First and foremost I will say that every agency/booker I've worked with is solid. Zero complaints. Although there have been a few "kind of" disappointments (overly photoshopped, girls who don't do generally expected services), I don't hold any sort of bad blood. Due to well...life, not just COVID, I find myself booking less often. When I do book, it's typically with the same agency. For those who are curious, my review history is indicative of the agency I frequent the most.

It’s one of the rules I try to keep in mind with mongering, and many other things.  

Yeah I guess my intention isn't to burn bridges but more like unsubscribe with the possibility of resubscribing later. My biggest worry is having my personal info out there. Otherwise, I would just stop contacting them. I don't think I'm quite ready to leave mongering, but my visits have basically become just frequent enough to keep my VIP status on TER.

If they say they would delete it after it’s already been handed over, how would you know?  Asking because I had one tell me they would delete it after sending my info, but I opted to go the slower HX route to get approved to avoid worrying about deleting it or not.

Just like another poster said, they might say you're "unsubscribed" but you still may be on their books.

I’ve never had a booker reach out to directly solicit either - but I’m also not one of the high-volume players.  However - they have my number and so do some of the girls and I’ve had girls text out of the blue and later told me the booker told them to reach out to me and tell me they missed me to get me to come back.  Not sure if it’s true - if it was the booker or the girl - but it’s closest I’ve experienced to a solicit tactic.  

I tried to change phone number and some bookers still kept my old number. I ended up keeping my old number because I don't want them to confuse me with someone else. I still get unsolicited texts from bookers I haven't used in years.
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It may not be of any comfort to you but don't worry about having your personal info out there. Just remember next time don't give info to booker or girl that may worry you later and use burner phone.
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It doesn't hurt to ask bookers to remove your number and personal info. The good bookers may actually do that. That doesn't mean their affiliates will remove it too.
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There are ways to somewhat confirm if your info is really removed.

i swapped irl numbers with a girl once, she lost it and asked the PO for my burner number. i was happy that she got in contact just to keep in touch, but initially freaked me out when i received the text

What kind of personal info are you giving to bookers?  All they have for me is my hobby phone number and a first name.  If they want to keep that forever, who cares?  

routinely shoot me a text every time a new girl comes on their roster.  Its not really annoying when its not incessant.  But when I have a girlfriend,  I will use that as an excuse to buy time, because she takes up one of my hobby days and that  affects my ability to see more girls. I also have a LOT of Kgirls who  have my number that will directly send the direct solicitation "I miss you" text once every six to eight weeks if I haven't been to see them lately.  If they catch me with a unfilled hobby day that week, it often pays off for them.

What was are available?

I started this hobby less than a year ago, so I had to give verification info to several bookers for screening purposes. Once I had a few bookers verify me, I tried using them as references unsuccessfully for another. They don't seem to answer their calls/texts when that is the subject matter.

I gave up on trying to monger in Portland. Though I might have been willing to keep it up if I’d been able to find any Asian girls at all, much less k-girls.

I imagine one of the wahs to confirm is to try booking a session with that number, after several weeks, and see if they ask for screening info.

I actually try to stay on their lists because it's pretty easy to get kicked-off. Then you have to go through screening again. In today's world, screening is a LOT tougher than it was a few years ago.I haven't asked to be removed, but I doubt they would do it. Should anything go wrong, they want your information. I tested out an agency and they keep very detailed information. They know who I've seen, and they know what I like. I learned this when I tried to book a girl, and they responded that I may not like her because she is a very big girl. I was thankful for the tip and didn't see her. But I was also weirded out a bit that they know my habits that well.

Portland is mostly skanky tattoo girls and butterfaces, unfortunately. Although some of the more interesting dates I have had were with girls from Portland. One girl really, and I mean really, liked to be spanked. She offered to pick me up from the airport next time I was in town and go directly to her place. Keep it weird Portland.

Sounds kinky.

Yeah, the girls in NYC can be shall we say, a bit aggressive. What happens when there are more women than men. Girls need to blow off steam, too. Also, why pay-to-play. They can be a bit 'stalkerish' shall I say. Where I learned the term "tree boxing".

Yeah I didn't do a lot of p4p n NYC. BUT.