There's something satisfying about it. There's also a maddening and deeply unsatisfying aspect.

Why won't an org tell  you if you do something wrong? I spent THOUSANDS with this org  (no naming, sorry).. Suddenly I'm cut off. No answer, no reply to texts,  nothing..  For a guy who prides himself  on being a good guy and has had multiple  AMAZING romps with an org, it SUCKS that there's no feedback whatsoever about what might have gone wrong.

So I got a burner and started over. And  got in. And continue to bang their product. But  it's not the 'victory' I was hoping to feel.

Any one else have this feeling ever? I gave these  folks everything I could afford.. I feel disrespected..

This is the last I'll say about it. Thanks for listening..

sag

Maybe you provided the same PII you used for your first verification as they didn't save it or "adjusted" your ID?

All it takes is one confused and somewhat vindictive PO to cause this problem.  

 
They might think you asked for a 2 hour when you asked for.a one. Or they are insulted by some other misread of one of your texts. That’s all it takes.

 
It nearly happened to me, once. I texted the girl I had seen last and asked her if she’d talk to her PO. Fortunately, that solved the problem.

 
I’m very sorry you had to deal with this.

I;ve never thought to even  ask an RA for her cel, so I wouldn't have thought of that, but interesting. I'm always  brief and plain in  my texts, plenty of please and  thankyous, and have  rarely had to cancel  an appointment and wasn't dinged for it since I'm a  regular and hey shit happens once in a while.

One  thing  that i'm wondering about slightly: I don't tip. Ever. Whether that's a problem could be its own thread, but I don't see it as a tipping game. But maybe I'm wrong.

I've never submitted  a bad  review. I don't believe in doing that. Strokes in public, pokes in private I always say, and I'm even afraid  to share  bad sessions with the PO for fear of getting BL'd when I know there  are other good girls there and an occasional loss is part of  the game.

I've never given an ID. I've been known by many orgs since before that started happening, and I've done my best to maintain those long term relationships with orgs  that I know ask  for ID.

I don't do two hours or half hours ever. The hour is perfect for my game.

This is my first burner and I hate it. Gonna stop using it and just stay with orgs I'm in with.

Any way  thanks for the thought fuel,  guys.

sag

FH did you mean  P411?

I don't use it. Or did you mean P#  as in phone  number?

Best,

sag

the org. Its generally individual girls who block individual customers.  However, if multiple girls block the same guy for the same reason, then oftentimes the booker will go ahead and make the block agency-wide.  The exception is when it comes to going overtime.  If a customer is chronically going past the end time of the session, then its usually the booker who blocks the customer, but again, its sometimes prompted by complaints from the girls.  
 

Just to expand on that a bit, its up to us to get out on time.  There is no legitimate excuse to run overtime.  If you are late arriving, your session still started at the time you booked and ends an hour (or whatever you booked) later.  The average break time is 10-15 minutes, where a girl has to change the linen, freshen her makeup, pee, and be smiling and ready for the next customer.  If that gets shortened by the customer hanging around too long, it means she is going to have to cut out some of the prep for the next customer.  Do you really want your BBFS girls to have to skip the douche between customers because somebody went over?  LOL

 
I'm always amused when I get a PM from a guy who doesn't know why he is blocked, but when I go to his reviews, he likes to brag about how a girl "liked him so much", "or was so into sex with him," that she went overtime.  SHE doesn't go overtime, the customer does.  They will usually not confront you about it, but after you leave, a simple text to the booker makes sure you won't do it again with them.  Just because the girl does not jump up and throw you out when the clock strikes the hour does not mean she isn't pissed about you going overtime.  They know that making a scene at the incall will end up in a negative review.  Silently blocking your next visit will not.  Chronic overtime is the most common reason for an agency-wide block.  .  

 
I'm just giving an example of the way the system works.  I agree its frustrating when you are blocked and don't know why, but its important to try to find out, as SD recently did, so that it doesn't happen again with another girl in the future.  There are many subtleties in this biz that take awhile to figure out.  That's why its important to try to find out if you have done something to get blocked.

PII is a data security industry term that has been included into US and EU legislation on consumer privacy laws.  

PII data elements include things like:  
Name
Address
Phone Number
Email
Age/DOB
SS#
Bank/card Account numbers
Employer/Job Title/Hire Date
Car make/model/license plate
Driver's license number

 
You get the idea....  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Haha bro you are so sneaky.  

Consider yourself lucky - one of my top 5, at my most favorite local agency, BL'ed me and I still don't know why. And I dare not do anything to work around it, risking a BL with this agency. Now I just confirm with the booker after every appointment that the girl is okay. LOL! Walking on eggshells permanently now!

Could be worse!

Now we are all curious for an answer to ‘why were you BL’d?’ Maybe occasionally make an attempt to book under your original persona just for the hell of it?

Or maybe try a different approach. Stop acknowledging the BL (i.e. Why Am I Blocked?) and revert to just requesting a date as if you’re already screened (I would like to book Kim for 8PM).

I ran into that situation with an org that had dropped off my radar. Trying to book after maybe a year of not reaching out to them, I didn’t get denied, I just never got a reply. Called, texted, texted again and no reply. So every few months I would request a date as if I was already screened.  

I sent in a request one day and was booked. Keep in mind this had been around two years since my last visit. After confirming the booking I received a curious message, “BTW, have you seen us before?”  I answered “Yes, but it was about a year and a half ago. I can show Kim my ID upon arrival if you’ld like.”  They replied, “Yes, thanks” and I’ve been good to go ever since.

Thanks for your post,  but I NEVER go overtime. As  stated,  I'm all about doing  my best to be a good soldier,  and courtesy around time managememt is very important to me. Even if  the clock is a bit fast, I respect it.. I might  not go back if I feel like she's doing it too much (I've seen 15 min fast) but I don't fuck around with trying to get over that way. I also never get aggressive with the girls or disrespect a 'no'.

And to your last paragraph, I've texted requests for explanation and not gotten any answer.

In the end though, it's "oh, well", because I don't want to stir up the hornets nest and get banned anywhere else. I love the game and there are other fields to play on.

Thanks for your post. Mad respect to you for taking the time to make some thoughtful points.

sag

Just a couple. I'm trying to not be a dick and just move on. I figure this is not the type of arena where you want to piss people off so I'm coming to the conclusion that it might  be a  good idea to  let the sleeping dog lie,  as they  say.

sag