I heard of these pros & cons. you may see more. Pros -- It's important to gain the booker's trust to show your review credentials, and your support for the girls. Cons -- It may give you a subconscious pressure to write only good reviews. If you write a nasty review, the booker may never answer your call again.
Granted I do not live in LA where it seems more prevalent but in the SF Area it does not matter much, Stating that a couple of girls know my forum handle as they read their reviews and recognize me.
Stating that, you give a girl a 7 or below, you might get blacklisted but, I have only met one girl below 8 for service but the repeat visits have been outstanding 9's
The girls comfort level with you is key to not only the quality of service you get but the enthusiasm she provides.
i gave my old one, it helped me get in their network with all the reviews I had. When I re-joined I kept it private. It's really not a safety issue, but the bookers may follow your ratings.
complete anonymity. There is not a Kgirl or a booker anywhere than can match CDL up with a face or a real ID. For me, its partly another layer of protection from LE. One of the reasons the Seattle guys could be prosecuted is that LE was able to match guys with their website handle that were in the meeting that was raided.
The main reason is I get to write honest reviews and call them like I see them without any fear of blowback from a girl or her booker. Only two highly trusted hobby bro's know the connection between my handle and my real name, but never a girl or her booker. As you say, there's tremendous pressure to write only good reviews when the booker knows your handle. If I can't get approved with a new booker some other way without revealing my handle, I will pass and move on.
the girls/bookers/owners are pretty sneaky devils. they pretty much figure the TER handle to face. its the posting and reviews they read it and what you blab to the girls and it goes back to the booker and owners and they seem to figure it out.
when i was dating my exs i head over to pick her up after work sometimes and she and her roommates would be having midnight snack and gossip about the guys etc and look at TER at the computer at the posting and such sometimes i had to translate and they go oh thats him etc. or when we be at one owners house sometimes they talk about some dude on TER etc.
absolutely certain of whence I speak. That is why I make the review about the girl and not about me. No way to ID me from a review. Whenever I am asked for a review by a girl or her booker, I say I don't do them because I am too busy. When asked if I have extra time, would they rather I come and see them or go write a review, guess what they say? That's my story and it has served me well in my anonymity.
perspective from having dated more Kgirls than me. I will continue to be careful. I consider myself a little jaded sometimes, but I do get surprised sometimes about the sneakiness, but they're still not going to know who CDL is. My screen persona is completely different than the sweetheart they see in person. Lol
If a booker reads my reviews and knows what kind of provider and experience I'm looking for, that's fine with me. Nor do I feel pressure to write favorable reviews. I am fully aware that unfavorable reviews impact a provider's business (and hence the booker's), but if the provider isn't doing a good job the booker should know about it and replace the provider. I have written unfavorable reviews and in only one case has a booker gotten pissed about it (and that wasn't even an unfavorable review, it was a 7/6). In that case the booker said I was no longer welcome at that agency, that's fine because I don't want to go there again anyway.
OTOH I have written frank reviews of less-than-stellar providers, and some bookers have worked with me to resolve problems. Surprising how I have later had some wonderful experiences at those agencies. As in other businesses, good customer relations pay off. Steer clear of agencies whose attitude is, if there's a problem it's your problem.
I've always thought it best to discuss issues privately with the booker first rather than open the discussion in a public forum. The will provide the better client-booker relationship I suspect.
I'm too concerned about the booker knowing my TER handle nor do I feel it puts any additional pressure on to give good reviews regardless of the actual performance or looks. That said, I'm not at all sure if they know it or not at this point -- been a while since I've needed to screen with one.
It would be easy enough to leave nasty review under a different handle -- but I have never wanted to. Specific negatives I will write in a review (sometimes TER rejects those, and I don't push). Nastiness gives me no satisfaction.
I usually avoid girls who are reviewed as "nasty", even when the reviewer seems to mean it positively. Not My Kink, Enjoy Yours
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