for a personal attack is not the way to draw positive attention to yourself. It just brands you as a no-balls coward. I would much rather be thought a douche than a coward. A douche has to do with perceived behaviors. From my ex-military experience perspective, I know that cowardice is a mindset. Once you go down that road, each successive act of cowardice comes more easily, until you are not really a man anymore. The few people that know me personally say my handle suits me. I am likewise not surprised that you identify with a clam, the ultimate "shut-in." Left in the dark with no eyes, filtering nutrients from eating the turds of bigger fishes. Yes, I have no doubt that you are, indeed, THE CLAM.
When you attack somebody, it is also incumbent to check previous threads to make sure you are not stepping on your dick and making a fool of yourself. You obviously didn't know this. There are many examples of useful information I have provided to the Kgirl community in the past, along with testimonials from other members that my suggestions have often worked for them. If you would have checked first, you could have saved yourself some embarrassment.
I will admit that I often like to wisecrack and joke in my posts, which is one of the three types of posts I write, i.e., informational, humorous and controversial. There is a place for all three here, as long as the other members are smart enough to distinguish between the three types. Some are, some, obviously, aren't.
Interestingly, I couldn't find any posts of yours where you "helped" anyone. If that's the only reason we should be here, then why are you here?
. I'm thinking that even with the term added to the definitions all that will really get us is the ability to post the link and text to the question when asked next. Seems like that would open the door to some fun...