What advice would you give? Some of you have posted some good points in other threads specific to a particular RA. If you could give some helpful advice to the K-Girl community as a whole, what would it be? I’ll kick it off:
- Wear little to no perfume. At least half of your clientele have significant others.
- always greet the client. Doesn’t have to be DFK at the door but a pleasant greeting goes along way toward putting the client at ease (no cold vibes).
- Assist the client in removal and donning of garments. This was discussed. That little bit can garner tips and requires little effort.
- Dry the client after the shower. Might be asking alot but not so much.
- offer a bath vs shower for longer (2hr) visits. Almost like a half assed nuru perk.
- Offer nuru. A few girls offer this but for the investment in. $20 air mattress and $20 nuru mix it could be worth it for the extra revenue in upcharge.
- Offer a package. You get standard for the standard rate or the “Shogun package” (all of the above) for an upcharge.
Some RAs do some of these things but its general things I’d like to see. Anyone else?
1. Get rid of flowery body wash/soap. I don't go overboard with cologne because you (just like a doctor or a CMT) might be sensitive to smells. The flowery body wash not only damn near overpowers my subtle cologne, it is clear I was visiting someone and showering after, because it's not a guy smell.
If it's annoying for me with no SO, I imagine this is crucial for guys who are married or in a relationship.
2. If you wanna massage with oil, please ask first and be prepared to answer if it has a smell. Same concept as the first point.
3. Smiles melt ice. This is a tough one because I value honesty over everything, but if you're not having a good day, I expect for it to not spill over excessively into your professional life. Not asking for fake forced smiles specifically, but I'd expect at least some effort to look like you're not hating your life. This isn't a common concern ofc but it happens occasionally. Not only you feel bad, but I feel bad ghat you feel bad and also feel bad because a session is not great. It's a triple whammy here.
4. Offer something unique what other girls usually don't. It might be easier to say than to do, but nonetheless. The competition can be tough, and doing something unique makes you stand out and differentiate from ton of scripted stuff and routines.
5. [This is my take only] Don't go overboard on makeup and don't run to get fake tits ASAP after your first tour. Some folks like it natural, both makeup and breasts.
I agree with your take on makeup and breast enhancement!
Every once and a while I ask if I could wash the girls face and some looked at me in horror, most were mock horror!
Kinda like, are you crazy LOL! No, just joking!
I must disagree with you on two of these. I had a regular once who prepared a bath for me with a two-hour session. It was a lovely gesture, and I did not have the heart to pass on it after all the work she did with candles, lighting, mood music, etc., so I went ahead with it. The next day I had a fungus on my crotch. I tried several over-the-counter creams and ointments to get rid of it. I finally went to the dermatologist and he said it was a nasty strain of foot fungus that has migrated into jock itch. I had to use a prescription-strength cream to treat it, and the worst thing was that I was benched for two weeks until it cleared up because he said it would be contagious during sex. Anyone who has seen a pair of crud-covered sandals at the front door of an incall belonging to the guy in the other room can imagine how much foot fungus there is in Kgirl incall bathtubs. Never again for me.
I have the same issue with the nuru at high volume places. Do you really want to share an air mattress with a sweaty guy you haven't even met because I don't think the 10-15 minutes between customers is enough time to sterilize a gel-covered air mattress. If you are talking about using a new one with each customer, who is going to blow it up? I want the girl to save her breath to blow ME, not an air mattress. The portable inflators make a lot of racket and the neighbors might wonder if you are trying to cut through the walls into their space. I had nuru once with a Thai girl, and I had to take another shower before we moved onto the sex. The potential sanitation issues were creeping me out. Lol I think for nuru, low-volume indies are the way to go. Just my opinion.
I agree with everything else you say. Fortunately, many of these are already provided routinely by the girls I see. I have married friends who are especially concerned about the perfume issue. A few of my regulars just use a lightly scented lotion, of a spritz, but those can also be detected by suspicious wives. Another friend of mine carries a bar of the same bath soap in his hobby bag that he uses at home. The exit shower will sometimes wash away the smell from the girl and replace it with the same soap scent your SO is used to smelling on you. I would do this if I was married.
