The guys wandering outside with phones out either pacing or crowding the door is not new. That's been going on for 15 years at this point, maybe more. A lot of it is obvious because of how they dress and style their hair as well. They don't look like they have any business being where they are. You can be older and still blend. If your fashion makes sense I can picture someone living or visiting someone in a Koreatown building because of how they act even if they're in their 60s. But if you've got the 1998 hair style, a Hawaiian shirt with khaki shorts or wearing dad shoes, and it looks like they grabbed you straight out of the Laguna Niguel Costco parking lot and plopped you in LA, then yeah, I mean it's painful to see.
As for the messing up the provider opening the door, that's both the booker but that's also the community's fault. We have somehow started to be ok with fake photos. People are giving out 9s for fake photos and I think that's a mistake. Fake photos need to be punished. In all of my reviews I will hammer fake pics if it happens and call it out specifically in the summary. The eye blurring they did a long time ago was ok with me. Fake pics are not. So you can't really blame guys for taking who answers the door in this case. It's getting better, as a handful of us really push back on the photos.
As a customer, it's not my job to handle logistics or make sure the person who greets me is the same person I booked. I'm paying for a friction-free transaction. Sounds like you need to take it up with the bookers. I'm not going to stand in the foyer hashing it out with a provider just so you can avoid friction with the booker. That's something you need to man up and handle as a paying customer. If she's close to the photos I'm going. Not going to sit there and play detective and back and forth in the unit with the booker on text trying to figure it out.
If I'm at a place and I see door crowding or I see someone being frantic, I just text the booker and tell them to wait a minute, that someone is wandering around and seems out of place. Then I just hang out down the block and wait a minute or so. If it's inside the building I'll just go rest on a balcony railing or something and wait for whoever to figure it out. Nothing about how I move around is hasty or unsure. I'm at the place like I belong there, which I do, because I'm paying to be there. If anyone doesn't like that, they can actually kiss my ass, and you can tell them I said so.
This has happened a few times, some impatient moron jumps the gun or on a first time meet doesn't ask the kgirls name after they come through the door.
With Psing, borrowed pics or Booker/Bookers not coordinating the move in for the sessions, they just go with the Kgirl who opens the door, really lame dudes.
I call them dudes, should be duds, that's as nice as I will get! All MO, they don't even qualify as hobbyists, which IMO is also lame, let alone as a Monger.
They pull some fucked up shit, rushing the door in the building entrance, even the incall apt and lurking outside and inside the building with phones out, not waiting in the car for the go ahead.
And that's just a couple of violations.
My deal was, I go through the door, and I see she is not who I am expecting, but she was really nice looking^^! I tell her who I am seeing and it's her roommate. So, she knocks on her door, she's with the guy who jumped the gun or didn't ask the Kgirl when she let him in. So, now the guy is going to the other room naked and carrying whatever he had hastily grabbed up, fucking embarrassing IMO, maybe that will be a learning experience for him.
This subject, uncool moves by customers not knowing how to act, was talked about on another site and the next time at a session I run into one of these guys.
in any case I would report them to the agency, and let them know you're reconsidering using their service unless they do something about it. Also, emphasize their lurking can draw unwanted public attention.
"Emphasize their lurking can draw unwanted public attention"? Dude. I don't even know what to say. I guess I'll start with saying "no shit" but how exactly are you going to "report" someone to an agency? How do you know which agency that client went through? The providers use multiple agencies at the same time these days. It's not like before when a provider went through one agency in the city. So your calling up and threatening to cut business unless they "do something about" some guys crowding the door with the phones out is a great way for a booker to just determine you're too much of a hassle to deal with.
This is what happens when people who have very little experience with any crime get into something like this. They've not gone and bought drugs anywhere before, so they don't know how to play it cool or act natural when they're doing something they shouldn't be doing. They have little experience going to incalls (or even receiving outcall visitors) and this is the result. It's not guys who are drunk or high, it's old guys who have never done something like this and they're terrified because deep down they feel they're not supposed to be there. Lots of these guys are really insecure and really lonely. So they're very fragile and they don't have any sense of calm or confidence. They're chaotic. That's the nature of the business.
