K-girls

Re: Stop if
sunnyday1 155 Reviews 2833 reads
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1 / 24

Basically what the title says. I've been a pretty regular (by most standards) kgirl monger since 2020- once every 1.5-3 weeks but in the last 2 months I've spent several thousands of dollars on kgirls and jgirls, basically my Q2 commission/bonus check hit, and I went crazy, seeing multiple girls a week.  

But now I find it very hard to pump the brakes, but definitely am seeing the need to do exactly that - take a little break from these amazing kgirls. How do you do it? I've never been very good about moderation.

Thanks,

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 120 reads
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2 / 24

in the early days of our hobby careers.  I felt like a total hedonist in the beginning when I was seeing one Kgirl a week, then I became addicted to it and started escalating the numbers.  The third year I spent over six figures on Kgirls, at a time  when the going rate in SoCal was $250 and less in the bay area.  $65,000 was with a single agency who had four legends at the time.  

 
I knew I was out of control, so I put myself on a regular schedule of Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday sessions to limit me to three time a week, and I have managed to keep to that schedule all of these years and have never again gone into the six-figure range for a year.  Maybe you should try a set schedule of one or two days a week to see Kgirls and you will find that it's not all that difficult to keep to it.  To make it work, you should be looking ahead a week or two to see who is coming and going from your area.  Once bookers know you are safe to pre-book and will not cancel once you are booked, they will work with you on giving you a heads-up about who is going to be working a week or two out.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 139 reads
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3 / 24

...you rely on a paycheck.  You wouldn't have to worry about "moderation" if you owned your own business.  Take CDL for example - he's a successful  businessman who has over 60 employees.  He sees K-girls Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday and twice on Sunday.  He doesn't have to worry about "moderation."  He can see K-girls anytime he wants and still have plenty left to see 12-15 "indies" a year.

asianprince 141 Reviews 128 reads
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4 / 24

Just have to control your emotions and stick to a budget.   Perhpas find another hobby/interest to supplement the K girl hobby.  

ickylib 125 reads
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5 / 24

We don't have the stereotypical "KGirls", like how you west coasters enjoy them.  Here in the DC area, we get a bunch of Asians, mainly Thai gals, which thank goodness for them being here, otherwise every provider will be priced out of range of most mongers.  Average pricing = $350-475.  The Korean gals, ~$350-550

The few Korean gals I've seen were fantastic.  Each visit I felt like I was a long lost BF that they missed dearly.  It always leaves me wanting them more and more.  

I can only assume that since nearby Annandale, VA (which is a HUGE Korean community), makes them become extra careful from engaging in this activity, as they are a very close-knit community; aftaid of being discovered and bringing "shame" to their familes.....  I can only guess.

sunnyday1 155 Reviews 134 reads
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6 / 24
sunnyday1 155 Reviews 108 reads
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7 / 24

I'm in NOVA too brother. Send me some of your favorite Thai gals in a PM if you don't mind :)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 112 reads
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8 / 24

flying small airplanes.  That's addictive, too, but costs a lot more than seeing three Kgirls a week.  It would be great to have the TIME to do both, and maybe I will in four years when I retire. I have said many times on this board that, for me, TIME is harder to arrange than the money because I have to give priority to my business until I retire.  

 
If I take up flying again, I will probably move close to a rural airport.  The LA basin has just gotten too dangerous for hobby pilots in small airplanes. The larger airports are less welcoming than they were 25 years ago unless you are attached to a FBO.  The smaller airports are often below the approach and departure paths of the larger airports. It's a jungle out there.  Lol

lopaw 29 Reviews 119 reads
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9 / 24

...and find myself getting bored very quickly with the routine of it all. The only issue is that if I take a break too long I have to start the agonizing process of getting vetted all over again, and for me that can be very challenging. For that reason I try to see a kgirl at least once a month (even if I'm not really feeling it) just to keep my account active.

1234S4321 138 reads
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10 / 24

I'd recommend a few
Scarlet 382940  
Naomi/Lucy 359281
Asian Singha 296689

sunnyday1 155 Reviews 128 reads
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11 / 24
lopaw 29 Reviews 134 reads
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12 / 24
JustLayingLow 106 reads
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13 / 24

You can always make more money, but you can’t make more time. And you never know when your time will be up.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 105 reads
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14 / 24

30 extra minutes vetting a Kgirl to see so that I don't waste 3-4 hours, including the drive time, to go see her only to leave disappointed.  I couldn't agree with you more.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 119 reads
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15 / 24

You feel the hobby interferes with your life in a way you don't want to. Ie, a sign of addiction.

 
From your post it seems you do think it interferes now. How do you stop? Well, depends on the person. If you're a sex addict like myself, will be tough to stop. You can set aside a bankroll and once you're past that don't visit any escorts, cold turkey. You can also only choose to see regulars or conversely, only new pussy.

 
Some demons you gotta face all by yourself. Personally as someone who always binges shit, I go cold turkey. It's excruciating at first but it works for me overall.  

 

A lot of this hobby is instant gratification, so maybe making the appointment more difficult to happen for you, can work. Move somewhere where a kgirl is not at a moments notice but a two or more hour drive. Idk. Something like that.  

 
Good luck!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 139 reads
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17 / 24

tongue-in-cheek because you took some poetic license in adding the " . . . and twice on Sunday."  However, your set-up by accurately reporting the rest made it work.  Lol

mmmmm00 39 Reviews 120 reads
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18 / 24

I used to see 5 kgirls per week at one point. The lack of legend quality girls on the market since covid made me naturally curve that addiction to 1-2 visits per week tops. I've also stopped trying new girls as frequently as I used to before CV shut down. I miss being addicted lol.

icyblu 139 reads
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19 / 24

I got addicted to K-Girls in the Bay Area during COVID. Saved money be not driving into the office, cancelling my gym membership, not eating out, not traveling, etc.  

At my worst, I was seeing K-Girls weekly. No regrets back then, but now I'm a bit shocked looking at all the withdrawals.

Nowadays, I spend more time planning and paying for vacations. Helps moderate my consumption.

sunnyday1 155 Reviews 119 reads
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20 / 24

Yeah, that's good advice. Thank you brother.

sunnyday1 155 Reviews 123 reads
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21 / 24

A vacation... What's that? (I'm in sales)

No but really that is a good idea. Thailand and Vietnam here I come, lol.

Thanks.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 127 reads
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22 / 24

Vacation in Thailand to get away from sex addiction is like a diabetic going to Charlie's Chocolate Factory :D

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 125 reads
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23 / 24

Nothing like a Golden Ticket!!!!

 
YEMV

blue5361 157 Reviews 135 reads
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24 / 24

I’ve been doing it almost 15 years, and I agree it’s addicting! You must be disciplined enough in your business life to create the surplus income to hobby in the first place, so just apply those skills here! Set a budget, plan your sessions out a little in advance (create something to look forward to), increase or decrease frequency depending on cash flow, and always reward yourself with bonus sessions for extraordinary wins! Go crazy in the session, NOT when planning the session!

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