I hear you regarding the bath guess I put to much faith in the sanitation of these incalls. On the other hand the nuru option is one I place high on the want list. CDL As you know 9 out of 10 mongers are cheap fucks looking for the most bang for the buck. Nothing wrong with that. Having said that I don’t thing the nuru option would be selected all that often especially with high volume providers. Most fellas are trying to get as many strokes in as 60 mins (give or take) will allow. I could see it in a 60 minute session provided time were properly managed, which in turn disturbs the natural flow for some. A two hour session would best accomodate nuru and again, most fellas aren’t ponying up for that. The fillies down your way may offer some of these additional options but in the bay there are perhaps two or three documented as providing nuru. The other stuff is hit or miss. I suppose I’ll have to train a favorite or two.
Training a regular or two to do things the way YOU like it is always worth the effort, in my experience. I've even "trained" a few civvie girls I was dating from time to time to do things the way my Kgirl regulars do them. Lol
I forgot one of my favorite bits I enjoyed in P.I.: Cosplay or dress up. Only big booty Momo has worn a sexy student outfit in all the K-birds I’ve seen in the bay. Not that I asked for it, its just what she had on. I’d love to strip a hot bodied K-Girl out of a cheongsam or a quipao. The freaky short kimonos would be nice too. It was a hoot to visit KTV (really brothels but you know how it is) bars in Olongapo and Subic where the girls would be dressed according to the theme that night. Nurse, teacher, student, geisha and so on. Some ladies her have a few outfits they’re known for but it seems I visit when its laundry day. I know this is not something most K-girls will shell out hard earned cash for but Im not above buying a fit or two for a couple favorites. Any of you gents bought outfits for K-Girls?
I have not actually bought an outfit for a k-girl.
But I did almost buy one for a great girl that moved before we could pull the trigger. We spent some time looking at outfits together online and she selected the one she liked. It was a sexy Lara Croft outfit. She had such a delightful giggle when she was selecting it.
The net is that I strongly suggest selecting an outfit with your k-girl(s) of choice. I’ve heard from other girls how much they don’t like being surprised with an outfit.
Have fun!
I've bought a couple of outfits for a couple of favorites.
From side tie panties, I like to remove them with my teeth^^, to a cheongsam dress, ever since I saw Nancy Kwan in one,
I've liked them!
Now, don't get carried away, it was for a favorite not me^^!
I would ask about their wardrobe and if something wasn't there, I offered to get something new!
No real involved roll play, just something sexy to peel off^^!
I've also received some refusals, never got into why!
you show up with something and have not gotten permission OR SIZE ahead of time. (Never buy anything that says "one size fits all). These girls put a high value on their appearance and are very particular about sizing. Most Kgirls are size XS and S (some of the more robust girls are M. If they are L, then give their name to rocket or floorhump - lol), and if you bring the wrong size, they will not wear it for fear of looking fat, or that it will be saggy and unflattering. The best bet is to show her a photo of what you want to bring next time and ask her what size she is. In this scenario, most will cooperate, because it means a repeat session from you. Get both the letter size (XS, S, M) and her bra size (most common is 32-34C). You want it to fit right, or it's not going to look as hot as you imagined.
Come now CDL. I thought you would have given me the benefit of the doubt to not be so dense.
I’m not the type to show up to an incall and “pearl harbor” an RA with a non-fitting Sailor Moon outfit, a riding crop, and jar of honey or some other such nonsense. (The honey might be an option though). Im looking at a couple candidates and selecting some items to get their opinion of. Come to think of it Jade or Carangels wore a freaky lace cheongsam-like piece of lingerie when I saw her might be an excellent starting point.
Badger. (Are you in flat mode, or tree mode?) His last comment was that he had some refusals. I was suggesting to him how to reduce the number of refusals to wear something special that HE picks out.
You are not dense at all. Some here are, but I don't think I have to name them. Some truths we hold to be self-evident. Lol
The refusals had nothing to do with me bringing ill-fitting or unfashionable clothes.
I always ask if I want to add anything new to the sessions and I can usually get a good indication of the girls likes or dislikes through our conversation time.
She just wasn't interested at that time, and I didn't push it.
She also wasn't a favorite and I had only seen her a couple of times.
Thanks for the post, good info!
Probably because of same reasons that make you feel like you can make fun of people who have less money than you. Or immigrants.
you would see a 300-pound girl if the service was good. Also, about a week ago, I posted a link to a provider that floorhump saw AND reviewed whose website says she weighs 185 pounds. I'm guessing BOTH of these ladies are at least L, XL, or even XXXXL, so I don't know why you would be surprised that anyone here thinks the two of you like "larger" girls.
