-contained review. TER reviews are designed to be simple to teach and enforce. They like time and money.

One booker used to always tell us not to compare girls. But if people just knew the truth they'd find the girl they liked faster. It's not rocket science to say a girl is skinny and tiny, and then the guy shows up and sees it's true. And that info is not worth faking, if a girl is a tall Amazon those fans can show up instead. If one girl resembles another, people learn fast who is being reasonable with what they say.

DT I notice, but it's just a few younger girls. Squirting I'll know if several reliable people notice it. The young girls who are truly high service are few.

It's both, White indy providers and kgirls.

My friend got an unhinged message insulting him from a kgirl in response to his review. I don't want to go into the private message he got but it is a WTF moment.

I actually got very nice DMs from kgirls on TER. I don't want them, but I'm not complaining about that. Just that in combo with the Indy provider's unhinged message and my friend's experience, I've seen enough. I don't want to be on a forum where insults are the norm. Especially from SWs. It spoils the fun.

Just to clarify, those are additional PMs I didn't bring up originally. I was also DM'd by an indy SW and there other weird interactions too. It was literally more toxic than the kgirl threads used to be.

Again, I'm only answering the question of why things die out. It's the consistently bad interactions.

If I post something factual (such as a direct proof of bookers threаtening mongers if they write a public review lower than some score)  and then I am called a liar and someone who made this up, what exactly am I supposed to do? Just take it? Of course I'm gonna defend my position.

 
And heres the thing badger, it's not really about vitriol. When this vitriol is used by others, they don't get reprimanded. It's really about me being negative and complaining. That's the real issue for folks, not vitriol.

 
Case in point - rh. When I just came to this board and started posting my stuff, he dropped some subtle hints that I should stop complaining. I am an observant person and I can read between the lines, but of course I didn't stop. As you agreed this is a place where we can complain and be negative. So after a failed attempt to ignore me, he started calling me bunch of names, including something like felcher. Note I didn't call him a single name, ever.

 
Yet people never had a problem with his vitriol or personal attacks. And I have read these boards before I joined too. Plenty of personal attacks everywhere and vitriol.

 
Hence it's not really vitriol that people have problems with. It's with me posting negative things about orgs agencies and shills. Maybe too much for their liking. To the point where some act like I'm trying to actively and purposefully h.urt businesses with my posts. Im not and it was never the purpose of my posts.

I personally vouch for the facts you posted and did so different times and places, you were 100% right on that. But obviously, I can't do that every place or time you post it. If people attacked you for posting the truth, I'm not going to know about it. I was never okay with it. Many people have said the same as me, that they didn't want to participate in threads over that kind of stuff. We aren't going to keep careful track, we just know it's there.  

The problem with the online world is you can't prove anything easily and even when you do people ask you to prove it again later. So, I don't expect people to believe you or me. We can just make our case and leave, don't waste any more time imo. There are other ways to attack the problem too. It sounds corny but I truly think there is also a lot of fun things to do out there instead. So you budget some time on it, then move on. The people worth helping, some might believe you and that is enough. We can't expect any more.

It's exactly why I answered CDL's question saying what happened, and when he didn't believe me I simply left as planned. I was merely answering his question and I did that. I can understand why badger would be skeptical, but I'm not here to prove anything to people. You cannot convince everyone of anything.

So it may feel uncomfortable, but life is meant to be lived with uncertainty and letting others believe what they want. If you want to break down the wall of a castle, you do it one stone at a time. Persistently and over time. If one rock is hard to move, just go over and find a looser one to work on. Patience wins. There is another way to attack the problem.

I wrote my post for badger. I don't really need to be validated but there are two points which I consider super important:

 
1. Truthful information. This is why sites like this exist imo. If we had truthful info everywhere and everything was at face value, there'd be no need for these kinda sites.

So like badger said, let's say we have a difference of opinion. I think every conflict or bad behavior of sellers should be aired out, and they don't. Okay, so then they don't do it and I will do it. Easy enough, right?  

But no, once I post truthful info, it's like a red cloth for those guys. They attempt to normalize, diminish, excuse, justify and minimize the issues I post, truthful issues that inevitably arise between sellers and buyers in this biz. And it's not like it's only 25% of my posts or playing devils advocate occasionally...no it's the response of literally every.single.critical.post I make.  

It's like a bat signal especially for guys who like to post that same gif. It's like they're treating me as an arsonist and a perpetrator when I'm simply doing a report of a cr!me being committed. I'm not the bad guy here!  
They are the ones always reminding that the world isn't ideal yet they seem to want to have this perception that orgs/girls can't do any wrong and don't fart.  

They don't want the truth, they are only how concerned this truth makes some people look.  
And thats a a problem.  

 

They literally rejoice when there's an opportunity to show that "see some other entity is doing it it's not just this business". If that's not an attempt at normalizing bad behavior, I don't know what is. Just because other people lie doesn't mean we should. Just because some others engage in the same behavior doesn't mean sellers are justified.  

After all, no one is going to justify a violation of a woman by saying oh but someone else is also doing it? I hope not. So what's the difference? Bad behavior is bad behavior.  

 
If truth is then batted down and diminished, what is the point? People then will be reading lies, which defeats the purpose of this forum.

