Man, where I live, I wish I could be with a K-girl that often. Unfortunately, they are few and far between, so I have to take my shots when I can. Had my first about a year ago after 60+ years on the planet, and honestly don't think I want to have sex with any other race/ethnicity from here on out. I know it sounds a little crazy, but the heart wants what the heart wants...
Is visiting the same girl over and over again crazy? How about you guys? Done the same? I used to visit different girls all the time. I know spending stupid amount of money on a girl is not going to make any difference on how they treat you. So that is not why I returned to the same girl. I think she fits my fantasy.
lol. So how do I ask her out on a date then
Is her English good?
You may have to get proficient at Google Translate. I have a Chinese ATF with whom I'm sharing a quasi-relationship with via that. It can sure make for some funny translations.
You should expect to pay a commensurate rate for her time.
her english is very good. paying, i get it. its still her time. so its more of an outcall then
Is too much for me! Would I eat my favorite meal five days in a row? No. First, you’re lucky you are young enough to go five days in a row! Every other day is pushing it for me, and every third day is comfortable! I think absence makes the heart grow fonder and the dick get harder! When I find a fav, seeing her once a week seems to maximize my desire and excitement! Finally, my budget allows for twice a week some weeks but mostly once a week! I would lose my focus on too many other things if I were trying to plan a session five days in a row!
this is first time for me that is for sure. its almost like an addiction.
and, not trading your retirement for the poor house, see her twice a day 5 days a week if you want. Sometimes you just click with them and sessions are great.
true, i am just wondering if people have similar experience like this. its out of my normal routine.
Certainly not to the extent you have, but yes, I have become attached/very attracted to a few providers over the years and saw them repeatedly -- sometimes nearly exclusively for me (as in no other providers that were in the area at the same time) but that is a dangerous field to be in. It's great if a) you keep level headed and accept it's the act and show and not the true person you're attracted to or b) both of you have similar thoughts and you are in agreement on just what the relationship is.
Don't hear the siren song and fall for it, more than a few here in the past have admitted to that error and sought advice on how to deal with the situation (which could take a lot of forms and result both emotional and financial, or both, pain).
They're always affectionate, come when called, and cheaper to maintain.
hahaha, i do and a fam
You need to be very careful here. This is some dangerous territory simping over an escort. Not just KGirl, anyone working in the sex industry.
She's already got you pegged as a guy who likes her. Her job is to make you keep liking her and want her. Because that makes her money. There is a very good chance you are now a mark to get as much money out of you for as long as possible. You need to be very careful and wary.
If all she is to you is fun sex you may get bored of, then good. You are safe.
If you are wanting to date her, you need to quickly establish your boundaries. Not hers, yours. Be clear on what you want. If you want her out of the sex gig, she will want money for it. You need to make sure she is not just using you for money and is getting out of the business. That means getting her a place away from the scene. Getting her a different number so she can't be in contact with any of the bookers.
I would really think this through on what you want. If you are just having fun be ready to walk away at anytime. If you keep simping you are going to be taken advantage of. And if you are simping hard, you are signing up to take care of her financially. She isn't gonna get another job.
I appreciate the perspective here. I’m realizing that while I see her as a person—not an object—I can’t let my empathy (or the great sex) cloud my judgment. Whether she’s really working for tuition or it’s just the "story," I respect the hustle to secure a future. This work doesn't make her "dirty," but it also doesn't mean I should be her savior.
I’ve realized I was treating her like a puzzle to solve. I’ve been divorced once and I’m not doing it again for a touring "unknown." I’ll keep things casual and try to limited until she’s back in Korea.
You can fuck the most beautiful girl on the planet for 20 days in a row, and it will lose its luster! Thats why guys are divorcing beautiful women every day! Rotate between three hotties weekly for a year, and you will probably be perfectly satisfied!
And I thought my beautiful wife was just crazy! HA!
Slight tangent : I'm surprised you didn't get flamed for saying "crazy" as it might pertain to being mentally unhealthy. Lol..
Anyway. If you find someone or something to enjoy, why not? If your schedule and finances allow it, and your taste has also converged on that someone or something, why not binge it.
Now, there could be a few things happening as a consequences (girl liking you, or getting too comfy with you knowing you like her) but at the end of the day we do this hobby for fun and pleasure, so I don't see why not.
Getting too comfy maybe, liking haha I don’t know about that. For my ego, sure!
Slight tangent : I'm surprised you didn't get flamed for saying "crazy" as it might pertain to being mentally unhealthy. Lol..
Anyway. If you find someone or something to enjoy, why not? If your schedule and finances allow it, and your taste has also converged on that someone or something, why not binge it.
Now, there could be a few things happening as a consequences (girl liking you, or getting too comfy with you knowing you like her) but at the end of the day we do this hobby for fun and pleasure, so I don't see why not.
Hmm. im getting a sex change!! for the $ you're spending its worth it!