Where the fuck did I say anything about liking large girls?
Me saying I'm willing to sacrifice looks if service is great doesn't mean I like large girls, AT ALL
It only means that I love service more than I love looks.
Same goes for floorhump. Just because he's seen a large girl now means he likes large girls? This is not even kindergarten level logic, fuck outta here. So because you went to a doctor means you like going to the doctor? Just because you tasted a Hawaiian pizza once means you like Hawaiian pizza?
So pathetic in how you willingly lie and then have the nerve to accuse me of twisting words.
fuck a 300-lb girl if the service was good. Are you now claiming you would fuck her, but you wouldn't like it? Could you be anymore duplicitous? Funny how you argue shit and then try to walk it back when you get trapped by your own words.
Go ahead and have the last word, it's what you live for.
Yes I specifically said that I'll take service over looks and will fuck a three hundred pound girl if the service is otherworldly.
That doesn't mean I like large girls lke you claim. I like SERVICE in SPITE of them being large.
I never EVER claimed to like large girls. In fact I've stated before that I like them petite and that I like spinners. But service is king.
Same with floorhump. Nowhere did he state that he likes large girls and you claimed he does simply because he's seen one. Stop making shit up just to get a jab off at people you don't like.
LOL at calling me duplicitous when I'm merely trying to get you to stop saying shit I've never said.
Yes I like my last word. Just as much as you do.
Just kidding…
How about including fake orgasms in the normal rate, but making a real orgasm an upcharge. It will make it easer to write an honest review about whether she O'd or not. If you paid the upcharge, then you know for sure. Lol
In general I've not seen overly made up K-Girls, strong perfumes or scented soap from K-girls in quite some time but agree that it can be a problem for some (not a concern for me). Just mention that when you make your appointment -- particularly scent related aspects. (Though to be honest showing up smelling freshly showered is just as problematic in a lot of cases too.)
I agree with the undressing/dressing and the drying post shower (one here actually combines a BJ with the initial showed drying).
The standard/extra structure used to be the norm here -- under the GFE and GFE+ label. Basically + was CIM for the premium price. Seemed to have worked pretty well but does seem to have dropped (though some of the established Agencies previously offering it that I don't visit no long list rates so might still be in place). Seems like now most just have rates based on length of time or don't list anything but the standard rate. Also seems like that is what is present on the west coast as well in many places but no making people too happy there.
I also agree that the greetings and farewells are help set the stage and conclude the session in a more professional and refined manner -- and for the most part that was well done previously but in the COVID days has disappeared from many routines.
Did anyone else find it a bit ironic/humorous that the suggested advice is to K-Girls but two of the items are more Japanese, at least in terminology? But, much of the advice is largely generally applicable and nuru offered by a lot of non-Japanese providers (even if they don't actually use the nuru gel! Maybe should have scare quoted the word.)
bathrobe and house slippers when saying goodbye after the hour is up. Kinda remind me of Ozzie & Harriet tv show when Ozzie goes off to the office.
By the time you are leaving, she already has your money. When you arrive, she doesn't. It makes perfect sense for her to look hot when you get there and like a housewife when you leave. LOL
A repeat visit...only know one who gets into the bathrobe and house slippers. Now when its EJ and Cari, they both have you zip up their dress just before leaving.
I think they are going for comfort and I'm good with that.
I guess they don't have another appointment that soon and want to relax.
Besides they are almost always naked underneath the robe, so IMO, they are still accessible ^^!
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When they wear a smile and heels ^^!
lipstick and heels. She won't be able to smile with my dick in her mouth. Lol
Don’t have an overflowing trash can with the mouthwash cups.
The real great service girls will also put a new dry towel on the floor outside the shower so it’s not all wet from the sessions before you.
I know they are seeing multiple dudes a day, but doing these little things at least give the illusion that you’re the only one.
change the towel on the floor after each customer, in my experience. That's why during your session, you hear the hum of the washer and dryer going in the background. The girls have to wash the towels they use each day. I have actually found the wet floor mats to be more of a problem seeing indies in hotel incall setups than Kgirls working from their 2-bdrm apartments. The indies seem to rotate the towels to get double duty. The towel the last guy used to dry his body becomes the damp floor mat for the next guy. The dyslexic ones might rotate the other direction. Lol
Blow your nose instead of your dick?
HER nose runs and her feet smell.