So, earlier this year and part of last year was a total kgirl drought in NOVA. It has gotten better - new agencies came into town to fill the gaps and with them new girls. And with so many quality options, it is hard to decide and also hard on the wallet for a lot of guys!!! (I am very, very fortunate that I have the $$$ to monger fairly frequently/weekly if I choose, but I know in my discussions with others and seeing the posts on the forums, a lot of guys aren't as lucky) For instance there are currently 2 can't-miss girls in NOVA, and one is basically impossible to book, and a handful of other solid options..

This leads me to my question - if this is the situation in NOVA, where the few choices we have are leading to paralysis by analysis and also absolute wallet draining (lol), HOW THE HELL DO WEST COAST/LOS ANGELES MONGERS DO IT?!?!?!

I mean, I have 2 dates lined up in a week, I'm usually a once a week guy, but like I said both girls are can't-miss. So, if it's like this in NOVA, with maybe 10 girls in town total, how the FUCK do LA guys decide which girls to see with literally DOZENS AND DOZENS of options? This is to say nothing of the $$$ impact.

West coast guys, shed some light on this. How do you choose, and how do you balance, I would seriously go completely broke if I lived in LA and had literally dozens of Kgirls to choose from at any one time. And even if I had $$$ to monger 3-4x a week, there's just so many girls, it's crazy!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, go!

Your bro,

Sunny

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I’m new to the LA and yeah you’re right there is so many options here. I was recently in the Bay Area (NorCal) and there’s good options there but no where near as many as LA. Bay was easy since on another forum it’s very active with people pointing out rebrands and fake photo and lots of reviews. Since I been down in LA just trying to look at a lot of forums see which one has the most data and reading a bunch of reviews. Too many to read and so many different opinions. One thing of LA is the traffic and how far some of the RA are so I can’t  just take a break in the middle of work for a visit like I did in Bay ( mostly visited San Jose RA which are majority 10 mins apart from each other). Now just deciding which orgs  to verify with and location is a factor too. But mostly self control and if you get a bad session helps me hold back on going every week like I did in the Bay. Oh and stocks takin a massive dump lol

Either way, many mongers see new girls as soon as they touch down, there's definitely some thirsty guys who wont wait for reviews and just schedule asap.

I know some mongers who see like every new girl as long as she fits their general preferences.

 
You also need to remember places like LA and bay have a ton of rebrands, so few girls who are marketed as new, really are old news. These are generally designed to reel in unsuspecting newbies and not the guys who are "VIP", but that's another topic (as I will inevitably get heated over it)

Just wanted to add on here. Many people have fear of missing out regarding many things considered consumer goods, not necessarily just working girls. Movies, games, music, events, etc.

 
With kgirls its obvious because some stay a limited time.  

But imo what FOMO creates is the need to be on top for things that are new, even if quality is unverified or not stellar. It creates rash economic and personal decisions, all because people want to be in the loop. Now, if a kgirl does leave and never comes back then yeah you will miss out on her, not exactly the same as watching a movie everyone besides you saw, five years after it came out.  

 
Still, I think avoiding FOMO is the way to go for most people. You shouldn't fear missing out, and should rather think of opportunity cost.  

All my opinion, of course

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When I first got started in the Bay Area, I felt overwhelmed with all of options around me. As a transplant, I found prices in the Bay Area to be relatively affordable compared to the rest of the nation. I used the more-affordable price point as an excuse to see a bunch of providers within a span of 6 months. Got bored.  

After a while, I realized that most K-Girls had an identical routine, regardless of their looks and performance ratings. Too much of a good thing will sap away pleasure in my opinion.  

Nowadays, I do a lot more research and read reviews prior to booking an appointment. No longer am I enticed by pictures and sudden urges. Being more selective has been better for my bank account and thrill is there again.

Currently, we are spoiled in the DMV.  I have the same dilemma LOL!  

and hopefully that is where we're heading again.

 
That said there is the old joke about the old bull and the young bull that might be helpful for you --though not a perfect analogy.  Seeing the herd of cows the young bull suggests to the old bull they "run down there and fuck a cow or two". The old bull shakes his head and says, "Why don't we *walk* down there and fuck them all."