I booked a two-hour session this past weekend, but we only actually bang once. We spent the rest of the time just talking, which makes me feel like I wasted my money. In the past, we've had multiple MSOGs in just an hour, so I’m not sure why the energy was so off this time.
You’re really getting into your own head there and overthinking it. The energy was off because you want to tell her you’re into her but you’re hesitant. Just book another session and fuck her lights out.
like you wasted your money, then IMO, you don't really like her that much!
Or maybe she's tired of you after 60 minuets.
we chatted then fucked.
could be just the internal struggle. no way i can ditching my current life to even attempt anything with her. i m very clear with that in my bigger head, the other one maybe acting up lol.
like you wasted your money, then IMO, you don't really like her that much!
Or maybe she's tired of you after 60 minuets.
Well, you are the one who paid so if you wanted to fuck her a lot of times, not sure what stopped you.
Kgirls are all different. A select few are super aggressive with sex stuff but most will just go along with what you want, especially if you steer them.
They can get comfy once they know you're coming back and they got you hooked. I alluded to this before. Basically many don't put in the effort they have put in the first time they saw you.
But if you haven't expressed to her you wanted to fuck several times...its not like she can read minds.
I've had a session similar to yours, but for me the difference was I wanted to talk to the girl more than bang her. We still banged but it was def more of a talk and cuddle and be stupid goofball type of session. But again, I actually wanted that (and it's very rare I just want to do that, I'm a sex аddict) and she wanted that too.
Instead of staying an hour I paid for I stayed many and I guess you can say off the clock. And sex for once was not on top of my priorities for that session.
Either way, as long as you're paying, taking control of the session with a girl you've seen 5+ times and moving it into direction YOU wish is on you. There are some exceptions where girls won't budge off their routine or are super aggressive/passive, but on average they will go along.
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Recently saw the same girl 3 weeks in a row, once per week. I had met her last year, and we really clicked this year.
No regrets, and I disagree with your statement that repeating doesn't "make any difference on how they treat you". They (and you) get more comfortable, you start to learn each other's preferences and styles. My last romp with this girl was intimate and spectacular.
are seeing a girl 5 days in a row, why should she go out with you rather than seek a sixth day? Which of the five girls you have reviewed are you seeing this often? Just want to make sure I don't book her. I don't getting to the incall only to find she is very tired. Lol
Haha, yea of course. Also, I am not looking for a free date anyways. They are here to make money. I doubt they get tired from me. I am a gentle soul LOLs. I dont pound on them or make them do crazy stuffs off menu. I am pretty new to the board and got lots of things to learn from you.
are seeing a girl 5 days in a row, why should she go out with you rather than seek a sixth day? Which of the five girls you have reviewed are you seeing this often? Just want to make sure I don't book her. I don't getting to the incall only to find she is very tired. Lol
They can get comfortable with you and start dropping their commitment to their service (broadly defined). Whether that is what the "talked a lot then one pop in two hours" was about or a case where you kept the focus on communications and chat and then as time was running out she moved you on to the sex I don't know.
I'm sure she'll be just fine with him and the five other guys before you. HA!
Man, where I live, I wish I could be with a K-girl that often. Unfortunately, they are few and far between, so I have to take my shots when I can. Had my first about a year ago after 60+ years on the planet, and honestly don't think I want to have sex with any other race/ethnicity from here on out. I know it sounds a little crazy, but the heart wants what the heart wants...
than a Kgirl is a Vietnamese girl, but they have voodoo in their pussy and will put you under their spell. You won't be able to get enough.
a thai girl, probably 19 or 20, new to the business, absolutely gorgeous; back when I first got into the hobby; I must have seen her 5 or 6 times. It got better every time, for both of us. She got much more responsive and genuinely happy to see me. I got upset that she was with other guys when I wasnt around; I was worried they might treat her badly. lol
Since then I saw two different Russian girls and one American multiple times. No regrets. All better the second time.
Last month I double dipped this Cgirl who I had an amazing first visit with. She ended the first visit saying "I love you; come back and see me again". I thought "bullshit, but ok"... The second visit I regret spending the money, not due to lack of anything on her part, but in retrospect I would have rather just had the first memory. I may be at the point where its the novelty that does it for me now. I hope not. (Also she just had lunch and all I could taste was soy sauce when we kissed. (Nothing against soy, but I just prefer my girls to not be pre-seasoned))
So yeah; it all depends on the girl. If you can get past her provider mask and have a genuine connection with her, or even just a really good time, then its money well spent.
We became friends. We walked my bichon together and others. Pretty surreal.
Faaawwk...
I never even saw any GF's in the past for more than 3-4 days in a row....
Heck....
Even wifey right now is a rarity..... in the same house.... LOL
You're hooked, as in "on crack"......... insert any type of major drug.......
It sounds like she will only be in his area for a limited time so he's making the most of it. He's not going to be a "Deadhead," following her around from city to city.
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