Instead of complaining about random guys clogging the door, why don't you slam fake pictures in reviews? That would be more helpful in regard to the "I got the wrong provider thing." Not saying you specifically, but people need to stop giving out high scores on appearance if pics are fake.
how it goes when you lecture one of the naked guys you run across. I'm sure their feelings will be really hurt when they learn they don't qualify as a hobbyist or even a monger.
I wouldn't waste my time, the sooner they get out of the way, the better!
with Newbies in these situations. As you suggest, it's easy to see who they are by their actions and nervous behavior. I liked getting on the elevator with them as they shoved past me, and when the elevator door closes, I will say something like, "You seem in a real hurry, which girl are you seeing today." They usually become the deer in the headlights and mumble about not knowing what I'm talking about. But the coup-de-grace is when they get off on the same floor as me, looking flustered and confused. I know they are not going to the same place I am, so that leaves the only other incall on that floor, so then I will say, "Go down this hallway, turn right and it's the third door on the left." They hesitate until I'm out of sight because they don't know if it's safe or not. Any of these guys that are reading this now know they met CDL in person. LOL
I must say I've never had that problem myself. Knock on wood I suppose.
Putting aside the other stupid behavior, some of which I've seen, I would say getting the clients confused is really on the bookers, or perhaps the girls jumping in front of the other to get business if they thought they were not getting an appointment. My experience is that the bookers in DMV have always been really good about keeping the clients spaced on entry so asking the name of who you are seeing is not something I've really ever given much though about -- other than in the way of introductions when I enter. Similarly, in all the location I've been where two girls are sharing the apartment there has been a nice screen blocking the living room area. I would hope that IF I ever had that happen they would walking me behind the screen so I didn't have experience seeing that other customer, and likewise for him.
The guys wandering outside with phones out either pacing or crowding the door is not new. That's been going on for 15 years at this point, maybe more. A lot of it is obvious because of how they dress and style their hair as well. They don't look like they have any business being where they are. You can be older and still blend. If your fashion makes sense I can picture someone living or visiting someone in a Koreatown building because of how they act even if they're in their 60s. But if you've got the 1998 hair style, a Hawaiian shirt with khaki shorts or wearing dad shoes, and it looks like they grabbed you straight out of the Laguna Niguel Costco parking lot and plopped you in LA, then yeah, I mean it's painful to see.
As for the messing up the provider opening the door, that's both the booker but that's also the community's fault. We have somehow started to be ok with fake photos. People are giving out 9s for fake photos and I think that's a mistake. Fake photos need to be punished. In all of my reviews I will hammer fake pics if it happens and call it out specifically in the summary. The eye blurring they did a long time ago was ok with me. Fake pics are not. So you can't really blame guys for taking who answers the door in this case. It's getting better, as a handful of us really push back on the photos.
As a customer, it's not my job to handle logistics or make sure the person who greets me is the same person I booked. I'm paying for a friction-free transaction. Sounds like you need to take it up with the bookers. I'm not going to stand in the foyer hashing it out with a provider just so you can avoid friction with the booker. That's something you need to man up and handle as a paying customer. If she's close to the photos I'm going. Not going to sit there and play detective and back and forth in the unit with the booker on text trying to figure it out.
If I'm at a place and I see door crowding or I see someone being frantic, I just text the booker and tell them to wait a minute, that someone is wandering around and seems out of place. Then I just hang out down the block and wait a minute or so. If it's inside the building I'll just go rest on a balcony railing or something and wait for whoever to figure it out. Nothing about how I move around is hasty or unsure. I'm at the place like I belong there, which I do, because I'm paying to be there. If anyone doesn't like that, they can actually kiss my ass, and you can tell them I said so.