Hey guys. Wondering if anyone has experienced being blocked from seeing a provider, but not the agency, due to their size? I'm dead average in terms of length and girth. Maybe just a tad  rock hard at times lol.

I've actually heard of this happening in another city w/ a girl who actually blocked me but never figured out the reason so I'm telling myself that was the reason LOL

Part of the reason why being well-endowed imo is both a gift and a curse when it comes to many Asian women.

 
Usually it happens with girls who are good looks-wise and can get a steady stream of clients. If they feel you're stretching them out they'll tell the booker to block them from seeing them. It's not that common, but also not that rare for "big" guys. And obviously girth matters.

 
I'm dead average so even if sometimes a smaller/newer girl had issue with my size, I never had this (BL) happen.

wants to think when getting blocked by a Kgirl, i.e., that he had a big dick.  In most cases, it turns out to be that he WAS a big dick.  Lol   (Not suggesting that was your case, because I know you well).  

 
But since you  mentioned it, I have known several girls that will block guys who are large.  Most of the top tier girls will just tell them its oral only today, but second tier girls are worried about bad reviews, so they will just go ahead with it, even though they know they are probably  going to be out of the action the rest of the day and maybe even tomorrow as a result.  

It's very possible that she thinks you are using/abusing the little blue pill.  

 
As far as guys who are truly "big" yes they get blocked all the time from girls who are on the smaller size "down there" and who don't want to have to suffer through the rest of the day after getting their little coochie stretched out by a guy with a giant "lizard dick" lol I know several girls who have admitted to doing so.

I’ve never been blocked - that I know of. But I am very careful about it in a lot of ways.  

 
Back when I was seeing a lot of new-to-me kgirls I learned all the tells of a girl who couldn’t handle a high energy magnum. When I saw a girl that played dodge the pickle I was very gentle with her. But I’d never repeat.  

 
So, yeah, it’s possible that a girl who I only saw once may have blocked me. But I have no way of knowing that. Since I never tried to book a follow up session with her.  

 
The few guys I stayed in touch with who were also magnums had their own methods for making sure that magnum-shy girls were comfortable with them. None of us were ever aware of a girl blocking us due to our size.  

 
I have heard of guys getting blocked who were using viagra and also thought it was cool to give a girl a “pounding” (a practice that I consider abusive unless the girl is very clearly encouraging it). But claiming that they were blocked because of size is, I think, more ego on the monger’s side than the most likely explanation. Still, just my opinion.

that a smaller size, but "rock hard" if even more uncomfortable for them than a magnum customer.  They say its like having someone stabbing their pussy with a pencil.  Ouch!!   This can also get you a BL if the girl was injured as a result.  Don't take it personally, they might like you, but they don't like your dick, and that's how they make their money.

A member wrote a recent review of one of my fav and he was asked to leave while they were already naked and in the shower.  Guess his cock just kept growing and she felt uncomfy about his size.  He did give a "2", should have stayed home.

I've never been blocked because of my size.  

HOWEVER , I have shown up for an appt only to have it cancelled due to a size issue. Which honestly?  - Is totally fine. I saved myself from what was very likely a 'bad session'. I leave grateful that I didn't waste my time and money. After years in this hobby I know to call the whole thing off rather than try to make it work and ultimately leave disappointed and unsatisfied.  

I wrote a whole post specifically listing and rating the best providers for magnum hobbyists from my experience. I made sure not list anyone who I had a bad session with due to size. No need to call anyone out.  Just the best experiences so far. It was removed due to the schilling rule. (which I forgot about).  

If you're a magnum and you're nice you won't get blocked. If you're on the big side and you're not cool you'll most definitely get BL.  

It's not size, it's behavior.  

I know one monger who apparently is a bit of a super magnum.  

 
He has found that vaginal coitus just can’t always be his goal. Yeah, sometimes it sucks being a magnum. But he claims to be pretty happy with other ways of getting off.  

 
And, as far as I know, even he has never been blocked for his size. Just goes to show I guess that it really isn’t about the size.