 
The point being you don't need to fuck them all right now. Expect to seem the ladies return so you can proceed at the pace that is most comfortable and convenient for you without missing out on anything.

I’m fortunate to be able to hobby once a week where many of my regulars are now between 300-350.  Yes, we have ton of talents here in LA and OC but I only see my 9-10 regulars and haven’t added any new kgirl since the start of Covid.  Life is good here!

"The early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese."   Lol

I fully understand being bored with routine. This is something lopaw also touched on before on neighboring forums.

 
However, Ive found that with good service girls, I don't get bored. They are open to changing routine for you, they don't have gps and many go all out.

As opposed to f/b girls who don't bother to gone their skills and they're a boring fuck. Sure they're eye candy, but while it still possible for me to bag some similar looking girls and while I still look like I'm in my 20s.. give me a girl who makes my genitals happy, not my eyes  

 
Also, I'd say with some girls who appear bored and gps-y, worth trying to change their routine yourself. Chances are low, but Ive had it happen when a girl would get interested in what I was doing because it was unconventional and different. And fun to both of us.

the girls I see from a little different perspective than most.  Because I'm still working about 20-25 hours a week, scheduling has always been more important than money, so the new girls I see are often ones that were not my first choice, but rather ones who were available at the time I need when I called to book.  This has included a lot of new girls that are TOFTT sessions.  Most of the reviews I have where I'm the SECOND reviewer are girls that had NO reviews when I saw them, but someone else got their review up before mine.  That's why I'm always correcting any profile inaccuracies in the first paragraph of my reviews.  I started from day one seeing two new girls a week, but with Covid issues of 2020 and fewer greats coming here recently, I will often see only one per week.  

 
I balance this with two sessions a week with regulars, which are most often two hours each.  I will generally have three regulars rotating at a time that have their periods at different times of the month so I still have two a week available.  If I don't have two, then I will see more new girls those weeks.  I have found by balancing regulars with new girls, I can take more risks with new girls with no reviews or girls with mediocre reviews and its not going to ruin my week if they are a dud.  I have often been able to find diamonds in the rough among second tier girls who seem to respond well to me, but not to some of their other customers.  Some go on to become regulars, but generally, my regulars tend to be top tier girls, with many becoming legends. Some names of legends and top tier girls who were my regulars in the past (some for months, some for years) from the past that you might recognize . . . . . .Viet Nicki, Naomi, Viet Violet, Aya, Sugar (later Bobo), Ivy, Yen, Hiroko, Viet Remi, Brie, Snow, Dia,  Viet Tien.  Most of these have average review scores of 8.5 and higher, but sadly, all retired now.  I have purposely not included any that are still working.  

 
As you might surmise, I have a weakness for Viet girls.  Anytime one is working in SoCal, I will see her, and most are above average and will end up as a regular for as long as they are here. There is voodoo in Viet pussy.  If you get a chance to see one, do it.  You'll thank me later.

Real quick Rocket, IMO, there really isn't any missing out.
There is always another Kgirl that will be showing up to pique your interest!
And when a Kgirl moves on, there's good chance that she will come around again!
Even at 2 or 3 times a week, it's hard to get through a TDL without drop off's and add on's!
Just my perspective.

I mean I think I agree with you more than I don't.

But the fear of missing out is real tho. I know quite a few mongers who want to sample a girl before she goes onto next tour if feedback is good.  

 
Especially those who can only afford a few a month. Sometimes it's a dilemma for them of who to choose from.  

 
Then there are those who see every new girl who comes by, almost literally. Obviously they just sample everything.

Happy Friday to you Sunny bro and all my monger brothers!

 
There are at least three RAs relatively new to BA that I’d like to session with but kun Gumiho (Halmeoni) wants all my disposable income; as long as the bbbjtcimws keeps on, hard to break the chains…

 
Beware the Gumiho!!!

I will usually see 5-6 new girls and hope to key on 1 or 2. I will see those 2 for several weeks and then rinse and repeat. Everytime I think I missed out on a hot one because she's gone, 2-3 new will come and pique my interest and the one that got away always seems to come back.

I agree there is a FOMO, it's just that I don't let it bother me.
I always like to look at what I have, not what I don't have.