 

2.

Second point is double standards. This is a two way biz and the protocol and criteria for protocol should be exactly the same for both sides. What's allowed for one side should be allowed for other side, and if something  is not allowed for one side, it also shouldn't be allowed for the other side. It's a very simple concept. Do unto others and all that.  

 
But yet, every day people exhibit double standards here. As a recent example, the same people who consider giving advice on prices to a provider grounds for "don't tell me how to live my life " and then insulting  customers, see absolutely no issue with giving advices to mongers about anything else. Well no, either any advice can be replied to with "don't tell me how to live my life" and vitriol, or no advice can. Not even badgers advice to "lighten up". Cherry picking and choosing means engaging in double standards.  

 
Both sides have to play by the EXACT same rules.  
If one side is playing by different rules, once again, what's the point?  They can just have rules that are extremely favorable for themselves. And yet again my attempt to have these rules be equal and enforce a fair protocol is met with utmost resistance.  

 

I'm sorry, what's the value of a forum if trufhul info that is negative is always going to be attempted drowned out and no one wants to subject both sides to the same rules?  
And we can't really discuss particular girls in details?

Friday shill threads and pointless small talk? I guess.

If more people simply had the say, state their position and reasons (if needed) and then didn't respond to any comments unless they somehow misrepresent or confuse some important point. [edit] The response should then just focus on the confusion to clarify the point, not argue against the intentional or unintentional strawman that showed up.

 
That is not what happens though.

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Because it's real easy to claim it occurs where no misrepresentation occurs.

Case in point, when I first posted on this site almost six years ago, my first post was a critique of someone who gave an advice to not write a mediocre review of a new girl.

 
This persons response was that I misrepresented his point, because you see, he didn't give an advice, he merely said "I'd do this".....

 
I was utterly flabbergasted by this. This wasn't someone who was from a different culture or anything. And yet he was claiming I misrepresented his point when I did no such thing.

 
At least nowadays we have Google ai that will at least offer  general synopsis, ie, "is I'd do this considered an advice" prompt results in "yes, i'd do this is considered a form of advice, specifically advice that is presented as a personal recommendation or a suggested course of action".

 
And yet that person claims I misrepresented his post. So then anyone can claim they misrepresented their point? It's like a free get out of jail card? I don't think so.

Not just tedious. Also repetitive and unwarranted.

Holy shit. Ryumyu just agreed with you and you submitted a 10 paragraph rebuttal as to why he didn’t agree with you in the right way.

It says a lot that the admins bounced your first reply to Jensen’s original post on “dying board stats” and you manage to submit 5 more replies of multiple paragraphs indirectly saying what got your original reply removed in the first place.

There doesn’t seem to be any reply of yours here that only briefly addresses the topic at hand before you dedicate paragraphs to your pet peeves.
In your first reply after your original was pulled, you claim to apologize before veering off topic (Your apology) and go back to your “KOrgs are bad soap box. Badger called you on it. In another reply, you complain about being called a felcher, and then once again spin it into “the insulter is an agent of bad KOrgs”.  

In another reply, you hang onto a disagreement that occurred here SIX FUCKING YEARS AGO! And then spend paragraphs veering once again from the topic at hand back to your pet peeves. What the hell happened to the sentiment behind your apology? (Narrator: The sentiment was never really there. The bullshit apology didn’t last one reply).

It’s been noted on multiple forums by multiple posters that you seem to lack the ability to process any opinion or topic in any shade other than black or white. That inability to even acknowledge there are shades of grey seems to end up placing you on a spectrum of idiocy that has contributed to the decline of this board. It’s not a disease per se, so it can’t be “cured”. And it’s not possible to unadminister childhood vaccines. But it can be managed and adapted to with learning, therapy and maybe even a course of medications.It wouldn’t hurt you to give that a shot.

But what you shouldn’t do is post an apology into a thread for posting messages that have led to a decline me in the forum, and then drop fifteen paragraphs into that thread. Paragraphs whose real effect is to further contribute to the decline of this forum.

How is he a target? The fact I replied to his post? In fact the only thing I said about him is that he does comparison of kgirls right on another forum. It was a compliment.  

I didn't disagree with him nor did I provide a rebuttal. I simply explained what I feel like in terms of what's important on the forum and it was more of an answer to badgers question.  

I also never said anything about "korgs are bad". I simply said that when bad things happen it's worth posting about it on a public forum. Any seller in any industry can do a bad thing to a buyer and it's worth talking about it online. It's ironic you try to say I only see black and white and then turn around and say that my position is "korgs bad".  

Badger calls it a crusade, I call it a lifestyle. Consumers talking about bad things happening in business they are in, is a thing. Gaming communities have people with tens of thousands of hours in games complaining about things.  

 
I did apologize to those who left because of me and that apology is still in place.

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Are the other boards dying too?  Seems like it...

this board, I noticed it for a long time.
Posts are days and even weeks apart!

I've noticed the decline on other TER boards too.  
Maybe people are being priced out of escorts these days. Things were considerably more affordable 5-7 years ago.  
One could take a chance and see a random provider based off pictures. These days, I have to save up and do plenty of research before seeing a provider.