Just the other week I was denied service by Baby at Dream Asian in NJ.    She tried and was nice about it.    But I was “too big”.   Not the first time it has happened to me over the years from pro’s and personal relationships too.  

If you wouldn’t mind, could you please DM me your list? If you’re not comfortable with doing so, that’s cool, too.

she didn't offer hj/bj? just told you to leave?

To big for BJ.   This was all post shower.   So I did a 30min HJ session.    Not why I wanted to see her or very satisfying at all.  

When I first got started with kgirls, this happened sometimes to me, too.

 
I found that it was just part of the risk involved with being a magnum and selecting girls to see for the first time like everyone else does. If I wanted to see a girl just because I heard she was pretty, or a perfect body type or anything not directly or indirectly related to her willingness and ability to handle a magnum I had to walk in knowing that it was a possibility that coitus might be a challenge or even impossible. If I wasn’t OK with that, I just wouldn’t see the girl. Though I always have a list of potential fallbacks for later that day or at least the next day so I don’t have to feel frustrated if it doesn’t work out.

 
I decided to do two things.  

  1. Get as good as I possibly could at bringing a girl to orgasm before I even tried for insertion.
  2. Start finding indicators that a girl might be magnum friendly even if no known magnum has seen her.

 
#1 is a journey. Each girl is different. But each time you figure out how to do it with a different girl it just gets better and better.

 
But here’s what I found. Once a girl has had a rocking, genuine orgasm everything changes. First, and most importantly, her vagina becomes a lot more flexible and a lot more naturally lubricated. Second, she gets a lot more motivated or at least open to the idea of getting your cock inside her.

 
One time when I was well along this journey I met a very slim (I love slim girls), super tight Chinese girl. She told me up front there was just no way she could handle me and I was welcome to leave and she’d give me my money back. But I was already really starting to like her (her willingness to give me my money back won quite a few points with me).  So I decided to try something a little different.

 
So, instead of taking her up on her offer of giving my money back and walking (as I had been doing up until that time) I told her not to worry about it. That I would do absolutely nothing without her OK. That I would love to fuck her. But, if that wasn’t possible, I’d like to just spend time with her. And then I asked if it was OK to pleasure her for a while.  She cautiously said OK.

 
And that’s what I did. Because she was obviously a bit afraid of me, I took the opportunity to very gently and lightly tease her until her body was starting to guide me to places she wanted me to go. Ever so slowly, as I learned her rhythms and what she liked I started playing with her until I could see her tension was building for a climax. I edged her a bit. And then when she was so wet and clearly wanting to come quite urgently I let her help me take her over that edge.

 
While her spasms were still subsiding I used my cock to do some gentle stimulation, still in rhythm with her rocking. And then I asked if I could very slowly (Asian girls understand the word “slowly” much better and more quickly than “gently”) try entering her just a little. But I asked her to please tell me to stop at any time and I would completely pull away (demonstrating the “pull away” as I said it).  

 
She nodded and put her hand on my cock so she was in more control and I very gradually entered just a little and stopped. But, since she was still rocking a bit from her O, her hips moved as I started to enter and she ended up bringing me further in. Her eyes got very big and she gasped in surprise and then began grunting deeply as she almost involuntarily rocked her hips and in stages worked be more deeply inside her.  

 
She then involuntarily spasmed, gasped and exclaimed in surprise and no small amount of pleasure, “I take you!” And she proceed to have about 3 more orgasms in rapid succession.

 
The rest of our time together was simply lovely.  

 
I saw her quite a few times after that. And she was never afraid of my size again. Those were some pretty good times.  

 
To make a long story short (too late!), the same approach customized to the specific girl’s preferences, works just as well with kgirls.

 
Since this post has already gotten rather long, I’ll have to do another one about some of the criteria I learned to use in order to find girls who are magnum friendly.  One of those is probably obvious from this story though. If any review indicates that the girl is multi-orgasmic a magnum who is willing to take his time and work her up to it has a shot.

-- Modified on 3/27/2021 9:12:45 AM

Although maybe "slightly" longer than some but certainly not in girth. Not to my knowledge have I been blocked.